posted June 08, 2007 09:32 PM              

"Healing Affirmations for Taurus NN:

~To win,I need to proceed slowly & persistantly,step by step.

~When I live by my own values,I feel good about myself.

~If I'm comfortable,then I'm on path.

posted June 09, 2007 01:17 AM              

I like what Jan Spiller said there.

As a Taurean I am kind of easy going to get it. I take my time and move slowly.

I especially agree with these two:

~To win,I need to proceed slowly & persistantly,step by step.

posted June 09, 2007 01:51 AM            

My favorite things about my favorite Taurus (it's a boy bull, but this stuff is lovely in girls too):

1. He's true to himself and strong-willed. Some may call it stubborn, but I see it as having integrity. He knows who he is and what he values. Although he's a charming guy who doesn't seek conflict, he's not afraid to stand up for what he believes.

2. He's loyal and makes you feel at home with him. If he considers you a friend, he loves to help make your life the best it can be. If he's having a good time, he welcomes you to have it with him. If you're troubled, he does what he can to help. He'd have your back no matter what. Which reminds me of a very important trait...

3. Sex god. I had never been so thankful to be born a human female as I was after I became sexually involved with him.

4. Devoted and thorough. He has a few topics that he's very interested in and he's an expert in them.

5. Funny! And he isn't afraid to look like a doofus to get a laugh. (He's also very quick witted, but I'm not sure if that's a Taurus thing.)

6. Tactile. This sorta goes with point 2 about him making you feel at home with him. He's not disrespectfully touchy-feely, but he's free with a shoulder squeeze and hair caress.

7. Good cook and appreciative of good food. I love to cook so I love having such an appreciative guinea pig for my new concoctions.

8. Excellent dancer. Athletic. This probably goes with the Taurus talent and appreciation of all things physical.

9. Very easy to kick back and relax with. Want a simultaneously easy and stimulating conversation? He's the man for the job. Want to cuddle on the couch and waste away a Saturday watching movies? He's the man for that job too. (But he's currently employed, so keep away .)

10. Good taste. He's introduced me to a lot of literature, music, tv, and movies. He appreciates quality from all genres and time periods.

11. Easy going but also strong. If he's around, I know social situations will never get too chaotic, even ones involving my dysfunctional family . He has a way of bringing out the best in people socially. He's a natural leader without being at all bossy or domineering.

12. Generous.

13. Good listener. At the very least, he's mastered the art of appearing to be listening.

14. He treats people very well.

15. He has great friends. He takes friendship seriously and picks great people to form friendships with. And as his girlfriend, I have to say he has impeccable taste in women.

There's so much more, but that'll do.

posted June 12, 2007 11:01 PM            

Thanks Pearlized, I posted that site on the 'cool links' thread ages ago.. It's a great site for Nodes!

BUD, you said you enjoy good food.. I tend to just eat whatever and usually don't eat much and don't think about food.. So on my -to do- list: Think about food more often! lol Maybe I should cook more.. I know my uncle who is a Taurean is a great cook.

TaureanScorpion, "addicted to the pleasures of the flesh. Sensual and affectionate".. I can be affectionate but I'm not –that- into anything.. These are all things I'd like to change though. I want to be more easy going about relationships and anything physical.. Scorpio is very restricted and psychological about it, and I have actually been that way a lot of my life.. I just wanna relax and go with the flow for once, and I have been lately. It feels really good and healing actually. It's important to have values but not extreme values, to the point where they mean more to you than happiness. I've realized this pattern, on here as well, by reading posts of Scorpio influenced ppl.. because it reminds me of the 'all or nothing' way I used to see things.. I’ve changed a lot though and still am changing, so this attitude is definitely not going to be a part of my life.

AG, I like the things you wrote. I have some of those traits, except again when it comes to relaxing.. I'm so 'go go go'.. and rarely relax.. I like working out though and flirting etc.. but I'm not in love with myself in an egotistical way. I have been doing more to relax as well lately.. I think it's just one of those times in my life when I'm trying to change a lot for the positive.. Thanks for all the info!

Gem

26T, that's what I'm trying to do Be myself.. but there is this part of me that I feel is underdeveloped.. probably because Taurus is my NN (not SN).. so the whole 'caring about myself on a physical level'.. is something that – as strange as it seems – I actually have to work at.. otherwise I forget about myself completely. My friend said once that if it was up to me I'd live on water and work all day.. and if I didn't have my Taurean moon best friend.. I probably would've ended up that way lol I guess fate has a way of showing you what you need to know.

MoonDreamer, I especially like your list because I've developed a lot of those things.. I'm definitely a persistent person.. even though I'm an Arues.. I’ve never started something and not finished it and I'm also a loyal friend.. and (this could be my Cap Mars which trines NN) I can be very patient in situations where everyone would expect impatience.. but I still have my impatient moments. Thanks for the book advice!

posted June 12, 2007 11:01 PM            

Neon, that was great. I agree entirely on the fact that Taurus and Scorpio are both sexual but in different ways. What I notice in my own life.. as a difference is that.. Taurus sexuality is very physical.. and Scorpio sexuality is very psychological.. I want to shift from overly psychological.. to genuinely physical and into it – not over thinking it. When you mention stubbornness.. It's hard for me to say no to things, especially if the other person is excited about it.. so I've gone along with things I felt uncomfortable with in the past.. because it was making the other person feel good – that's so Scorpio.. maybe it's manipulative as well.. That's another difference.. Taurus cares about what they want and need physically.. whereas Scorpio is focused on what the other person wants and needs.. and usually this is done in order to have the other person around their little finger.. So I'm never ever behaving like that again.. It's strange how much I notice these patterns in my life.. Whenever something went wrong it was usually because I acted like negative Scorpio.. "Taurus is about your worth and how you respect and honor yourself." – exactly!

Taurus/Gem – When I read those things like – determination-.. – persistence-.. –loving yourself-.. –making things look lovely – it gives me a really good feeling inwardly.. like 'yes this is what I'm meant to do, and that's how I should be more like'.. so it feels right to me.. I'm glad I made this thread.

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I can hear all the Scorpios out there murmuring under their breath, "So what pain do I have to endure in order to have that kind of pleasure?" And this is Scorpio problem in a nutshell: attachment to suffering

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Oh God! You have no idea how much that just Hit the nail on the head! I was in a romantic situation – where I see this pattern so much.. I can't believe how much we both stuffed up (his NN/SN were the same).. and how many chances we were given at the time.. to see the light so to speak, and sort things out,.. and we *kept* stuffing up and hurting each other, for no good reason other than – emotional drama – which our mutual Scorpio SN's must've been very pleased about lol–.. oh well – I did learn a lot from it.

Teaologist thank you! That goes back to financial independence, which I'll have soon, because I'm moving out.

Mirandee,

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Taureans are just basically really nice folks to know.

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MoonDreamer,

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To win,I need to proceed slowly & persistantly,step by step.

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posted June 13, 2007 10:20 AM              

I dont have much goin on with Taurus - not many planets but i have Moon in Taurus;Juno and my 8th house ruller.

- I value very much my friends;i dont have many cause i tend to be very selective and just let enter my world the ones i feel understood and aceppted by who and what i am;

- I love arts:music.literature,movies,dance,painture,all that includes the appreciation of new forms of beauty,views of the world,pleasure on being in touch with Nature and its secrets;

- Im very very stubborn and tend to be also very proud in excessive ways - now im a little better cause i realisd this was affecting my emocional world negatively so im becoming more humble and less stubborn - i do apologise in situations that other times i didnt;

- value a lot respect and loyalty_if someone desrespects or mistreats someone i love - i dont forgive and risk that person out of my life;

- im very emocional inside but i tend to guarde my privacy and my deeper thoughts untill i know i can trust the person;

-love also to cook and to just hang around in beautiful places,preferingly lusxurious ones ( it must be full of beauty and charm for me - its not needed to be veru expensive for me to like - but it must have some originality and misterious ambients also)

- im very affectionate torwards the ones i love and sensual when i feel totally free with the person;

- fashion: i adore all that matters with it

- my sense of humour is sarcastic and dark also:usually people dont like it or are kind of frightened when i show this - i like to provoke them when it happens -

-i consider myself lazy thought..its oneof my worst treats

- hate injustices - and when i see that people have what dont deserve and others who deserve,doesnt have..i get very revolted