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Topic: Love At First Sight
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 52159 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 30, 2011 12:12 PM
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starmoon Knowflake Posts: 1621 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 05, 2011 02:16 AM
i have experienced this just recently, 8 months ago when i first met my bf. it was complete attraction from both sides the minute we saw one another. i have never ever had this happen before so i examined our charts to see if i could figure out what was going on. the strongest contacts we have (all at 1 degree or less) are: venus c. pluto (both ways) venus c. uranus (both ways) venus t. mars (both ways) venus c. sun moon t. node moon c. pluto sun t. node juno c. juno my venus is in his 1st house and my moon in his 5th. i think all of these aspects combine(d) to make an instant attraction to one another. personally i immediately felt that venus/pluto pull - for no good reason i wanted to just start jumping at this guy sexually and that was in the first 5 minutes of just seeing him and not even uttering a word yet. i just recall going home the night we met and telling my parents i had met 'the one.' that was my scorpio intuition at work though and so far we are very well-matched and i can see the various chart elements in play. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 4148 From: Miami Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 14, 2011 02:50 AM
quote: Originally posted by lolamonroe: lust equates heavy opposites and trines I think and love is moon conjunctions...?
and a combination of the two is pure bliss 
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amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 4148 From: Miami Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 14, 2011 03:12 AM
quote: Originally posted by starmoon: i have experienced this just recently, 8 months ago when i first met my bf. it was complete attraction from both sides the minute we saw one another. i have never ever had this happen before so i examined our charts to see if i could figure out what was going on. the strongest contacts we have (all at 1 degree or less) are: venus c. pluto (both ways) venus c. uranus (both ways) venus t. mars (both ways) venus c. sun moon t. node moon c. pluto sun t. node juno c. juno my venus is in his 1st house and my moon in his 5th. i think all of these aspects combine(d) to make an instant attraction to one another. personally i immediately felt that venus/pluto pull - for no good reason i wanted to just start jumping at this guy sexually and that was in the first 5 minutes of just seeing him and not even uttering a word yet. i just recall going home the night we met and telling my parents i had met 'the one.' that was my scorpio intuition at work though and so far we are very well-matched and i can see the various chart elements in play.
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amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 4148 From: Miami Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 14, 2011 05:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by RegardesPlatero: How can you know that you love someone if you've never had the chance to forgive each other or experience reconciliation? How do you know that you really love someone until you've had to face rough times together and have seen that person's true colors?
Wow Regardes...you are soo right! .....but I am torn bc I could also see how sharing many lifetimes with someone can result in this feeling of familiarity, acceptance and closeness right from the beginning that make you feel like you care about the person a lot, a lot and is like the love you had for them in a past life did not die and so you feel it immediately when you see them. But this feeling would need to be backed up with actions, like you say and if it is backed up with actions then you can later conclude that it was indeed love at first sight and not lust at first sight. Like what I had with my husband we both cared a lot about each other from the beginning after only talking for a week or two and it was never about lust with him. I am married to someone who felt like a companion and friend right from the beginning, who I did not want to care about but did almost right away. It was never that I wanted to merge with him, it was more like I care about you immensely, you feel like a companion and close friend but you are interesting, smart and cool and can see you have a real good heart so I want to date you. I feel this relationship is very karmic and he is not my twin soul but is a soulmate. With my ex it was eros and psyche type of love simultaneously first sight for both that quickly turned to an intense passionate and spiritual mutual love for one another, but I was 19 with no relationship skills and he was 22 with more experience than me but still not enough. I had an intense longing to merge with him from the the beginning. My psyche conjuncts his sun and my eros trines his eros in synastry. We had a Sun/mars/pluto tight stellium with tsquare venus, moon and neptune in composite combined with moon conjunct moon, mars trine venus, venus sextile venus, mars trine mars and his sun in my 12th and my sun in his 12th in synastry. Also, my vertex conjunct his NN by 1 orb. Our heliocentric composite is amazing. He saw me in line and sensed I was special and I didnt know he saw me first until recently. I saw him and sensed the same thing. Then we locked eyes and I was drawn to him like magnet. 9 years later I can still sense when he is in trouble and he still loves me and I care about him but I feel we have both just gone in very different directions. I have changed a lot and he hasn't. He grows a lot more slowly than me. If we are ever in the same level again and I was completely single, completely like when we first met, my feelings would probable reignite and the intense passionate relationship start again but this time work. He might be my twin soul. Then there is my friend, I feel our relationship is karmic but in a supportive light way. His saturn and 12th cusp conjuncts my southnode and we are guides to eachother. We hang out together and naturally just by interacting get a deeper understanding of what areas we need to work on ourselves. But our composite has pluto in the 10th conjunct venus and venus and mars trine double wammy in synastry, venus/mars trine in tropical composite. In heliocentric composite: mars/pluto/juno grand trine and venus/mars/neptune grand trine. And my helio juno/venus/mercury conjuncts his natal moon/mars/NN. Last, his natal vertex conjuncts my natal karma, venus and mars. He might be my twin soul but so far even though I don't wish to get back with ex at all he has always felt like my twin soul and I feel like his. Who knows....it could be either three. IDK. But my point is that I agree with you for it to be called love it has to pass the test of time, the bond has to be unbreakable, and survive the hard times and many obstacles and even separations. It would have to survive seeing and facing the other person's defects. If it survives all that and there is still a strong love and bond then it is love. However, sometimes it is there from the beginning and time proves that it was there from the beginning.
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Alma Sun Moderator Posts: 2226 From: The East Coast Registered: Mar 2011
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posted December 16, 2011 12:01 AM
I doubt it was love at first sight, but he definitely felt like someone I knew a long time ago. And I met him around the age of 12-13. Attraction at first sight maybe. His Saturn conjs my SN My Neptune conjs his SN My Eros conjs his Psyche His Moon conjs my DC His Merc conjs my IC My Venus conjs his AC My Uranus sextiles his Venus My Sun conjs his Uranus ------------------ "I am not absentminded. It is the presence of mind that makes me unaware of everything else." ― G.K. Chesterton IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 912 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 12, 2012 07:58 PM
Well, I believe in love at first sight. Only because I believe I experienced it when I was 9 years old. The moment we locked eyes that morning back in 1988, I loved her. All time stood still, everything went silent. It felt like I already knew her DEEPLY but we just met. I still love her to this day. I believe she is my mirror.------------------ Gemini Sun Libra Moon Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus Virgo Mars Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 52159 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 13, 2012 11:35 AM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 52159 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 10, 2012 12:32 PM
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posted February 10, 2012 03:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: Not sure I believe in it.
Love at first sight is often cured with a second look  IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 52159 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 11, 2012 01:10 PM
Haha!  ------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
Alma Sun Moderator Posts: 2226 From: The East Coast Registered: Mar 2011
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posted February 12, 2012 04:21 PM
Good one Mblake  ------------------ "The better you feel about yourself, the less you feel the need to show off." — Robert Hand "Cynicism, like gullibility, is a symptom of underdeveloped critical faculties." — Jamie Whyte "I am not absentminded. It is the presence of mind that makes me unaware of everything else." ― G.K. Chesterton IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 2469 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 02, 2012 04:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by Alma Sun: Good one Mblake 
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 52159 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2012 09:51 AM
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 10976 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 10, 2012 04:49 PM
Quoting Prince Charles, "Whatever love means."  I adored my high school/college boyfriend. We had sun trine sun, moon sextile moon, Mercury trine Mercury, Venus sextile Venus, Mars trine Mars, and everything else more or less conjunct. This was the only time in my life where I started a conversation with someone and it really did feel like I had known that person for a million years. It wasn't too much longer when we both agreed that we felt like one soul. Maybe it wasn't LOVE so much as familiarity, based on our similarities? It only felt like love as the years went by and we developed our relationship. In retrospect even that might have just been an addiction. IP: Logged |
saronna Knowflake Posts: 563 From: Australia Registered: Jan 2010
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posted March 15, 2012 02:16 PM
Love at first sight. we have alot of trines and conjunctions in our synastry charts including Pluto conjunct saturn, venus trine saturn and sun trine moon and mars trine uranus indicator of best friends and very unusal; meaning blessed by the ancients. We are best friends and this is what love means. Love at first sight is most likely to be an indicator of venus trine pluto in one or both charts. Hugs RandallIP: Logged |
saronna Knowflake Posts: 563 From: Australia Registered: Jan 2010
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posted March 15, 2012 02:25 PM
Randall hugs. i don't know what happened to my post in love at first sight. Maybe there is a problem with my sight. I can't see my post.IP: Logged |
BrightStar23 Knowflake Posts: 108 From: Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 17, 2012 05:55 PM
Got Gemini- I have had this too. everything goes silent and its like your soul shows you that since the beginning of time you have been doing this dance- back to eachother- your love playing out over and over for eternity. It sparked an intense spiritual awakening for us both. Its like all the secrets of the universe are downloaded to you through eachothers eyes and it all happens in a few moments! IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 3060 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 20, 2012 08:52 PM
Neither one of us are the type to believe in such a thing as love at first sight (Aqua/Sag) but my boyfriend and I had an instant overpowering attraction when we saw one another. My ascendant is his descendant. I don't know if this aspect could influence instantaneous attraction but I believe that it can.IP: Logged |
IamLoved Knowflake Posts: 416 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 21, 2012 11:35 AM
Love at 1st sight?I'm still trying to believe in love again!!! IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 52159 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 27, 2012 12:11 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 52159 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 21, 2012 10:44 AM
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gemisagscorp Knowflake Posts: 59 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted May 01, 2012 07:40 PM
0 degree cojunction and oppostions. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 52159 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 02, 2012 12:05 PM
Are those rare?------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
LovelyKitty Knowflake Posts: 551 From: 12th House with pr.moon Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 16, 2012 03:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by lolamonroe: What aspects trigger love at first sight. I know that the sun opposite pluto is pure chemistry. I also belive that mars trine pluto is a sexual intensity.Or what aspects should we look for in isentifying sexual chemistry???
For me , I didn't feel it at all when my venus contact to others Neptune, Urenus, Pluto. But I do FEEL attracted , when just normal venus-mar contact between both. As my ex-, the hardest hit was... my mars conjunct his venus , also his mars sextile my venus I have natal mars square venus . I had just 2 person that have this aspect with me, it's tolly love at the first sight , love in the air . I couldn't resist myself at all.
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