posted April 21, 2007 10:45 PM              

Lynx, I'm not so sure you would want to put that as your default pic. Virgos like aesthetically pleasing pictures. Anything that calms a person down, pastel colors, or if they are royal colors, they should be of good taste. Virgos are quite traditional, after all.

Though I'm not a guy, I know Virgos like anything that will put a new twist to something mundane. Witty comments and beautiful poetry are somethings you can start thinking about doing. Virgos are ruled by mercury- the way to us is through our heads. Dance with our minds, and we're yours. But don't play games- we won't trust you. Never make us believe something that's not true, we'll scorn you for it, b/c we pride ourselves on being real and down to earth. However, that doesn't mean that you can't be a bubbly person. As a matter of fact, that is probably what attracted the virgo to you in the first place.

Try to make things in your room be in symmetry and not lopsided. Personally, one of my pet peeves is seeing something mispelled. It catches my eye and I will not rest until I criticize it or change it.

Virgos are attracted to beautiful scents, soft skin, slow music, and the whole romantic package. If you don't like to do it in the shower, try in a pool or on the beach. Anything dealing w/ clean water would be good...so let your imagination soar! Describing fantasies in great detail or reading a romantic book will turn him on...I'm sure getting kama sutra book will let him not only discover varieties of positions, it'll be easy to do b/c it's broken down in steps (A virgo favorite- anything w/ instructions makes virgo's life easier).

posted April 22, 2007 02:06 AM              

My Virgo has a Sag ascendant, Libra moon.
I have a Libra ascendant and Cancer moon.
(All I have to do is try not to be too emotional all the time. I KNOW Virgos hate self-pity.)

posted April 22, 2007 06:11 AM              

And, yes, to other signs all of this is 'too much trouble' but for a Virgo it's natural and expected.

posted April 23, 2007 05:11 AM              

To answer your first question:

"would you have contacted the girl after this? I kinda know the answer, but I need to hear it. What would you feel about her and what happened?"

No, I would not have contacted 'the girl' after this. If this was a first meeting then I wouldn't think much about it other than if I found 'the girl' attractive. The reason why is simple. I haven't known her that long. No water has, as they say, gone under the bridge. All I would have to go on was the fact that I thought 'the girl' was attractive. I liked being with her, she smelt nice, touching her was arousing, being close to her was intoxicating. That would be enough for me to think about her. But I wouldn't make the effort to call her because I don't really feel that I'm in a position, at this stage, to call her. It's okay being in a house with three girls, that's kinda kool, especially being the only guy, but I would not presume that I could call her anytime of the day or night. I would need to spend some time with 'the girl' first.

Furthermore, this guy has a Taurus Sun, so he's also going to be a little 'slower' at responding to anything. Taurus is a fixed sign which means that they don't like change too much, it also means that they don't move that quickly to do anything. Taurus is patient (the nagative side of this is stubornness), and their roll in life is to teach that love is patient. So, in a way, he's teaching you patience. It's like Aquas teach the world to be tolorant. Or Librians who teach their partners to be fair minded and to look at options.

To answer your second question. There could be any number of reasons why he does not answer you. Some of them quite normal. He might not be in, his mobile might be on charge, he might not have anything to say to you, he might not want to talk to you because you might not be what he wants. He might want to see you but there is something else that you are not aware of which is preventing him from doing so. Maybe, at this moment in his life he has other, more pressing problems, that you don't know about. I would go with the positive and think that he is trying to figger out what to do. He is unclear about who he wants, and since he is a Taurus, he is going to drag his heals before he makes a move. So, what to do... BE PATIENT! Wait, see what happens. Don't say anything that will offend him because Taurus is a sign that does not forgive very easily.

Taurus likes GIFTs. Find out what aftershave he wears and send it to him as a gift. Taurus has a strong sense of smell so you could send him a gift with the perfume you were wearing, if you were wearing any at the meeting, that is. For example, say a little teddy bear, sprayed in the perfume. Ask him "does he like the smell of the bear?" You could be very provocative and say "it's what I wear to bed at night" See how he responds.

I wouldn't presume that the girl he is 'swooning' about is you. It sounds more like it's your best friend.

However, my advice to you is use the power of astrology to bag your man. Getting with any person, male or female, with a Virgo moon won't be easy. However, if you are forwarned you are forarmed, so 'be patient' and see what happens. Don't give up.

He wants to see if you WILL give up. He respects DETERMINATION, so show him determination, he respects PATIENTS, so show that you can be patient.

posted April 23, 2007 03:46 PM              

When dealing with 'uncertainty' the BEST advice I can give you is to study the subject of RISK MANAGEMENT. It's a business skill but I've used it, as a logical Virgo, to help myself make decisions and deal with most of life's uncertainties. The best book I can recoomend to get started is a book by Dan Borge called The Book Of Risk published by Wiley. ISBN 0-471-32378-0. You can get it from Amazon.

This book will point out all the basics you need to know about making Decision Trees: The Art of Decision Making. Although it's aimed at CEO's, it will simplify your life. Armed with this knowledge and Astrology's wisdom, you should be able to be one step ahead of the game.

posted April 24, 2007 12:52 AM            

It doesn't hurt as much as things like this usually hurt me. I feel like he's still there, even if he's not there for me. Like he's a very supportive, good natured person.

posted April 24, 2007 01:43 AM            

I cried a lot since my last post. I can't hold it back. He's the best thing that's happened to me in a long time. But deep in my gut, I knew he wouldn't be mine. I wanted my instincts to be wrong. I wanted him to either confirm that he's taken or ask me out. He hasn't done either. We sat together in class tonight and exchanged notes and jokes. I didn't see these new pics until I got home and felt curious.

I cried until I got down on my hands and knees and decided to thank the god and goddess. It's like that post in the Free for All. He was meant to come into my life for a reason, a big reason. He healed my soul in a big way, just by his extraordinary decency. I never truly felt good in my skin until him. I could feel angry towards him for being with her, but she went for him first and I want him to be bountifully happy because of this gift he's given me.

posted April 25, 2007 06:01 AM              

To answer your first question:

1. I think he is unsure of what to do. I don't think he is confused I just think he will take some time to decide if you are a serious option for him. The best thing to do is wait. See what happens, see if he calls, or if not, send him a card to prompt him to call. I think most of all he wants to know if you are determined enough to get him. We are all human, and we all want attention. To some people, attention equals love. If no attention is given, then we assume that they are not interested. But that, sadly, is not always the case. When he does call make time for him, talk to him. Taurus like jokes, giggles, cooing, funny slurpy sounds, that butters their biscuit. A good sense of homour is a must for a Taurus. Yes, the joke was an attempt on his behalf to talk to you.

2. If he was tempted to meet with you then I would suggest that he has some interest in you. There could be something holding him back. Not sure what, everyone has their own reasons for doing things. He might feel that if you met he might not be able to control what happens, so he reluctantly refuses to go. Or it might be that he is just stalling, leading you on; making you think that there might be a chance. But I don't think that he is the malicious type; it's just his way do dealing with the situation. Unfortunately, his behaviour is causing you distress.

With all oppositions there are two possible outcomes. The first is to take the extreme points: you take a partizan view, take sides with one of the planets against the other. But the right way, the second option, is to balance the opposing forces, the energies of the planets involved, and come to some kind of compromise. That's the Libra approach and it's the benchmark of all 'relationships'.

3. There really isn't a safe approach. Relationships can be 'open war'. That's one of the areas the 7th house represents, open enemies, open conflict.

I would recommend that you do the Arian thing and confront the issue head on. At the end of the day you have got to be yourself. If he is going to like you, he's got to take you as you are. If not, then leave. Move on and find someone better.