posted April 16, 2007 09:35 PM              

aries sun/rising, leo moon, venus in pisces, mars in gemini...

what do you guys have to say about that? : )
hehe.

posted April 17, 2007 02:12 AM              

I don't take sex lightly at all...to me it's something saved for only a person I really love (and this means, there is a mental, emotional, and physical connection...I want someone to be my absolute companion and confidant before I can have sex with them). I can't really imagine opening up to a person I didn't completely trust and feel comfortable with. Actually, I treat intercourse and other forms of sexuality quite differently, as with intercourse there is no way I would open up to someone at all casually. I don't like talking about sex except with the person I'm involved with, and I'm scornful of people who too readily give themselves away or who discuss their sex lives publicly.

My sexuality is also extremely emotional. I can easily skate over my deeper emotions in most areas of life, keeping them sort of nebulous and artistic rather than visceral, and charming my way through situations (Aquarius sun, Libra moon :-p), but when it comes to sex it's like all the emotions explode. I can get jealous very easily over the person I care about, but I have a hard time admitting this to myself. I'd say I'm sexually demanding once involved, but I don't get involved easily. I think most guys see me as aloof, eccentric, uninterested, and reclusive. I often find my Mars energies sublimate if I'm not in a relationship, as Mars in Scorpio can hide very well I find (well, mine isn't doing anything except squaring Jupiter, so it's not well intergrated in my chart anyway). I still need to masturbate a lot though, and when not in relationship, I sometimes start to lack energy after a time.

If I do feel attracted to someone, it's as if I'm possessed. I quickly make them mine before they know what's happened. I'm very intuitive so I know who and what I want and I go after it. Unfortunately, there are not many people who interest me that much. My mind and hobbies are more interesting! ;-) But contrary to popular belief about Aquarius, I'm not at all cold in relationships...in fact I'm probably too affectionate. I loooove snuggling ALL the time, touching, holding hands, kissing...I can be very sweet and sort of an unconventional romantic. :-P (I have Pisces rising, too though)

I want sex to be rapturous and full-bodied, as well as a true bonding experience. As said, I have to feel completely comfortable with the person, so this takes awhile, but once I'm there...I'm incredibly passionate...I feel I've scared the guys I've been with who had a more detached approach to it all. With me, it's pure instinct in bed. I'm open to trying many things as long as it feels loving, natural, and warm to me. I love talking afterwards for hours. So far I haven't experienced this kind of sexuality with anyone, as my ex couldn't satisfy me at all and sex was a source of agitation and anger rather than pleasure (he was a Scorpio with Mars in Aquarius and Venus in Scorpio...we had tons of sexual attraction aspects, but compatible? Not in that arena!).

Another thing...once a relationship is over for me, it's over. I can easily detach myself and turn totally cold to the person. I can also stay friends with just about anyone, except if they've betrayed me in some way. Betrayal is not a good thing to do to someone with both Aquarius and Scorpio in their chart. XD Though my Moon in Libra will act civil on the outside.