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Topic: So how important is sex to scorpio influenced ppl?
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GrlyGirl20 Knowflake Posts: 319 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 06, 2007 07:40 PM
Hi I had a question regarding a guy I know who is a double sag and ven and mer in scorpio. He is in Maryland for summer break and I'm in South Carolina (we go to school together) anyway I know he loves talking about sex...but a lot of the time I just chit chat with him about anything. Well I got him upset with that. Would him being frosty to me now have anything to do with the fact that I won't talk about sex...and I told him I didn't know if I can be with him physically. After I said that he told me that if I didn't want him then I shouldn't tempt him with sex. I mean sex is pretty important to me, but I also want to know how someone's day was and talk, I just don't want to feel like that's all he wants to talk about. Is he maybe feeling rejected or what? Thanks. IP: Logged |
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posted July 06, 2007 08:36 PM
Yeah sex is pretty important for scorpio people. But sex is human nature. Everyone wants and needs sex. Venus in scorpio people are very sensitive (water sign) and they feel strongly about things especially sex and relationships. He may feel rejected. ?? IP: Logged |
BlueTopaz124 Knowflake Posts: 207 From: Portland, OR, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 06, 2007 08:58 PM
I don't think this is an astrology-related subject, more human nature. How old is this guy? If he's young and not ready to settle down, it's going to be pretty much sex on the brain for him, and not much chit-chat in the girly sense.He might be acting this way because you said something about it, which you have a right to comment about the subject matter of your conversations. He could be feeling rejected in some way about your conversations and their content. If I were in your position, I would figure out what I wanted out of this friendship and go from there. IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 06, 2007 09:22 PM
You mean all this guy wants to talk about is sex? Boooooring .Are you a gemini venus like me? I have forgotten. Because I know that we need conversation in relationships and furthermore, the conversation matter for us needs to be a little more interesting than that. You def. had the right to speak up about the convo matter because anyways, no one want a onesided situation where one always talks about what they want but the other never gets to talk about what they want. IP: Logged |
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posted July 06, 2007 10:41 PM
I'm with Blue Topaz 124 on this one... quote: I don't think this is an astrology-related subject, more human nature.
Yes, his age will tell you quite alot... as will yours. Is it possible you are teasing him with ideas then calling it off to talk, talk, talk? I too am a Sag Sun/Venus Moon... No sex is not now now now, nor most important. It is however a spiritual connection [always has been] This connection does in fact include talking. I would feel hurt to think that someone was pretending to be into me, more than really truly not into me. Does this make sense? I bet it's more of an age thing more than anything else. Younger people are less secure with themselves and thus "react" rather than "act" sometimes.
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GrlyGirl20 Knowflake Posts: 319 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 07, 2007 01:24 AM
To BlueTopaz124: I'm not a venus in gemini...I'm actually a venus in taurus...but its in the 11th house...its strange because sometimes I feel like I'm more like a gemini with love than a taurus I actually know what I want from this guy...I want to try a relationship with him. I like him...we hadn't talked since feb...and we started back talking in may...and I know I feel very strongly for him. To yourfriendinspirit: I have to agree that I am teasing him abit...and I keep saying to him he has to work to sleep with me...and that I like giving him a hard time. I really do care for him...but I don't want him to know that. As far as me teasing him I do admit I do that ALOT to him...even when I don't realize that. And then he'll tell me I'm exciting him...and I play coy...I didn't really think its a big deal...after all to me its just talk.
Oh btw he is 20 and I'm 22 IP: Logged |
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posted July 10, 2007 12:06 AM
He sounds really immature still, but also being a scorp I want to point out that we are sexually charged beings, especially considering that our sign is associated with the reproductive organs. I agree also that he might have just been really sensitive and felt rejected since you are talking about his scorp being in Venus. IP: Logged |
Isis Newflake Posts: 1 From: Brisbane, Australia Registered: May 2009
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posted July 10, 2007 12:17 AM
quote: I really do care for him...but I don't want him to know that.
I'd have to say that a Scorpio (or heavily scorp influenced) can tell when you like them - and if you don't have the courage to be up front about that, how can they have the courage to open themselves to you? I would have to say, from what little you've said about the whole situation, that he's being frosty because he feels like he's being jerked around. Scorpios (incl. Scorp Venus) feel intensely...if they feel that is being toyed with...well..it tends to **** them off. IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl20 Knowflake Posts: 319 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 10, 2007 09:12 PM
Here is the latest interaction with us: We used to talk about every week to two weeks now we talk every couple of days. Well last night he and I ended up talking on the phone for about three hours (we've never done this before). We talked about everything you could talk about.
I also told him I missed him, he didn't say it back to me. I assumed he didn't miss me...but he had said it to me online multiple times. He said that he doesn't do shallow clingy emotions like that. And that even if he did miss me he wouldn't say it. But that he does in fact want to see me again. Well we continued talking, I then asked him was he dating anyone. And here is the convo on that: Me: Are you dating anyone? Him: I kinda am Me: You kinda are? Him: Well it's complicated Me: Why is it complicated? Him: Well she lives in SC (FYI I live in SC...and he is in Maryland...we go to school together in SC) Me: So what's the problem...ask her out when you get back from break (in Aug) Him: I'm going to do that Me: At this point a light bulb went off in my head and I without thinking blurted "is it me?" Him: Well do you want it to be you? Me: A long pause...(I was in such a shock I couldn't say anything) Him: Well I guess that means no Me: No...if you want it to be me...then I want that Him: Well lets get this out in the open...I just want no strings...I just want to have fun Me: Oh ok (at that point I felt dejected) I started asking him questions like if he wanted her why did he contact me...and he was like I don't have the answers to that. Lets just drop this its too draining on me. I'm just SOOO confused...could he have been talking about me? He previously told me earlier in our conversation that night that I'm the only girl he thinks about. If so then why ask out someone else? Or did I pause too long and he didn't want to risk rejection?? We haven't talked tonight, because at the end of our long phone session I was like well are you going to call me tommorrow? He replied that if he got to the phone he would talk...and that he doesn't call people. We were talking about times and I finally said I'm not going to call this is complicated...and he replied (which hurt me to be honest) with we don't have to talk everyday...were not dating. And I said you're right. Although I was very hurt. I'm thinking I might just tell him that I want him and ONLY him as my boyfriend...and that I'm crazy about him and I have been since we met. Would that make him feel more secure or what? PLEASE HELP!!! IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl20 Knowflake Posts: 319 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 10, 2007 09:17 PM
To be honest I kinda thought it was me...because he had told me that I was the only girl he thought of...and that he missed me. But I think that when he asked me if I wanted it too be me...I paused too long (it was a long pause). And he felt rejected (he does have that nasty sun and moon conjuct saturn...and scorp/cancer placements that HATE rejection). So he just responding with a if you don't want a relationship with me...then I just want no strings attached relationship with you. Kinda like getting back at me. Here are his placements: ASC: Cancer Sun: SAG 5th house Moon: Sag 6th house Mer: SCO 5th house Ven: Sco 4th house Mars: Pis 9th house Jup: Pis 9th house Uran: Sag 6th house Sat: Sag 5th house Plut: Scop 5th house Nep: Cap 6th houseHere are My placements: ASC: Can Sun: Can 1st house Moon: Cap 7th house Mer: Leo 2nd house Ven: Tau 11th house Mar: Can 1st house Jup: Aqu 8th house Sat: Sco 5th house Nep: Cap 6th house Plut: Sco 5th house Uran: Sag 6th house IP: Logged |
Twinkle Stars unregistered
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posted July 10, 2007 10:46 PM
Very lol
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GrlyGirl20 Knowflake Posts: 319 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 10, 2007 10:53 PM
So in other words I paused too long and didn't convey how much I truly feel for him. Basically my pause made him feel rejected?IP: Logged |
Twinkle Stars unregistered
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posted July 10, 2007 11:20 PM
Scorpios are attracted to intensity. IP: Logged |
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posted July 10, 2007 11:21 PM
My Venus is in the 11th house also....in Taurus......also my Moon.IP: Logged |
pidaua Knowflake Posts: 67 From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 11, 2007 01:32 AM
yourfriendinspirit said;"Yes, his age will tell you quite alot... as will yours. Is it possible you are teasing him with ideas then calling it off to talk, talk, talk? I too am a Sag Sun/Venus Moon... No sex is not now now now, nor most important. It is however a spiritual connection [always has been] This connection does in fact include talking. I would feel hurt to think that someone was pretending to be into me, more than really truly not into me. Does this make sense? I bet it's more of an age thing more than anything else. Younger people are less secure with themselves and thus "react" rather than "act" sometimes." Very true.. and you make perfect sense
pidaua Sag Sun / Venus
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Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 11, 2007 11:09 AM
I also knew a Sag with Venus and Mars in Scorp and he did talk about sex all the time BUT all the scorpio guys I've known rarely talk about sex ... they have it instead
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posted July 11, 2007 09:21 PM
I've Merc and Venus in Scorpio too and I have to admit that I've got sex on the brain. I figure my next partner better have some good Scorp in his chart too because I've worn out past partners.. IP: Logged |
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posted July 11, 2007 09:33 PM
Your guy sounds immature. He reminds me of a Libra sun, venus scorp I was friends with. He was a sex obsessed guy. He talked about it all the time, thought about it all the time. "It." All the time. He was older too; it was really annoying! I finally had to stop being friends with him, because he had to constantly talk about it. I think he was a sex addict. Anyway... To me, that convo was his way of telling you he wants to have sex with you, and not be your boyfriend. It sounds like you want more than that, so cut him loose. ------------------ Sun Aqua, Moon Sagg, Asc Taurus IP: Logged |
Twinkle Stars unregistered
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posted July 11, 2007 11:25 PM
If that's all he's talking about then maybe he needs some LOL. He's obviously attracted to you physically. Emotionally, is another story. That depends on you both.
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posted July 11, 2007 11:26 PM
How long have you guys known each other?I've been dating my Scorpio for 9 months now. We speak everyday. And see each other a lot. But maybe it's because we are looking for commitment.
He's still pretty young. So are you. IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 12, 2007 10:51 AM
I know a sag with venus in scorpio who's that way (sex-obsessed). She even dresses provocativily in order to either give off that impression or just get attention but she's not really promiscuous. In other words, she's just a tart. She's annoying to be around when she's acting like that or when she always wants to turn the conversation into something about sex. IP: Logged |
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posted July 12, 2007 11:14 AM
My BF is a Sag/Scorp cusp. He also has Mercury in Scorp and he is very direct and passionate with his words....but he's not the type to always talk about sex 24/7.Not that I would mind
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Xodian Moderator Posts: 275 From: Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 12, 2007 11:30 AM
Hmmm, Let me throw in a different view here:Though people may say that the current society is huge on its depiction and gaining profits from anything sexually related, the truth of the matter is, I don't think 65% of the population who says they know about sex actually "know" how proundly deep it is and how its such so differs in prespective from person to person. IMO, there aren't enough "mature" discussions on the topic of sex. People just try to quickly turn it into a 17 year old schoolgirl giggle moment type of thing and that really prevents any open and quite intelligent talk IMO on the subject. You would be surprised as to what you can learn . IP: Logged |
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posted July 12, 2007 12:07 PM
Which reminds me...my cousin is a Sag with Venus Scorp. She slept around all the time. Every week.....new guy...no protection.It took her getting an std to finally understand the consquences. HPV. IP: Logged |
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posted July 12, 2007 12:15 PM
She's talking about a Scorpio man with Sag influences Xodian.........not you're stupid Libran views...that no one gives a crap about.At no point did your post make sense. You're answer had nothing to do with her question at all. If you're gonna come in here and follow me around...and hold a stupid ltitle internet grudge then you really need to get a life. We both know very well you never come into the astrology board. If anyone looks at your posts......they will see you are here from 6:00am until 6:00am the next day. I mean seriously don't you have a job or education to pursue? I understand if you were still a teen living with mommy and daddy and you don't have a job. You obviously don't get some so you probably feel frustrated. Just turn off your computer, get off the cyber world for once and find yourself a lady. I'm surprised you're not fat like AG......sitting down 24/7 on that comp. I can giggle as much as I want when it comes to sex....he's my boyfriend....we are commited. Hell if I want I can laugh while we're having sex. My problem not yours. The topic was about Scorpio influenced people and sex....who gives a crap if anyone wants to giggle. Just because you are a Muslim and cannot giggle about sex...doesn't mean anyone else can't.
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