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cancerrg
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posted August 24, 2007 04:06 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
do you by any chance see an aqua girl with sag moon to be compatible with cance sun , gemini moon ?

any insights ?

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jane
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posted August 24, 2007 04:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I see a girl of any sign being compatible with you.

Some good stuff you two have going on--your moon trine her sun (by sign, at least). You also have opposing moons. That could go either way, but I often click with people whose moon opposes mine.

What would be very helpful is if she has a significant water influence elsewhere in her chart. Water asc, sun or moon in one of the water houses, some personal planets in Pisces (or even Cap, if you're not opposed to oppositions ). Don't know if asteroids are your thing, but you may also want to check her Juno & Eros signs to see if she craves some water.

You could even check draconics. Maybe one or both of you has your draconic sun &/or moon conjunct the other's.

I've never known a couple with your signs, so can't give any info on how it played out, but maybe someone else will be able to.

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posted August 24, 2007 09:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think it would be difficult to say the least...having some compatible plantes, aspects, etc. will always help, but with the inherant independence and freedom of the Aqua sun and the emotional, nurturing aspects of the Cancer sun they may just eventually drive one another crazy.

I once dated a Cancer sun, Venus and Mars in Cancer as well. I am a Pisces sun---with our asc's conj it may have appeared to be a match made in heaven, but while having lots in common, I am highly Aquarian and his clinginess, needing to take care of, posessiveness, etc. clashed horribly with my extream need for space, and independence---horribly!!!

Someone asked about this match a while back, and someone replied quite beautifully...will try to find in a bit.

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posted August 24, 2007 09:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
found it and I even thought it was you cancerrg!!!

I think GN illustrated perfectly the basic sun sign differences with these two signs.....
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/012828.html

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posted August 24, 2007 04:33 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
CANCERRG, I really don't think that the Sun-signs as such plays a huge part in the compatability of two people. But I know, it can be fun just to fantasize a bit about a certain combination's potential ;-)

The article below is from AstralReflections - it includes the sign's astrological houses and suggests a small "counting game". Following that, Aquarius would be your 8th or "SEX-sign" (and for me too, I'm a Cancer as well).

Here it is:

COMPATIBILITY GUIDE

RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN YOUR SUN SIGN AND ANY OTHER SUN SIGN

By Tim Stephens

To use this relationship guide, take any newspaper horoscope column, such as Astral Reflections. Using a pen, label your own Sun sign # 1. Then label the sign below it # 2, the next # 3, and so on, until you reach the sign immediately before/behind yours - sign # 12. E.g., if you're a Taurus, Taurus is your # 1 sign, Gemini is your # 2 sign, Cancer is your # 3, and Aries is your # 12.

Please note that in this entire article, YOUR SUN SIGN, WHATEVER IT MIGHT BE, IS THE # 1 SIGN. But if you want to see how any other sign sees you, or "experiences" you, then count his or her sun sign as # 1, and follow the same procedure of numbering the signs in order, until you reach your own sign. For example, if you're a Gemini, and you want to find out what love with a Virgo would be like, number your sign # 1, and count until you hit Virgo - you'll see that it's your (not everybody's, just your) # 4 sign. So you would read "YOUR # 4 SIGN" below. But the Virgo would perform the same count, starting with his or her own sign, Virgo, as # 1 - and he/she would find that Gemini is his/her # 10 sign. So he/she'd read "YOUR # 10 SIGN" below.

Each sign means something different in two senses: in general, to everyone, and specifically, to you. For everyone, Gemini means communications, reports, anecdotes, short trips, the color gray, paperwork, siblings, etc. But for Taurus Gemini means money, spending and earning. For Aquarius, Gemini means romance; for Cancer, Gemini represents support, hidden fears and secrets. But in this compatibility guide, we're not addressing the particulars qualities of any sign, but just the "pattern interface" between signs a certain distance apart from each other. So you won't find anything describing Virgos in general , or Taureans, etc. But, by using the simple newspaper horoscope column numbering system described above, you can tell what your relationship will be like with a Virgo or a Taurus, or any sign, no matter what your own sign is.

CAUTION:

Please remember that this is just a general compatibility guide. In many cases below, certain combinations will be called unfavorable for marriage, love, or whatever. But in these "bad" combinations, two people could have an interplay of Moon, Venus, Mars and other planets that lead to a huge and lasting tenderness and successful love. Similarly, you will not have a successful love affair with everybody who shares, for example, a # 5 relationship with you, because many other factors, Moon signs, rising signs, the placement of Venus and Mars, etc., will make some of these # 5 links exciting, some frustrating, and some will even be duds. So don't get discouraged if you read below that your husband doesn't suit you, especially if he's suited your for twenty years before you read this article!

THE SUN SIGN COMPATIBILITY GUIDE

YOUR # 1 SIGN:

Remember, label your own sign # 1, the next # 2, and so on until you reach # 12. For example, for Aries, Aries is # 1, Taurus is # 2, and Pisces is # 12. But for Taurus, Taurus is # 1, Gemini is #2, and Aries is # 12.

Relationships with another # 1 sign (i.e., between you and another member of your own Sun sign) can work quite well. Bob Hope, 100 years in 2003 (note: Bob passed away shortly after I wrote this article) was still married to his first wife - for - what? Sixty years? Seventy? They were both Geminis - commonly regarded as the least faithful of signs. That shows you how wrong popular conceptions can be. (I've generally observed Gemini women to be quite easily and cheerfully faithful and loyal. But when female clients complain of disappointment in love, they complain loudest and longest when their ex - or their almost lover - was a Gemini man. That could simply mean that we hate to lose Geminis more than any other lover - or it could arise from Gemini's ability to make the opposite sex believe Gemini's deeply smitten, when they're merely window-shopping. Gemini can window shop for years.)


Relations with your sign # 1 (another person of your own Sun sign) have a certain advantage. You're both similar, so you understand each other's inner workings. You slip easily and comfortably into the same lifestyle. You tend to have the same goals, to respect the same virtues, etc. If you have some strong love-contacts between your birth charts (Moons trine, Venus with Mars, etc.) this can be a stable, calm, long-lasting union. Last week, I used Bob Hope as an example. He and his wife, both Geminis, are probably the longest-married couple in Hollywood. However, barring strong love - and empathy - aspects between two people, same-sign relationships can grow a little boring. Even with good love contacts (Venus-Mars, etc.) it helps if one member is a workaholic (or both are). Two # 1s can evolve into a marriage of convenience.

Lack of empathy can turn a #1-#1 relationship bitter. You might feel suffocated by your similarity, and, eventually resent the other person. Neutrality and sameness turn into competitiveness. This competitiveness easily rises to the surface in a business relationship, so a #1-#1 business partnership is not usually a good idea. In love, make sure you really share a spark and a solid tenderness before you make this one permanent.


YOUR # 2 SIGN

Relations between you and your # 2 sign are friendly, polite, easy-going, natural, and sensual. This is often the easiest person to "bed" - you merely have to ask, to show some desire, and the answer is a simple, Okay, why not? There is very little embarrassment between you and # 2. Unfortunately, this lack of embarrassment hints at too much ease...and eventually you might begin to take your # 2 for granted. Unless you and # 2 share some other chemistry (Venus-Mars together or Moons trine Sun, etc.) boredom can set in. Often, you can sense the looming boredom even at first or second meeting, as a simple lack of "crazy passion." Often, after years of wrestling with the notion, a person who marries # 2 might decide they have to move on. But if Venus/Mars add their chemistry, or the Moon works its birth-chart magic, any couple can be deeply happy.

In business, your # 2 can be a profitable connection, even a good partner. This is your money sign, and # 2 will often get you your first job, or buy your used furniture, etc. # 2s make lucrative, loyal clients, But in the long run, you must "repay" # 2. If you "over use" # 2, at a certain point you'll find # 2 is taking your money!

SPECIAL NOTE:


I forgot to mention one thing about your # 1 and # 2 signs (your own Sun sign and the sign immediately after yours). The chances for either of these "combinations" to succeed escalates immensely if the other person was born in YOUR OWN YEAR OF BIRTH AND 23 to 25, 27-29, or 32 to 34 days after you (or in the same year and 23 to 25, 27-29, or 32-34 days before you, as we'll see in your # 12 relationships).

These "days apart at birth" links can be extended almost infinitely to other parts of the year and to other years. But the links are too complex to pursue in this column.


YOUR # 3 SIGN

Remember, label your own Sun sign # 1 in any newspaper horoscope column, then the next sign # 2, and so on until you've labeled all 12 signs. For example, Cancer's # 2 is Leo, and Cancer's # 12 is Gemini.

You talk easily with your # 3 sign. They often are more than willing, even eager, to befriend you - and to accept your romantic attention. However, this is an area of flirtation, not of deep, intense, "change my soul" love. For you, it might well be even less - often, you seek nothing more from # 3 than a chat over coffee, or a friendly "Hi," as you pass in the hall, or a long, newsy phone call once a week. The main trouble with # 3 is that he or she is might be too receptive. What you think is a friendly flirt, he/she might view as an invitation. (Which, you have to admit, it was.) If you aren't in the market for a serious love affair, don't toy with # 3 - you won't hurt him or her deeply, but it's a hurt nonetheless. But if you do want a short, casual, light affair, # 3 is a good choice. He/she won't bind you with possessive chains, nor embarrass you with gobs of over-emoting. To # 3, you're an entertaining friend who makes a good-looking, easy, happy, light lover. # 3 doesn't want any more from you than that - unless it's marriage, for this sign will often be willing to marry you. # 1-3 couplings often prove very durable - and happily so - if they share other important love contacts, such as Moons in trine, or Venus from one birth chart joining the other's Mars. If so, they can easily "outlast" other, more potent love combos, because the casual lightness lets them smooth out problems and conflicts.

In business and practical affairs, a 1-3 combination talks a blue streak, is always "in touch," and can make a formidable pair in such areas as communications, writing, and paperwork. For example, a newspaper team in which one researches and the other writes, or in which one is the philosopher or scientist, and the other popularizes the discoveries.

In most business situations, though, # 1 - # 3 combos find it hard to settle down to actual work, to commit to a solid course of action, or to place the funds. This combo would rather talk (or write) than knuckle down and grind out the product.


YOUR # 4 SIGN:

Your # 4 sign represents both your own security and those you want to nurture and protect. It rules survival, food and shelter. In love and mating, you can find # 4 strangely haunting and compelling, for here you are meeting the raw power of life, the hugeness and mystery of nature, without all the social overlays and subtleties. Here the maternal instinct flowers, as do all parenting urges. Mixing these powerful urges with romantic or spousal love can provide a potent emotional brew. In addition, your # 4 sign will usually support you, provide a good home, and make you feel secure. However, these relationships tend toward friction and tension in love. We subconsciously dominate our # 4, probably because this area is so tied in with our past childhood, our survival and our subconscious. It's an area of intimate vulnerability, so we try to control this partner. But this eventually instils rebellion in # 4. However, a # 1- # 4 link can last a long time, and if you do reach a mature, accommodating, loving stance with your # 4, it will have come from the kind of deep struggles that create a solid mutual respect and admiration.

# 1 - # 4 is the natural parent-child relationship. In business, you will tend to be the boss in a #1 - # 4 relationship. Pick a # 4 as your realtor, grocer, nanny or for home-related trades people.

YOUR # 5 SIGN

To find your # 5 sign, count your own sign as # 1 in any horoscope column, then label the next sign # 2, and so on. For example, Aries' # 5 sign is Leo, Taurus' # 5 is Virgo, and so on.

# 5 is your romance sign. This is the sign you're most likely to put on a pedestal, to adore. A mystery and awe, a deep, innocent feeling will overcome you when you fall under # 5's spell. This is your sign of beauty and pleasure, and often the love you feel toward your # 5 is returned, because you're your # 5's # 9, another strong love sign.

The massive potency of a # 1 - # 5 relationship will not happen every time these two signs meet - if you meet twelve new people per week (including the gas station attendant, bus driver, etc., etc.) then you will typically meet over 50 representatives of your # 5 sign every year - 500 in a decade. For the average person, even one major love per decade is a "feat." So nature itself prevents us from being vulnerable to every # 5 acquaintanceship. But when you're ready to fall, # 5 is more likely than any other sign to paint your life with love's sweet, luminous sting. A beauty emanates from him or her; it surrounds you and paints your world with magic's trance; the most impoverished room, the dingiest factory corner, is bathed in deep splendour.

This is the sign you're most likely to put on a pedestal. At first, at least, it is very hard to see # 5's flaws. (Which might make you resent them more deeply when they do show.) The kind of passions # 5 triggers often wear out or grow suffocating after a year or two - it's just too much for the human organism to sustain. A #1 - # 5 relationship, to endure, needs some refreshing excitement, some outside socializing, lightness and air. With these, a # 1-# 5 can last forever. You will never forget a # 5 relationship, whether it was reciprocated or not, for it opened your eyes to an unexpected, overwhelming beauty.

YOUR # 6 SIGN

To find your # 6 sign, take any horoscope column, label your own sign # 1, then count down the signs until you reach # 6. Aries' # 6, for example, is Virgo. Taurus' # 6 is Libra.

Your # 6 sign rules work, health, machinery and services. (Many astrologers say dependents and pets are ruled by # 6, but I don't think that's true. I'd better explain: Your # 6 sign does rule dependents if they serve you: for example, employees, farm animals, guard or herding dogs, etc. But pets and beloved children are ruled by your # 4 and # 5 sign.) People born in your # 6 sign make natural employees, co-workers and service people for you. If you're going to repair your house, or need someone to work with you on a mechanical or routine project, look for # 6. Often, # 6 is willing to do you favors, and is eager to invest with you.

In social situations, # 6 can feel a compelling sexual pull toward you, because you're his/her # 8 (sex) sign. This makes it easy to fall into a relationship with your # 6, especially if you are feeling a lack of self-confidence, and prefer to have someone "choose you." The sex is often quite good for both partners, because it is both exciting and gratifying when someone is sexually smitten by you.

In addition, you might also light up your # 6's marriage house. (This occurs because signs and houses are not the same thing. For example, for someone born in the middle of the sign Virgo, the marriage house extends from the middle of Pisces to the middle of Aries. But the entire sign Aries is Virgo's sex sign. So anyone born in the first half of Aries will be in both this Virgo's sex sign and marriage house.)

So # 1 - # 6 relationships quite often lead to marriage. However, some subtle but deep turns occur when the # 1- # 6 relationship veers into lover's lane. For one thing, you feel a natural urge to put your # 6 to work, to "utilize" him or her. Eventually, # 6 can get tired of running your errands or washing your floors. More importantly, you are # 6's # 8 sign, which means your # 6 finds you a mystery, and has trouble defining and wholly trusting you. Your # 6 will never feel wholly "in the groove" of your marriage. This psychic and emotional uncertainty can create health problems that seem to have no cause, and therefore little cure. If this occurs, the cure lies in separation. Sometimes an extramarital urge lurks in # 6-#8 pairing. This couple needs to enjoy a long engagement.

On the plus side, # 6- # 8 couples (he/she's your # 6, you're his/her # 8) often accumulate money or expand their net worth over time. Often, they can run a business together, and are naturally co-operative work-mates. You and your #6 will often form a great business partnership - one that seems to arise naturally, without formal intent. However, if the relationship breaks apart, a fight over assets is more likely than not.

YOUR # 7 SIGN

# 7 is your love and war sign. To find # 7, count your own sign as # 1 in the Sun-sign messages below. Then count down the signs until you hit # 7. E.g., Aries' # 7 is Libra, and Libra's # 7 is Aries. You will always be # 7 to your # 7.

# 7 is your sign of equals, partners and "obvious enemies." It's your "same but opposite" sign. In some ways, # 7 is your mirror, and you are # 7's mirror. This engenders competition, and what I call "flash anger" - sudden, almost inexplicable or unreasonable flashes of unplanned anger. (Especially between Air and Fire signs - Air signs are Gemini, Libra and Aquarius, Fire are Leo, Sagittarius and Aries.) I think this anger arises partly because you are your # 7 are so similar, yet so unexpectedly different, that you are constantly lulled into thinking you're similar, then surprised that you're not, and so you stay in a constant state of "yes-no-yes-no." This alternating identification-alienation, or frustration-attraction, provides an unending source of liveliness. So this same source of anger is a source of constant spark and renewal.

For example, if you're an Aquarian, your # 7 is Leo. You're both very stubborn

(and often these two signs even look the same - long, bushy "manes," large faces, sturdy bodies) but Leo loves romance and pleasure, while the Aquarian heart flows toward friends and entertainment. Geminis and Sagittarians (# 7 to each other) are both indecisive, intellectual, and love travel; but Sag loves long trips, and philosophical ideas, while Gemini likes short trips - and poking fun at ideas. Cancer nurtures unconditionally, while her # 7, Capricorn, steers or disciplines - yet both are deeply concerned with parenting. But it's challenging. Your # 7 has the same amount of will power as you, and the same energy. And what you find most frustrating in your # 7 might be just what you find frustrating in yourself.

You tend to compete with your # 7, yet admire him/her. So love and argument often mix. This pairing demands a lot of maturity, respect and grace from both partners. But the # 1-# 7 pairing never "wears out." The spark of attraction lives on and on. Your # 7 sign freshens your life and brings new opportunities, fresh ways of seeing the world. # 7 challenges your outworn ideas, spurs you to seek new horizons, perhaps even to relocate. This is your perfect marriage partner, IF you can bear the dynamism!

YOUR # 8 SIGN

Remember, to find your # 8, label your own sign # 1 in any newspaper horoscope column, then count down the page until your finger hits # 8.) For another angle on your # 8, refer back to my discussion about # 6. (Because you are # 6 to your # 8 - so you will see how he or she sees you.)

Your # 8 is the source of most of the mysteries in your life. You're sexually attracted to your # 8. (If you were born with planets in your # 8 sign, you might be unusually susceptible to extramarital affairs.) This sign gives birth to new things in your life, and it is where old things exit. In many ways, your # 8 sign is a well-spring or source of life. It is also where old or stale things in your life are broken apart or and extinguished. For example, # 8 could lure you away from your present relationship -- probably through the lure of sexual lust, for # 8 is very good at luring you) - and hence, your present relationship "dies" - and a new one - with your # 8 - begins. But don't count on a # 8 relationship lasting forever. This sign is in your life as a catalyst - it is there to make things change rather than to make things permanent.

# 8 is the doorway where deeper forces enter your life - critical health situations, secrets, sexual intimacy, large debts and investments, documents, occultism. It where power lives. When you get involved with your # 8 sign, these deeper forces come to the surface. You can invest successfully with your # 8, and this sign makes a fine business partner IF everyone's honest. In emotional relationships, you can become obsessed with lust for your # 8 - but seldom will you love this person. Your # 8 tends to control or manipulate you. You're his/her # 6 - his or her sign of servants. If you're ever in a lawsuit, hire a lawyer who's # 8 to your opponent's lawyer, or whose name is # 8 to your opponent's lawyer's name. E.g., if your opponent's lawyer is a Libra, pick a Taurus for your own lawyer. # 8 often defeats # 1, or forces him to "settle."

Unless you were born at the exact beginning of your sign, part of your # 8 sign will occupy the "end part" of your solar marriage house. For example, if you were born on the 5th of the month, your marriage HOUSE (not sign) actually starts in the middle of your marriage sign and extends into the middle of your # 8 sign.

My advice is, for long-term happiness, marry someone born purely in your marriage sign. But if you want to grow assets, you might marry someone born in your # 8 sign, but whose birthday is "under" the day of the month that you were born in. For instance, in the above example, if you're born on the 5th of the month, marry someone from your 8th house if you want, but make sure they're born before the 5th of their month.

(A longer explanation of this "overlap" phenomena appears at the end of this article, as an "Additional Note.")

YOUR # 9 SIGN


Your # 9 sign is one of the most pleasant experiences you'll ever meet. To find your # 9, count your own Sun-sign as # 1 in any horoscope column, then count "down the signs" until you hit # 9. E.g., Libra's # 9 is Gemini. Your # 9 sign is more likely to fall in love with you than any one else. (See my ramblings on # 5 to see how your # 9 feels toward you - you're # 9's # 5.)

# 9 will first approach you on a mental, conversational or "easy charm" level. Even if you're meeting a # 9 who's going to become the love of your life, it's likely that at first you won't feel a strong attraction. You only feel comfortable, charmed, bemused - yet somehow, you don't leave, and the hours fly by. Slowly, and often with gentle humor, this sign takes your mind, and leads it into the forests of love. (Your body willingly tags along, too.)

A relationship with # 9 will expand your horizons, broaden your understanding, and often lead you into far travel or higher education. You "grow up" after an affair with # 9. But a #1-# 9 relationship has the same potential weakness as a #1-#5: the love can flare too intensely to burn for decades. It surrounds you, it throws your life into a conflagration, it burns all its fuel away. Then lassitude comes. If this combination is to succeed as a marriage, the two of you need some "friction providers" - some planetary obstacles to keep you from enveloping (and eventually suffocating) each other. "Intensity providers" (planetary aspects that promote roman tic/sexual intensity) are unfortunately not always a solution, as these might 1) burn the flame out sooner, or 2) send this love past the bounds of realism, even of reality, leaving both lovers "lost in space."

A # 9 child, parent or friend is a true joy, as understanding, compassion and similar interests accompany a natural, clean feeling of love. Pick your # 9 if you're seeking a lawyer, teacher, religious, moral or philosophical guide. But don't be too quick to form a business partnership or have financial dealings with # 9. This sign seldom brings you any financial increase, simply because it has "other goals."

YOUR # 10 SIGN

Your #10 sign wants to take care of you, but for a price. The price is, you do what #10 says. (To find your # 10 sign, label your own Sun-sign # 1 in the horoscope column below, then count down the signs until your finger hits # 10. For example, Aries'# 10 is Capricorn. Capricorn's # 10 is Libra.)

# 10 represents your boss, your parent (usually the father) judges and other authorities, and all those childhood instructions that you've internalized. (This isn't the same as your conscience, which is always good. These childhood instructions can be good or bad, depending on who imposed them on you, and how.) # 10 also represents your ambitions and desires for status. This sign governs your sense of propriety, of superficial right and wrong, and how you relate to society's power structures. Ultimately, it determines your place.

A #1- #10 relationship can be passionate and intense, but it doesn't leave a lot of room for romantic playfulness. Often, your attraction is filled with friction and power struggles, so your love might resemble a competitive wrestling match. The pecking order must be established. You might become obsessed with making this person respect you. This is a natural child-parent or boss-employee relationship: one nurtures and one obeys.

This combination (# 1-#10) can work as a marriage, especially if respect outweighs criticism, and if both partners highly value security and ambition. (Bill and Hillary Clinton had this relationship.) In essence, you'll be mothering/nurturing your # 10, and he/she will be fathering/directing you. (You're your # 10's # 4, so read that relationship, too.) Some door-slamming can occur, but so can deep loyalty, acceptance and respect, along with strong practical accomplishment...

YOUR # 11 SIGN

Your # 11 sign brings you happiness, laughter, social delights - and introduces you to his/her friends without a moment's pause or doubt. Chase # 11 if you want romance without the embarrassment, short breath and cliff-hanging ego risks of mad infatuation. You'll be accepted easily by your # 11. You'll (likely) have good sex, with a happy, easy intimacy. You'll admire # 11, and the two of you will share a light, humorous, affectionate understanding. Because this relationship is founded on friendliness and good feeling, you'll be gently surprised by # 11's regenerative beauty - again and again, you'll realize that his or her original "good looks" haven't faded for you.

You can enjoy this love affair with no strings attached. # 11 asks very little of you. He/she assumes your loyalty, or at least seldom demands it. # 11 doesn't mind if you want to go out with your friends, or catch a plane to Alaska to watch the sled races. The catch is, you won't be unendingly important to # 11 - in fact, you might be treated a little too casually for your liking, once the blush of first attraction has worn off. You're # 11's # 3 - his or her sign of conversation and short trips, reading, curiosity, newspapers and information. Yet this is a great match for people who like books, newspapers, coffee shops, etc. Many people - and signs - actually prefer a # 3 or # 11 relationship over the huge, consequential and perhaps frightening or suffocating power of a # 5 or # 7. The #3- #11 combo is neutral in a good way: it lets other parts of your two personalities (birth charts) shine through. It lets both of you breathe and be yourselves. Perhaps because freedom and affection are so easy with # 11, marriage with one is often long-lasting.

YOUR # 12 SIGN


Okay, let's do the final sign relationship - you and your # 12 sign. First, I should say (and have not said it enough in the past) that these sign # descriptions are only the most general guidelines. Though the characteristics I mention for each relationship combination will definitely exist, so will many other factors that depend on your individual birth charts. For example, a relationship with your # 10 sign will surely entail the elements of ambition and ego competition which I mentioned, but you and a particular person from this sign could also have moons in trine between your charts, and Venus conjunct Mars, and other aspects - ultimately, a # 1-# 10 relationship could be cozy, sexy, tender, and deeply fulfilling to both parties, DESPITE its competitive nature. The same goes for any combination. The #'s are guidelines only - though, all being equal, the #'s are a good guide to basic compatibility (or difficulty).

To find your # 12 sign, simply find the sign before you in the Sun-sign messages below. E.g., Gemini's # 12 is Taurus; Taurus' # 12 is Aries; Aries' # 12 is Pisces.

# 12, as a sign, holds your spiritual potential. (Spiritual, as in "energy," not religious, as in codes or rules.) It rules your involvements with government agencies, red tape and beurocracy, charities and welfare, old friends and long-established relatives, shut-ins, institutions (hospitals, jails, etc.) the workings of large banks, the payouts that insurance companies make, "head office" or administrative areas of companies or schools, warehouses and other big, cavernous spaces, caches, secrets, meditation, contemplation, seclusion, spiritual channelling...you get the picture.

Your # 12 sign will support you and/or ask for support from you. This is where you give if you're strong (rich), and get if you're weak (poor). We often fear our # 12, because we fear being helpless. A # 12 relationship usually "happens" when we're going through a healing period in our lives, or because we want seclusion and rest. A bond with your # 12 can be uniquely spiritual and peaceful. Sex is easy, but the passion tends to be weak or to fade over time. Relations between # 1 (you) and # 12 are uniquely diplomatic, sympathetic and polite. However, real issues between you can fall prey to inattention or avoidance. Eventually, this can cause repression, suffocation, or boredom. You might sit in the café with nothing to say between you. You easily support your # 12, and the spiritual uplift he/she gives you might be worth any sacrifice - or not. For marriage, this bond (as with your # 2 sign) must have additional buttressing/passionate aspects if it is to remain vital over the years.

Original link: http://www.astralreflections.com/html/comp.html


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posted August 24, 2007 04:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
alva...with all due respect how can your sun sign NOT pay a huge part in relationships...your sun sign is YOU!!!

Your self-expression, your makeup....

You deny that, you deny your SELF!!!!

ps I take my comments from years of personal obsevations and self-study.

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posted August 24, 2007 11:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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do you by any chance see an aqua girl with sag moon to be compatible with cance sun , gemini moon ?

Are you talking about me?

Seriously, I am not attracted "that way" to the cancer's I've met, but I haven't met all of them.

Your moon may really help things. A lot would depend on your (and her) other planets. If they are compatible, then yes, she would be.

Based on sun signs alone, though, this is not an ideal match IMHO. Cancer is too emotional, too nurturing, too dependent for aquarius. Aquarius is too "not" any of these qualities for cancer.

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Sun Aqua, Moon Sagg, Asc Taurus

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posted August 26, 2007 03:47 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks ALVA that was really good !

Thanks Hipp , thanks for the reminder but yeha that was about friendship , this is more than that .
personally i get along with all air signs but i ahve never known an aqua woman so didn't know .


so ,all in all , i believe that is hard match !
thanks everyone !

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posted August 26, 2007 11:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancerrg--

I find it not coincidence that you use the word "friendship..."

To Aquas it all begins there and ends there...

Blessings

Terri

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Dulce Luna
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posted August 26, 2007 04:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, I really think that telling someone that their match is ill-fated based on sunsigns alone is erroneous. Just my opinion.

Anyways, Rg: While aqua and cancer definitely speak two different languages (its practically like no comprende), I think the gemini moon will help ALOT in relating to this Aqua; your record with airsigns is testimony to that.

P.S. I think opposing moons can go either way, but me personally, I've always had great relations with moons in the opposing sign to mine.

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posted August 26, 2007 04:19 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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P.S. I think opposing moons can go either way, but me personally, I've always had great relations with moons in the opposing sign to mine

I agree with you Dulce Luna

I have an Aries Moon and my best friend has a Libra Moon. We`re friends for almost 15 years !

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