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Topic: Virgo Men and Relationships
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MoonDreamer81
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posted April 07, 2007 06:12 PM
 
Hey everyone!I'm kinda seeing a Double Virgo man and he is constantly confusing me!Our relationship will be intense for a few months...then he'll back off and say he only wants to be "friends".So I'll give him some space,and sure enough a few weeks later everything will be back to normal!He has backed off and come back twice since we've been talking...so I'm not sure what to make of it!We've not officialy met in person...only chatted online and on the phone,so I know he's not just after sex!I've heard that Virgo males can get kinda freaked out when they have intense feelings and this causes them to retreat.He also has trust issues because his ex-fiance cheated on him right before their wedding...I'm wondering if maybe he's afraid of getting hurt that way again!I'm a Taurus and DEFINATELY loyal!Any Virgo men(especially double Virgos) care to clue me in on the Virgo mindset??~His Venus(my ruling planet)is conjunct my NN if that means anything and I definately feel a strong connection! IP: Logged |
izodesmozina
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posted April 07, 2007 06:50 PM
OMG!!! I just had to reply, your words sound like deja-vu to me!**details deleted**
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MoonDreamer81
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posted April 07, 2007 06:55 PM
Thx. Izo!!So I know it's not just me!!I'm very patient(Taurus..hehe  )Maybe he is just freaked out about his feelings...or maybe I'm livin in a fantasy world!LOL!------------------
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izodesmozina
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posted April 07, 2007 07:06 PM
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babeefoxx
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posted April 08, 2007 11:28 PM
I feel you on this situation. My boyfriend is a Virgo (Cancer asc , Libra moon) So mine might have been a bit more confusing than yours. From Cold to passionate to detached. It's all Virgo though. You say you have not met in person? My situation was very similar at first. We met through a friend and met in person a couple months later. Virgo's wont admit that they are anxious, but having such a connection with someone and waiting and not being able to see if the connection is real in person is depressing to them. They may even detach themselves from the situation to avoid excess stress.(He shared such a thing to me a couple months AFTER we met.) Virgo's insecurity is a hard thing to get over, since they already have that typical Virgo "I trust you, show me disloyalty and I'll never trust you again", mindset(at least mine does). You have to be together in person for him to feel just a bit better about the situation and you being a Taurus is even better, since you two obviously have many similarities. Don't pressure him into telling the story again, but listen when he talks about it. Let him know he can trust you and that you'll be there regardless. My friend's mother (astrologer) told me being in a relationship with a Virgo is like signing a contract. They rarely cheat and are sympathetic always when it comes to their mate, even when they seem just a little cold hearted. They take love very seriously and maybe that's why he's so scared about getting hurt again. ------------------
I'm just an Aries who's madly in love with a Virgo. S: Aries
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MoonDreamer81
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posted April 09, 2007 12:16 AM
Ok...Thx!He seems like a sincerely sweet guy!!But I've also heard Virgo guys are players and he DOES have a lot of female friends.We don't live in the same city,so that makes it tougher!:-( But I'm tryin my best not to let my natural Taurus Sun/Scorpio Moon jealousy get the better of me!We're back in the "just friends" stage right now!Hopefully if I just give him his space he'll miss me and call or IM me soon!------------------
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GrlyGirl20
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posted April 09, 2007 02:49 AM
To MoonDreamer81:Your story sounds EXACTLY like mine. I have been dealing with an older virgo sun/mer male who I could have sworn has gradually lost interest in me. We met online (as much as I hate admitting that), and we've yet to meet (even though we only live 2 hours away). In the beginning he used to call quite a bit and we talked all the time. But gradually his calls and messages have been less frequent. And I went to track his activity on the website and it said he was looking for something (that I won't bother saying what it is). I feel like he is losing interest and I have a taurus venus...so I'm fixed and have decided I want him (hopefully he was the same he has a taurus mars). But I'm also impatient because of my sun/mars in the 1st house. Here are our placements:
Mine:
Asc: Cancer
Sun: Cancer 1st
Moon: Cap 7th
Mer: Leo 2nd
Ven: Tau 11th
Mars Can 1st His Placements:
Asc: Leo
Sun: Virgo
Moon: Scorpio
Mer: Virgo
Ven: Lib
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MoonDreamer81
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posted April 09, 2007 07:56 AM
**Update** HE'S BACK!!!(for now anyway!)Those confusing Virgo men!!  ------------------
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MoonDreamer81
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posted April 09, 2007 08:04 AM
To GirlyGrl20:If your man is anything like mine(which it sounds like he is) try not to worry about it and just give him his space!When he realizes what he's missin,he'll be back chasin you around!Good Luck!!------------------
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Lynx
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posted April 09, 2007 02:43 PM
Gah. Gods, save my soul, I don't know what I'm going to do. I'm quadruple Aqua, all air and fire planets. And I'm into a Virgo/Scorp.He walks with me after our class every Monday and we always bump into each other on campus. We share smiles and conversation. Then finally, we exchanged MySpaces(his idea). All the girls on his MySpace are big girls like me. All he likes is big, with dark hair and glasses. I finally gave in and told him that I like him. He looked up at me and said, "Thank you." I haven't seen or heard from him in a week. *groans* ------------------
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MoonDreamer81
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posted April 09, 2007 04:13 PM
Maybe since you're fire/air and he's earth/water y'all can balance each other out!!It'll prob take some effort though!------------------
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Lynx
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posted April 09, 2007 04:19 PM
I just looked at our progressed charts. It seems that my moon has progressed into Scorpio and a lot of his planets have progressed into Libra and Leo. I don't know if that counts for anything.------------------
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izodesmozina
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posted April 10, 2007 04:03 AM
Mine is back, too! I wonder what's up next...
Ladies, hang in there and good luck with your men!IP: Logged |
izodesmozina
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posted April 10, 2007 04:19 AM
Lynx,
let's say it counts and the progressions are significant (I dunno progressions, never studied them completely). But the bottom line is that you are fire/air and he is earth/water, even if, for now, you might behave in certain situations like the other. But you have to face the fact that your manner of self-expression, of reacting to circumstances, of thinking, feeling, everything, is different...
I don't want to burst your bubble, but this is an idea you don't have to neglect. Finding a common ground will always be difficult with the two of you. I'm not saying it can't be done - hey, it's just a matter of free will after all - but don't expect it to be easy. The aspects in the synastry will play a very important part, even though the signs are not so compatible.
I hope everything works out in your best interest!  Izo PS: I do not mean to offend or upset you in any way; I am just saying: "don;t get your hopes up too high, stay alert". IP: Logged |
hereisgone
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posted April 10, 2007 07:53 AM
Finally! Other people besides me talking about Virgos, lol! Though I'm sorry to hear that they're being difficult for you too.  Mine is a Virgo/Gem(asc)/Taurus(moon) and here's how he acts (note that we live about 2-3 hours apart).When he's here, there's only about 2 days we get to see each other. When we're alone, he can be very lovey (he loves to lay around and just kiss). But he's a bit stand-offish in public in the sense that he never holds my hand and actually introduces me as "this chick i met online" (ouch! the burn ). Yes, we did meet online, but we've known each other in person for almost 4 months now! And to top it all off, I rarely ever hear from him when he's not in town, which was 2 or 3 weeks this last time. He forwarded me a funny email after I forwarded him one. And I accidentally called him (wrong quick dial, lol) on Saturday - but he was really happy to hear from me and we talked for about 20 minutes before I had to go. He said he was bored and lonely and hadn't hung out with anyone in a week. When I asked why he hadn't called me then if he was lonely, he just said "I dunno" and changed the subject. *bigsigh* I'll see him again on Thursday for lunch. I'm not ready to give up and let him go. We've both been through a bad last/first relationship. His broke up with him to date someone else. Mine was a disaster from the start. Sometimes I think he's just testing me, other times I think I need to cut my losses now before I love him too much. IP: Logged |
MoonDreamer81
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posted April 10, 2007 10:58 AM
What's up with all these Virgo guys liking girls several hours away??Is it that "martyr" complex they all seem to have?No surprise they'd meet people online though with their ruling planet being Mercury(communication)...
hereisgone-
"When we're alone, he can be very lovey (he loves to lay around and just kiss). But he's a bit stand-offish in public in the sense that he never holds my hand and actually introduces me as this chick i met online (ouch! the burn ). Yes, we did meet online, but we've known each other in person for almost 4 months now!" This totally makes sense!Not saying it's a good thing just that it makes sense!I read somewhere that Virgos are likely to seem aloof in public because they are afraid other people will see that they actually have "passions".They want to appear cool and under control!
Best of luck to all of us!!Hey we need to start a support group!LOL! "Virgo Men and the Women Who Love Them"
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Lynx
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posted April 10, 2007 01:45 PM
Last night, I was feeling down about the situation. Then I remembered when he was walking me towards the campus gate. I forgot where my cellphone was and was looking all throughout my bag. Then, after much panic, I found my phone in a compartment I rarely ever use. Then, the strap on the main compartment broke so that my bag was hanging open. He offered to give me his shoelace for it. It's things like that which make me like him and also make it difficult for me to believe that he'd ever let me down. ------------------
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MoonDreamer81
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posted April 10, 2007 02:20 PM
Yea....Virgos love "fixin stuff"!!Gotta love 'em!!------------------
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hereisgone
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posted April 10, 2007 03:51 PM
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Hey we need to start a support group!LOL! "Virgo Men and the Women Who Love Them"
LOL! I love it! Hmm, I never thought about him being aloof in public to show being in control. Makes perfect sense though. I'd thought about taking his hand one day when we walked up the street to a restaurant, but didn't cause I thought he just didn't want to. With this thought in mind, makes me wonder how he'd react... hmmmm.... lol. IP: Logged |
sag_girl
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posted April 10, 2007 03:56 PM
Would a Cancer Sun with Mars in Virgo act the same way (i.e. taking it WAAAY slow)??IP: Logged |
MoonDreamer81
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posted April 10, 2007 07:03 PM
I would still like to get a Virgo...especially Virgo sun AND moon MAN'S perspective on all of this....Help all us girls know y'all better and the way y'all think...  ------------------
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GrlyGirl20
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posted April 11, 2007 01:18 AM
I'm trying to stay diligent and not think about virgo guy. I really like him, and even though it was only online...I know that he is a sweet man. I'm hoping he'll contact me again, and that he hasn't lost interest. This is just so out of the blue, as is him going back on the website more. And looking for something online. We've haven't talked in a week now, and I've messaged him a bit telling him I was thinking about him, and that my roommate would be gone soon. I just don't get how you could talk to someone for close to two months, and then all of a sudden lose complete interest in them out of the blue. Especially since he was a taurus mars and scorpio moon. I thought he would be fixed. IP: Logged |
Lynx
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posted April 11, 2007 07:15 PM
He has new MySpace photos. They are all cheesy but my heart? It goes thump thump thump thump.------------------
I'm mad, you're mad, we're all mad. - Cheshire Cat IP: Logged |
MoonDreamer81
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posted April 11, 2007 07:20 PM
Yea...that's where I "met" mine!!Thank the Lord for dear sweet MySpace!!LOL!Or actually he found me....sent me a friend request!!------------------
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Lynx
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posted April 11, 2007 07:22 PM
We exchanged ours at the library computers.  IP: Logged |
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