posted April 14, 2007 03:43 PM              

quote:

---

If a woman's Mars is in Aquarius, she can be most impressed by men who are somewhat unconventional or kooky in their choice of clothes and overall style. She wants an interesting man. He can certainly be handsome, but boring? Hardly. A man with a brain is important, although she won't be attracted to a brainy type. Somebody who is perceptive, a little unconventional, and perhaps somewhat aloof is most attractive. Rigid or boring types simply won't do.

---

so, yes going by what it says above, foreplay with me starts from when I am talking to the guy,someone that is witty is very much a turn on, but he has to be a bit of a rebel too.
I am a total flirt and a tease (with the right guy) I get him so turned on and I get myself so turned on that but the time we get to the house or anywhere else it is so hot that there is nothing else to say but rush into getting naked and touching and kissing very passionately.
But of course I also like variety so i may just stop what we are doing and take control and tease him until he can't stand it no more, other times I like to be controlled.
I very much like variety and will probably try most everything once.

Any takers *laughs ( kidding)

Here is something else I found for people like me

quote:

---

Venus in Air, Mars in Air (Romantic Air, Airy Desires): In love, you are youthful, intelligent, spirited, and mostly cool-headed, or you are drawn to partners with these qualities. You need a certain amount of space—freedom of movement, both physically and mentally—in any relationship, and restrictive or possessive partners turn you off. Your mind needs to be stimulated in order for your sexual passions to engage.
Not as empathetic as some, you are really quite rational when it comes to expressing yourself romantically and sexually. You offer your partners a certain level of freedom to be who they are, and you appreciate the same in return.
You value being friends with your partners as well as lovers, and you're a good friend, too! You are a playful, spontaneous, and light-hearted lover who considers communication to be a key "ingredient" in relationships. You respond most lovingly to verbal expressions of interest and affection. You are turned off by partners (or potential partners) who are uncommunicative. As long as there is what you consider to be an open and flowing communication between yourself and your partner, you feel loved and appreciated.
You can be a real flirt, sometimes promising a little more than you can deliver. Your partners find you lively, intelligent, and fun, although a tad aloof at times. There is an ephemeral quality to you that keeps others guessing, and perhaps not always trusting that you will stick around.
In truth, you do need plenty of stimulation in order to keep your interest.

---

posted April 14, 2007 05:00 PM            

Hi NAM I just saw your post on myspace!!! too bad you don't have messenger!
imagine all the meaning of life converstations we would have... life would lose its meaning straight away.

Jupitersgirl, I'm still waiting for that hi5 invitation :P

posted April 14, 2007 05:47 PM              

I agree with most things I've read about Mars in scorp, definitely

posted April 14, 2007 05:57 PM            

quote:

---

Another mars in aqua here....my friends have told me in so many words tht i go for weirdo's

---

posted April 14, 2007 06:13 PM              

quote:

---

Don't want to be a wet blanket but what aspects would indicate longterm celibacy with no probs - is this a natal thing or aspects thing or just free will?
Maybe Saturn aspects? I have Saturn trine Mars and Mars trine Venus; and I can, and have held out for a long time waiting for 'true love' to be part of the equation *sigh* - Maybe I'm just an old fashioned girl

---

Hey I am with you on this one too,maybe the reason is because there are not too many "unique" individuals out there.LOL

See, i am all open for sex right away , which some of my friends find odd, they say i should get to know the person well and become friends before the sex part, but I don't act that way, it seems I go for the chemestry/animal part first;
BUT! <thank God for this "BUT" ......

Anyway, as I was saying.... "but" I do not find myself attracted to many guys , and actually before I go from one to another it can be years, so i do get the celibacy time, by choice and by lack of the "right partner".

I won't...I repeat, "I won't" go to bed with just anyone just to have sex. That is no fun in the end and I get no satisfaction.

Now, how do we relate all this to love?
I am still discovering that side of me,a long term marriage that ended really bad can really confused an individual in this aspect(real love), i don't want to get it wrong again

What i do know is the person I go to bed to is the person I can see myself building a life with and loving.... if everything goes smooth.

posted April 14, 2007 06:20 PM              

but i am perfectly happy this way...i can't compromise on this one....and i too got jilted real bad once....so kinda tread carefully now. dont want to repeat my mistakes.

quote:

---

someone that is witty is very much a turn on, but he has to be a bit of a rebel too.
I am a total flirt and a tease (with the right guy)

---

posted April 14, 2007 06:25 PM              

quote:

---

Inlovewithlife wrote:
i totally get you NAM....i have mars in aqua, trine saturn, and venus square saturn. have been single for well over two years now. way too few unique people out there, isn't it ?
but i am perfectly happy this way...i can't compromise on this one....and i too got jilted real bad once....so kinda tread carefully now. dont want to repeat my mistakes.

---

Aren't you a Cancer as well?

I know nothing about those trine things, i don't even know what they are...

posted April 14, 2007 06:43 PM              

hmmm...trines and squares....trine happens when a planet is aprroximately 120 degrees (4 signs) or 240 degrees (8 signs, or 4 signs in the reverse sense) away from another. so i have mars at 13 degree aqua, and saturn at 9 degree libra....that's separation of 123 degrees....so its a trine. the deviation from the exact angle is known as 'orb'. so in this case, the orb is 3 degrees. normally, an orb of upto 7 degrees is considered valid. so more than 127 degrees, or less than 113 degrees is not considered as a trine. but different astrologers use different orbs.

it might be difficult to count the degree's. don't worry there's an easier way. just look at the signs of the planets. all air signs are trine to each other. so are all water signs, earth signs, and fire signs. so if two planets are both in the same element, then they can potentially be trine. to make sure of that, you need to look at degree's. if the degree's are close (like in the example above) they r trine.

In the chart on astro.com, you can see trines marked with 'peaceful' blue lines.

you can look at your own chart and at that of others and see if u can spot the trines. once u r comfortable with them, we'll go to squares which are represented by 'stressful' red lines on astro.com

posted April 14, 2007 06:43 PM              

Nam said - *I am still discovering that side of me,a long term marriage that ended really bad can really confused an individual in this aspect(real love), i don't want to get it wrong again

What i do know is the person I go to bed to is the person I can see myself building a life with and loving.... if everything goes smooth.* AND
ILWL said *and i too got jilted real bad once....so kinda tread carefully now. dont want to repeat my mistakes.*

Totally - I am the same and in complete agreement - no confusion there.

Nam, you mentioned Cancer also...hmmm - I have Cancer Moon

posted April 14, 2007 06:43 PM            

A trine is when one planet is 120 degrees away from another.

quote:

---

hehe...Dulce and Neon Artemis, glad that somebody understands !
btw, its not like my friends are all very 'normal' either

---

posted April 14, 2007 06:58 PM              

quote:

---

Cat71 wrote:
Nam, you mentioned Cancer also...hmmm - I have Cancer Moon

---

I hear you loud and clear....
Cancer sun and moon over here! sag asc.

And I suppose you were born in 1971? because that is the year i was born as well.

posted April 14, 2007 06:59 PM              

quote:

---

Nam, i am a cancer asc...close enough
hmmm...trines and squares....trine happens when a planet is aprroximately 120 degrees (4 signs) or 240 degrees (8 signs, or 4 signs in the reverse sense) away from another. so i have mars at 13 degree aqua, and saturn at 9 degree libra....that's separation of 123 degrees....so its a trine. the deviation from the exact angle is known as 'orb'. so in this case, the orb is 3 degrees. normally, an orb of upto 7 degrees is considered valid. so more than 127 degrees, or less than 113 degrees is not considered as a trine. but different astrologers use different orbs.

it might be difficult to count the degree's. don't worry there's an easier way. just look at the signs of the planets. all air signs are trine to each other. so are all water signs, earth signs, and fire signs. so if two planets are both in the same element, then they can potentially be trine. to make sure of that, you need to look at degree's. if the degree's are close (like in the example above) they r trine.

In the chart on astro.com, you can see trines marked with 'peaceful' blue lines.

you can look at your own chart and at that of others and see if u can spot the trines. once u r comfortable with them, we'll go to squares which are represented by 'stressful' red lines on astro.com

---