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Topic: Calling all Capricorn Sun Men
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CapGirl
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posted September 18, 2007 04:09 PM
 
Well, don't start asking him to tell you! You did good by playing it off and keeping it light and fun. I think he was "testing you", maybe not deliberately but subconsciously, to make sure there weren't alot of expectations there. Sounds like you've got a "squirrely one"! lol Enjoy the ride.  IP: Logged |
CoralFrequency
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posted September 18, 2007 05:32 PM
Jupiter, I don't think he's in love with you.. If a person was actually in love, they wouldn't say that, even as a joke imoBut Caps.. I have a Cap moon.. wouldn't fall in love quickly, so I'm not surprised he isn't in love with you. I also don't get the impression that you are in love with him.. so I don't think this is a problem.
Would you say that you're "in love"? It sounds like you both like each other.. but not *very* in love.. not yet anyway. I think he just wants to feel safe with you.. like you're an emotionally independent person, not someone who will give him more headaches and problems than he already has or someone who has her head in the clouds and dreams about the perfect love of her life - which he knows he isn't - because Capricorns are very down to earth and don't like to get involved in dramatic relationships.. so I think he's testing to see how practical you are. Capgirl, if someone was straight forward with me and honestly told me.. that they would never feel that way.. I would actually much appreciate their honesty, because most people would never be that honest, and I always want to know exactly where I stand with a person . But if he said it with a double agenda.. it wouldn't work so well, because I would take that quite seriously and move on. IP: Logged |
watergoddess
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posted September 18, 2007 05:50 PM
My relationship with the Capricorn started up with a huge bang. We were bf/gf then he pulled away; I got really emotional. I have gone over to see him at his house; that's always worked out very well. Today I see him pretty regularly...dunno if we are still bf/gf. If actions count, then yes. Words? Then no. And must be something in the heavens because currently he's very worried about his career/money.IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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posted September 18, 2007 07:57 PM
Sounds puzzling to me. He wants to see you, but he wants you not to expect anything from him. He doesn't want you to think it's going to be a romantic trip perhaps, but maybe he doesn't want to commit to it not being a romantic trip either.The theories offered up so far have been good. We Capricorns do test people, and we don't make our minds up quickly when it comes to love. We can do casual affairs as long as it's clearly defined as that from the start. Our actions do often speak more loudly than our words. I also strongly agree with the notion that he could be testing your emotional reaction. That you took that comment in stride is pretty amazing, and does speak well of you. For him, you just proved that you can accept him even when he's an idiot. I don't think most Capricorns would have reacted as well as you did to that line. I don't know what to make of it overall. Caps and Sags make great friends, and that can translate into a lasting relationship, but perhaps he's still thinking that he needs the passionate relationships that he might be getting out of water Suns or something. Passion is nice, but if there's no friendship it's very hard on the relationship. He could also be disqualifying you based on how you look or act. We've all seen how pretty you are, but if he can't envision you by his side as he socializes with the richest or most powerful people in the world, then he may think you're not a good long term candidate. You can be pretty sure he views every relationship based on it's long term potential. If you can highlight how helpful and supportive you are and show that you do have a more serious and thoughtful side, perhaps you can turn around his perception if this happens to be the problem. IP: Logged |
jupitersgirl
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posted September 19, 2007 03:47 AM
Great theories everyone, thanks a lot  .
He's not in love with me, I know that very well. I fell in love with him at first sight and I never thought that such things could happen. He wasn't in love with me but I also knew that he was strongly attracted to me because he was staring at me all the time ALL the time I was around him and even people around us were telling me he was looking at me all the time. We got intimate once and it was 4 years ago, after that he was trying to keep me away from him but he was acting unbalanced. He always kept looking at me, and he never knew how to treat me. He was hot and cold.By the way I always stayed away from his all these years, because I'm not a pushy type at all. He never believed in a relationship with me. I don't think that he went to a university. His family had (has)economic problems, their life is not easy. Compared to my life, this is exactly the opposite. (He was working at the place that I was having my vacation.) I really hate to count all these like that but I think he thinks about these that's why I'm pointing them out. In January he had the chance to work in my country but it didn’t work out. The thing that was confusing me is that he was acting like we would be in a relationship if he worked in my country, and I know very well that it would happen because he would be staying here for at least 1-2 years. Then things didn’t happen as he wanted them to be, he returned to his country and kept quiet for some months. Now he established his own work there, he feels a little bit better I guess. He has challanged me a lot but in return I know that I’ve impressed him a lot by my actions. Four years ago he used to think that I was a spoiled 18 year old girl who thinks about nothing but partying and things like that, but we never had a real conversation with him then. Now like I said we could have stayed on the phone till morning. I love to talk to him and it’s not because I’m in love with him, it’s because we think so much alike, our conversations are always interesting, fun and even exciting (It’s like that for him too, he sounds very happy and actually excited when we talk.) . I should also add that he’s not the talkative type around most people, people think that he’s very cold . He is a loner. I used to think so too but since January I found out a very loving side of him.My love is growing into something deeper, I’m really getting to know more about his personality now and I love it and I also know that he feels the same way about me. What I’m saying is that I think his physical attraction to me that started four years ago when we first met, is starting to grow into something else. He talks about everything to me and normally he doesn’t do that to most people , he usually keeps everything to himself.He likes me a lot, I’m sure of that but to fall in love is something completely different I also know that, but I think even though he’s not in love with me, he started to love my personality as he gets to know me better and when we add this with “his liking me a lot”, wouldn’t it be enough to start a relationship? I would be if he was here but he’s not here for now. All I want now is to talk to him once in a while and see him whenever it’s possible, I’m not expecting anything else at the moment. I know that when he comes here it will be something romantic, because it was something romantic in January , it was like a dream, I didn’t know what to expect when I went to meet him then because as I said he acts weird at times, but he was so loving and caring it was really amazing, like I said he was really acting like he was in love with me. I think he doesn’t want me to expect a relationship with him and he’s right about that.
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