posted March 19, 2007 08:12 PM              

Maybe I got lots of fire so don't exhibit unresponsiveness in communication matters. At times we might not communicate, however its due to time availability - keeping it pending and replying when have time to do so, rather than replying in hurry (again this should be rare).

posted March 19, 2007 08:21 PM            

We almost went two whole days without a Pisces man problem.. awww and we were doing so well.

posted March 19, 2007 08:26 PM            

But Miss Gemini always and I mean always complains and passes sarcastic remarks.. saying that we randomly disappear off the face of the planet or asking if we ever use our mobile phones lol (and why we bought them in the first place if we refuse to use them)

It's like "what? I disappeared? when'd that happen?"

posted March 19, 2007 08:43 PM            

After I replied to this thread I thought to myself..hmmm so where is my mobile anyway? Then went looking for it around the house. I still can't find it LOL I tried calling it but it's off.

See what I mean?

posted March 20, 2007 07:49 PM            

I respond fast about work related things where I have responsibility, but everything else just fades into the background...

Every-time I pick up my phone there are missed calls and texts... I respond when I find my phone like this but since most of the time I put my phone down and then forget where it is... Out of sight out of mind LOL, people often think I purposely ignore them, its not true... Im just not aware that people are trying to communicate with me

posted March 20, 2007 09:10 PM            

But what about when a pisces man(or someone with a 12th house sun/ pisces ascendant)is attracted to a woman. Would he still be that inactive in his communication or actions?

posted March 20, 2007 09:27 PM              

The thing that's funny about him is he always pops up when I am not anticipating the POP..... I think Retro Mercury people communicate completely nontraditionally--add in Pisces and well you have surprises on your hand. I do not even pay him any mind with his communication habits. Our styles are radically different and always will be but for some odd rreason he seems to really treasure my notes, and letters and poetry and I appreciate that thoughtful tortured mulled over response..LOL. Like he'll say...I like the way you say things, I like the words you use when you write...

posted March 20, 2007 10:49 PM              

Even though I got bit of fire in my chart, I would still be on the sidelines when attracted to someone. I think, being aware of our own communication glitches, would make us shy away from interacting up front. Keeping quiet is preferred to showing communication problems … right? Also we are not sure of ourselves whether we want someone (making up our mind on such matters takes time).
Sometimes it’s just that we can’t speak OR get thoughts in mind, to speak about (like a frozen mummy). Somehow keeping quiet is seen wise by us (underlying spirituality).

Also we are not strong in our views of things, that we don’t give importance either way, so we remain mum until the discussion is something which interests us. Then our interests would never be same as what the world is interested in. Even if something of interest comes up in mind, it is kept inside to ponder over it, to absorb it completely rather than discussing it with someone. I guess its bit difficult to explain

I think it’s not fear or rejection, however it’s more to do with ‘what you want’. So its like if someone wants me, let her come to me. We would always ‘feel’ (rather than talk) any situation (be it personal or be it at work). If we get unfavorable response for something, we would be on back- foot. If things don’t destine itself we won’t do much about it (going with the flow - unless we got ourselves involved into the other person more than normal to take some action). Even then we wait for signs, whether someone likes us or not etc.

Disclaimer – all thoughts are from my perspective, don’t want to generalize to all those bold Pisceans

Lillygirl,
And sometimes I too like the way you write . Think it’s the creativity aspect that makes us catch hold of such things and value them. I used to ask my Gem to use all kinds of words from literature in her emails so that I could improve upon them (she studied English literature in her post-graduation studies, as compared to my normal school english)

posted March 21, 2007 11:02 AM              

Funny about your Gemini friend, my course of university study (my major) was English also. And I have freelance written for much of my life.

posted March 21, 2007 09:15 PM              

Think we are more likely to act when we develop deep feelings for someone, instead of normal attraction/interest of first few meetings. However there is a possibility of stepping back seeing some negative sign (like other person is involved/interested in someone else).

Hope you find your answers.

posted March 21, 2007 11:59 PM            

Anna you asked about Pisces and water signs. Villy, I think you posted your chart before or talked about it because I remember you having lots of Aries there. I’m an Aries myself (Pisces Merc and Jupiter) but I wouldn’t say water is my main influence.. I’m very fiery/earthy.

What you said here:

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I think it’s not fear or rejection, however it’s more to do with ‘what you want’. So its like if someone wants me, let her come to me.

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I can see this applying to me. I’ve actually noticed this to be a fire trend not a water trend.. so maybe it’s coming from the Aries in your chart lol

I know for instance a Pisces guy who had no Aries in his chart. He was in love with my friend and when she went up to speak to him, he was hiding under the register lol He was afraid to make eye contact.. so sweet, so Pisces.. so not Aries lol