posted February 10, 2007 08:23 AM            

Unless the Scorpio personally reminder her of her abuser, then it doesn't make sense to me.

posted February 10, 2007 11:48 AM              

childhood sexual abuse is most likely to occur by a trusted family member or friend of the family...someone trusted and cared for, all the more expanding the devestation and damaging the ability for intimate trust.
With her fiance, it would be giving herself entirely over in trust. Perhaps the other guy was more a stranger she could disassociate her emotions from and therefore remain safe.
Not having such experience myself, I can't say for sure, but just some thoughts.

Agreed, Silver. And understood about devotion as well, Scorpionic Web.

I often cannot relate to a lot of generalized description of Sagittarius.
People, like me with a spread out chart are going to feel left out of a lot of astrological discussions, like so often happen here.

I was entirely devoted to my husband...wouldn't think of flirting with other men. I just wouldn't have disrespected nor hurt him in that way and he was the same with me.
I'm very intense in relationships, considerate, cautious and thoughtful in speech...etc, etc, so many things that would defy typical Sag descriptions.

As for 1922 (lol)...pressed for time and writing in a rush, but for now I would say devotion yes, as long as it isn't slavery. But, I think that would be an extreme conclusion selling you short, Scorpionic. Because you have an attraction for Sag women and vice-versa, you must have an understanding for their Free Spirits and how devistating limitation would be to it.
A Sagittarian with clipped wings, is such a sorrowful sight.
I'm not at all talking about faithfullness. Sag, when they truly Love someone, love with EVERYTHING of themselves entirely. Nothing half-hearted. I'm just speaking of their need to have Freedom for exploring this wondrous life on their own, whether that be philisophically, spiritually, socially, etc.

I was thinking yesterday of how Scorpio is so perceived as secretive and able to hide their emotions. With Scorpio, sometimes they give themselves away (how affected they are)by witholding communication or givings, etc. Sag in some ways are oftentimes more secretive in a sense than Scorpio, because they are consumate actors in life. Sometimes the more hurt they are, the less anyone may be the wiser, for they would continue to smile, love and give. Something inside of them will be over. But they keep it inside. In a rush so only hope this makes sense.

posted February 10, 2007 12:59 PM              

Saggies are great fun but dont personally know any faithful ones. My cousin who was married for 10 years left her husband and 4 kids for her husband's younger cousin. My Mum's friend, who is a saggie, broke up her current bf's marriage but as far as I know she's still with him so maybe that's a lasting thing. A great friend of mine that I adore flits from guy to guy even after she swears each one is "the one".