posted July 12, 2007 12:27 PM            

You give yourself wayyy too much credit on things that you don't even deserve. The answer I gave was in direct context to what she wrote and thus my reply to it was clear.

Its quite apparent that you still haven't changed your insecure ways.

Notice how the first thing you usually do is jump out to point out the negitivities of others yet never reflect as to what you are doing yourself and how utterly dispicable your train of thoughts are.

My views are just that; My views. I neither have the intention to project them on to others nor to get too overly sensitive and start playing the blame game.

posted July 12, 2007 02:11 PM              

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IMO, there aren't enough "mature" discussions on the topic of sex. People just try to quickly turn it into a 17 year old schoolgirl giggle moment type of thing and that really prevents any open and quite intelligent talk IMO on the subject

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I agree. I really don't want to discuss it all that much, though. I think it is so overtalked about, and like you said, in a very superficial way.

I hope I wasn't too harsh. I can be really blunt. I have a lot of sag! I didn't mean to hurt the OP's feelings, but the way I see it, if you like this guy, you need to know he likes you too, or you'll get really hurt.

You should flat out ask him if he *just* wants sex. If he does, and you don't, at least you'll know.

posted July 12, 2007 02:48 PM            

He probably does feel rejected. Scorpios take everything to heart, and even those prominent Sagittarian placements he has isn't going to change that. We want things on our terms, and we havea natural inclination to believe that everyone will just go along with that, because we feel they should. That's why we take rejection of any kind so hard. And yea, we get frosty when we hurt. But a sincere apology should help mend things over. But don't toy with him. Teasing him does not help a thing. Thanks to that Mercury in Scorpio he can see through all that. And the Scorpio/Sagittarius combination is not fond of emotional games. If you tell them something or lead them to something, they're going to expect to see it at some point. So if you fail to deliver or give them less that what you've hinted, they're bound to get pretty pissy.

BTW with all that water, damn! He's a watery person like me with a lot of fire. He needs reassurance...*constantly* And like I said..

I'm the same age as you. Even in the early twenties, men and women ...YES and women, are just experimenting with their sexuality and still getting comfortable with all that awkwardness we had to go through in the recent years past. Generally, any guy would get uncomfortable if he's just trying to adjust into his sexuality and finds he's coming on too strong. It's a guy thing. Ego bruises all those kind of things. It's just part of growing up.

Bottom line: Come out and tell him that you don't want to talk about sex all the time, and just because you don't wan't to doesn't make you desire him any less. And stop playing games with his head, I mean..I can't tell you what to do...but it the situation was reversed, you'd be on this forum asking us "Why Sagittarian/Scorpio influenced men play so many mind games?"... Always put yourself in someone else's shoes...

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If anyone looks at your posts......they will see you are here from 6:00am until 6:00am the next day. I mean seriously don't you have a job or education to pursue? I understand if you were still a teen living with mommy and daddy and you don't have a job.

You obviously don't get some so you probably feel frustrated.

Just turn off your computer, get off the cyber world for once and find yourself a lady. I'm surprised you're not fat like AG......sitting down 24/7 on that comp.

I can giggle as much as I want when it comes to sex....he's my boyfriend....we are commited. Hell if I want I can laugh while we're having sex. My problem not yours.

The topic was about Scorpio influenced people and sex....who gives a crap if anyone wants to giggle. Just because you are a Muslim and cannot giggle about sex...doesn't mean anyone else can't.

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That's *really* mean, TwinkleStars... But that last part is offensive to not just Xodian but other peoples and It's just my suggestion that you watch what you say in consideration for other people who have to read past your posts.

posted July 12, 2007 02:52 PM            

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IMO, there aren't enough "mature" discussions on the topic of sex. People just try to quickly turn it into a 17 year old schoolgirl giggle moment type of thing and that really prevents any open and quite intelligent talk IMO on the subject

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BTW, I agree with this as well. Not directing it towards anyone here but it's true. I hate how nowadays, sex can hardly be discussed intelligently without someone either blushing ridiculously like it's not part of nature, or turning up their nose like they're above it. I mean how the hell did you GET here for crying out loud?

Sorry, rant. I just can't stand how far we've removed ourselves from nature and it's natural processes. It's quite disgusting in my opinion, but this is a whole other topic I won't get into.

posted July 12, 2007 02:54 PM              

He has no life and I will say it over.....and over.....and over.....and over.....and over.....and over.....and over.....and over.....and over.....and over.....and over.....and over.....and over.....and over again...if I want to.

Hell....I might be here right now posting....but you won't catch me hee 24/7 a day.

People need to go out....see daylight and breathe some freakin fresh air.

posted July 12, 2007 02:57 PM              

At least she isn't mean to be mean. And she's on here giving meaningful thoughts and posts. It seems you just want revenge for whatever it was that happened here.

Either you want to post here about astrology, or you just came back because you're ****** off. If it's the latter, do us all a favor and go. If it's the first reason, act that way.

posted July 12, 2007 03:02 PM              

and who the hell said she was mean?

Me and Xodian go way back LOL so unless you know the whole story....I suggest you mind your own business.

Either you want to post here about astrology, becuase you came back, or you just came back because you're ****** . If it's the latter, do us all a favor and go. If it's the first reason, act that way.

Do us all a favor and go? Just turn off your comp sweets...the real world will sink in right after that. Don't worry about my posts. It's the internet. And you......you are a dumb piece of ****.

Anyone have a problem with my curse? Because she just cursed at me......so deal with it.

And yes Mustang....hold you're grudge all you want.

So what if I think you're Sun and Moon combo is dull, boring, and unpassionate...deal with it. That's my experience with those men...if you can't deal with it....then go cry somewhere else.

posted July 12, 2007 03:20 PM              

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and who the hell said she was mean?

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Me and Xodian go way back LOL so unless you know the whole story....I suggest you mind your own business.

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Do us all a favor and go? Just tun off your comp sweets...the real world will sink in right after that. Don't worry about my posts. It's the internet. And you......you are a dumb piece of ****.

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Anyone have a problem with my curse? Because she just cursed at me......so deal with it.

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Curse all you want. It doesn't bother me at all.

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And yes Mustang.hold you're grudge all you want.

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You're the one holding grudges. For someone who says it's just the internet, you sure act like it's damn important to you.

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So what if I think you're Sun and Moon combo is dull, boring, and unpassionate...deal with it.

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And next time,....admit that's why you're in here getting all vengeful about it

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If you can't see why your behaviour is wrong, and that you're the vengeful hate-filled one here, then I truly feel sorry for you, I do. Deep down inside, I know you know that you are full of anger - probably outside the internet too. I hope you find a way to make peace with whatever is hurting you, because it is painful living with all that hate. I speak from experience here.

Good luck to you. I won't be responding to your posts anymore unless they are about astrology.

posted July 12, 2007 03:36 PM            

Twinkle, just out of curiousity...where's your Moon and it's aspects and where's your Mercury?...Where's your Mars even? if you care to share...

posted July 12, 2007 07:17 PM            

Don't feed the troll. It will get angry, say something so out of line that Randall can't ignore, and she'll be banned...for the, what is it now, the 6th time? 7th time?

With her, it's always just a matter of time.

posted July 12, 2007 09:50 PM            

Hey I am talking to a double sagittarius male (the same one from some months ago) and he contacted me out of the blue. We hadn't spoken in four months, now he contacts me about every week to two weeks...when before he used to not do that...and also he randomly told me he missed me.
If any of you can remember he told me he never wanted to speak to me again, but he still kept my phone number and aim sn. I just want to know why all of a sudden would there be this interest in me. And is it for sex...before he NEVER said that he missed me or anything sweet to be honest with you. In fact he treated me like crap. Now he seems really different. Is his venus in scorpio and mars in pisces missing me or what? I'm confused because this just seems to not be a side of him I've seen before. I know for a fact he wants to have sex with me, but why would he go this way...as he has never done anything like this before, nor mention anything about no strings attached like before.

posted July 12, 2007 09:53 PM            

Anyway back to what's happned with me and Mr. double Sag, I took Mustang's advice and put everything on the table and said I wanted to date him. He replied that he doesn't return the feelings, but he will sleep with me. And that I need to let him go. I felt horrible because all signs pointed to him liking me. I guess I was wrong and that he really doesn't care emotionally. He told me he doesn't want an emotional relationship. Of course I feel horrible...but I feel that's its better that I know now rather than in four months.

I still don't get why he contacted me, you know. And why he said he missed me. Even after I told him how I felt and he said he didn't return the feelings at the end of our conversation he said to dream about him. WTF?? I feel like I'm being played with actually. He is a venus and mercury in scorpio I know for a fact that he could sense how I felt.

Still when I told him he said he was going to date someone when school start and that he's technically dating someone now he said to stop quoting him and that he was speculating. I just don't get it.

posted July 12, 2007 09:57 PM            

You have a healthy amount of scorp and sag...so are you kinda like this? Do actions speak louder than words in your case? I feel like he likes me...but I don't know...he could just be telling the truth. I am trying to take his word and believe he doesn't feel anything romantically. But all signs point to yes...

The sag seems so open...but I don't know...is he REALLY as open as he appears? I know as a cancer I say ALL THE TIME I don't feel anything when I really do. But I only do it when I'm afraid of rejection.

posted July 12, 2007 10:33 PM              

I can't really speak for him. I know for me, I would really like someone in the moment, and mean what I said when I said it. I think when you're young and friends with someone, you can confuse friendship with more, and you get caught up in the moment. It may be a fire sign thing, because my best friend, who was an aries was the same way. We'd like someone at the time. Maybe that's what this was like for him. I honestly don't know... Would you feel comfortable asking him?

I would think he is telling you the truth now.

Also, fire signs are incredibly flirty, so it could be that, too.

He sounds like he isn't ready to settle down right now.

posted July 12, 2007 10:56 PM            

However, It seems to me he's playing games. It kind of bites you on the ass with Scorp/Sag. We have issues of falling madly in love/lust with an idea of a person...but losing that image when they get too close. This (at least in my opinion) is what influences us to be so passionate/clingy/emotional yet detached and freewheeling.

One thing though is that they tell you flat out, whether you want to hear it or not. And the fact that he says he doesn't want anything emotional just sex, is what he means. That doesn't mean he doesn't LIKE you, that just means it's all he wants. Looking deeper into that will drive you nuts.

Remember what I said about all his water placements and the need for reassurance? That correlates to what you said about him contacting you, asking if you missed him, and telling you to dream about him. Throw fire into that, and he does it with charm and flirtatiously.

I do this, it's a bad habit of mine. I usually blame my Leo Moon and it's need for attention, praise, and admiration. But it also goes deeper than that... It's a mixture of insecurity/arrogance/control. He probably DOES miss you, but he's not ready to surrender that part of himself, and he probably has no intention to do so.

Bottom line: He's a flirt. A "player" if you will. I'd take what he said pretty literally. Just because of the fact that he had the nerve to even come out and say it tells me that either 1) He doesn't want anything....2) He's not looking to settle down *at all*.....3) Both

Even if he does, *feel* something that he's not sharing with you, if he had the balls to come flat out and say he just wants to hook up and that's it. Well, that's all you should expect from him. And twisting it from 78,000 different angles isn't going to change that I'm afraid.

Girl, I'm telling you. If that's not what you're looking for, then get out of that smoking kitchen before it catches on fire! Can we say "friends with benefits"? I am convinced that is the worst predicament for any Water person (Sun, AC, Moon etc.) to ever get into. Especially when it's YOU who's settling for less than what you *really* want...(When you love the guy, and he's just in it for the physical benefits...)

If you feel you want better than that, then you deserve better than that.

posted July 14, 2007 07:15 PM              

I think you're being both cold-hearted and pure evil. I can name over 500 people who sit on the computer all day everyday and be positive about what they do online. They may not chat, but they are either writing something or telling stories on their blog. For you to call Xodian a momma's boy is downright disrespectful. And it's not just him that's affected, it's everyone who read your negative response. I like to use the computer all day, everyday and you don't see me complaining.

Hank: I think Twinkle Stars is mad and depressed.
Hendrick: I think he needs help...
Hank: I think you're right.
Hendrick: Yep. He is mean. You can always ignore him and maybe, just maybe, they can do the same.
Hank: I hope you're right about that.
Hendrick: Of course I am. Now let's sit back and pray.
Hank: OK. Cool.

PS: Hendrick is my fictional character I created.

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Hank Campbell
Far Rockaway, Queens, NY
*Sun: 8th House/Leo, Moon: 3rd House/Pisces, Venus: 8th House/Leo, Mars: 6th House/Cancer, Jupiter: 8th House/Leo, Saturn: 8th House/Virgo, ASC: Capricorn

posted July 14, 2007 07:30 PM            

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Do us all a favor and go? Just turn off your comp sweets...the real world will sink in right after that. Don't worry about my posts. It's the internet. And you......you are a dumb piece of ****.

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Some people sure are slow learners.....
It's always interesting, but sad at the same time, to watch you self-destruct.....

posted July 14, 2007 07:57 PM            

LOL! Momma's Boy. Wll she didn't actually say that but thanks for the support .

See the thing is, these few weeks are gonna be my only days where I can actually get some decent Net time.

I don't know if many of you know this but E3; The biggest electronic expo is upon us and being part of a sponsored Guy's gamer clan, its part of my job to keep up with potential recruit questions online (as bizzare as they might be Lol! Someone actually asked that if me and another member had it going on LOL!!! That was the laugh of the night.)

So yeah for the next couple of weeks I might drop by occasionally to post up when I am a bit bored . Other then that I don't think I am around this place that much unfortunately... Just too busy.

But IMO I shouldn't even be explaining this to the forum since its no one's business as to what I do with my free time. Actually if people knew what as to the amount of activities I do during the day, they would be surprised as to if I get free time to myself at all. I think I have only shared the snippits of my life with one member (BornunderD) and only because I ahve gotten to trust her quite a bit .

So Twinkletoes' little remarks are nothing to me. I all honesty, I got the biggest laugh of my life when I read her posts.