posted September 29, 2007 11:42 AM              

I know he will swim back eventually because he needs something from me - but I guess I will just put up a dam so he can't swim past :P

posted September 30, 2007 08:53 AM            

Of course both of you getting absolutely loaded on booze will either bring out the absolute truth or absolute bullsh!t, but quite honestly I have no other idea how to deal with it.

The waiting and weirdness with your pisces is so typical, I used to sulk about my pisces lack of communication but wouldn't do it either. But in the end we are WAY too much alike, so I'm hoping you guys aren't the same!

posted September 30, 2007 10:49 AM              

Ozmeg - my Leo pride at this point FORBIDS me from making contact LOL -

posted September 30, 2007 08:31 PM            

I'm currently with the 3rd Pisces I've dated. They say the third time...er..."guy's" a charm right? Well, I kind of think it is in this case. From what I've read from soconfused, ozmeg (in the past), and AriesPink, these Pisceans of yours sound a lot like the 2nd Pisces I dated. I was in a CONSTANT state of confusion with him. It was the usual hot and cold all the time. Sometimes he was affectionate and sweet, other times he would just fall off the face of the earth and I wouldn't hear from him for who-knows-how-long. Thankfully for me (although I didn't think so at the time), he moved away. We both just decided NOT to try the long distance thing, and I'm glad we did. My sanity would have gone out the window.

I really thought I was done with Pisces for good. The first one had the "weak" tendencies that everyone complains about, and even with a Pisces moon I couldn't take much of that with a Leo ascendant and Cappie sun & mars. And of course, the second one was changeable, and deceptive. But, wouldn't it figure, that the very next guy I get involved with is another fish.

This fish has been very different since the beginning. I think A LOT of it has to do with him having a stable, responsible Virgo moon conjunct Saturn, and a WONDERFUL direct, straightforward, and honest Aries Mercury. Instead of frustrating and confusing me, this relationship has relaxed me. I have never felt so comfortable with anyone before. My biggest complaint about him is that he is not the most romantic guy in the world...but we joke about that, and I have a feeling he might surprise me sometime. Still though, he is ALWAYS there for me. We talk nearly every day, sometimes for hours if we can't see eachother. He's really become my best friend and I couldn't say that about the other Pisces guys I dated.

posted September 30, 2007 11:56 PM              

Although,I can clearly see that my Arian lass always has good intentions,but there are times when I feel certain things she does are unfair and selfish(according to me)
.I usually keep a mental count of how many times such a thing happens and when it exceeds a limit,I react in the typical piscean way...by being sarcastic or being cold(the worst to do to an Arian).I NEVER call back or initiate a conversation after such a thing,UNLESS I feel am wrong.(sounds egoistic,but thats about my only self protection,because am so very nice n fair to everyone around)
Sometimes I have even blown up in loud verbal burst with her in public(Sag moon) and even an Arian's lung power could not match it.Usually she ends up crying like a baby..
and sometimes I console and sometimes I dont so as not to pamper her too much.
So its usually the cardinal quality of my Arian,that leads her to initiate things again
and then finally we make up

Bottomline is that you have to recall if you
have said or done something to him.You'll have a hard time figuring that because we are not so expressive,but my cute Arian baby is now able to read these things easily now

Anyway,I wish u a good time back,because I really think this is a steamy match and worth the time !

posted October 01, 2007 08:32 AM              

My arian lass used to call me like crazy,but over time she has matured a lil n understands
when she should hang up..this reminds me of an incident when i had gone on a short vacation with my good ol male pals n she started calling
me al the time..in a short vacation,u find it hard to take calls n speak at times..so she even started calling my friends..it created quiet a mess for me emotianally coz even my friends dint know wot to do..I dint know whom to support then n v had some big fights,but eventually we made up...but this water sign thing in me
didnt let the incident go off so easily...after a few months I got a chance to do the same..I kept calling at her office n demanded that she speak to me,no matter what..n then again a big fight n finally I feel now we both understand things much better

Yeah...we MUST retreat every now n then to our privacy.

I think Pisces is big on being fair..treat them fairly..if u have male friends,then let em have female friends

Pisces is not an initiator,so I'm afraid you have to initiate most stuff here..unless the chart has more cardinal stuff

What has hooked me to my Arian baby is her innocense and honesty..just cant resist it!

Hope it helps !

posted October 01, 2007 11:47 AM              

:fireworks:

posted October 02, 2007 12:17 AM            

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Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer

posted October 03, 2007 01:39 AM              

Glad I could be of help..If he has mutable
stuff in his chart,then it could be even harder to initiate stuff,but
the plus is that he wont be angry or hold grudges for long
and will make up in no time...as if nothing really happened ...i too have a lot of mutable stuff in my chart and that makes it so easy for me to makeup

regarding space,I need it so that I can sort out the clutter of my day to
day thoughts..since we tend to soak up everything around us and
look at everything from a thousand different
angles and weight all possibilities,so it all adds up to considerable amount of stress
...it could be a boon and a curse at the same time !..deep down I feel its more
of a curse,coz eventually we have to live in this mundane physical world..lucky is that
Fish who is smoothly able to glide in and out of these 2 worlds easily.

My retreats usually last around an hour

Please keep me posted how its going betwn u both coz its so very similar to ours !

posted October 03, 2007 01:50 AM              

Yes,I cannot trade my evasiveness,because of every sign tends to have something or the other
that annoys the other...like Linda herself said
in the Sag-Pisces chapter that "an ethic is an ethic..whatever form it takes".

That said,I'm not that evasive with my girl as I may be with some others..the reason is simple..I'm mutable and I tend to imitate the one in front...and barring a Sag,who can be more outright honest than an Arian ?...So I'm the same with her..but the good thing I find in this rship is that somehow am not the only one compromising...we both are learning the good of each other while tolerating/understanding the bad...I think this is the best way a rship works..isn't it ?

posted October 03, 2007 06:43 AM              

Fishean,