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posted October 29, 2007 03:08 AM            

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posted October 29, 2007 06:26 AM              

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Imagine a world of the blind.

Now imagine people saying things like "Oh, he didnt seem black. He didnt act black at all, and his chart is so white."

Thats a taste of what gay people have to put up with.

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posted October 29, 2007 02:31 PM            

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Maybe he's bisexual.

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posted October 29, 2007 08:51 PM              

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blueroamer, you don't know if I am or not but my advice is as good as any. especially when the poster doesn't know if her own boyfriend is gay or not, that's a pretty serious lack of information.

I'd say ask him too. you have to love yourself first before you can love anyone so he may not even know yet.

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posted October 30, 2007 04:30 AM              

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Best explanation that I have read for the reason gays are gay:

When a soul has lots more incarnaitons as female than male, then the current male incarnation will be heavily attracted to males.
Sometimes, a soul about to be incarnated as female and is spiritually preprared for the assigment suddenly changes its mind and chooses to be born as male, such a soul has a very high chance of being bisexual.

Some men suddenly become homosexual or bisexual. It can be a case of a "walk in" where a different soul occupies the body and it has had more female incarnations.

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posted October 30, 2007 06:07 PM            

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This is SICK I am outta here!

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posted November 07, 2007 11:26 AM              

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Hi All,

Sorry for bringing this one back to the top again but Ive been quite intrigued by all of your reponses to this topic. Anyhow this is something that lots of people wonder and summise about. I have had alot of gay friends over the years and have experimented myself (Im a girl). But I have come to the conclusion that some people are just born gay, others may through some sort of bad experience ie. abuse, may have turned out gay / bi. They may be mixed up, confused have distorted ideas about what human connections are. And then theres others which I think come out later in life or who are bi or curious, they 'may' have had disconnected / no relationship with there same sex parent and because of this, they unconsiously try to identify with this same sex out of curiousity sexually as its the intimate you can identify. Lots of Psychologists etc etc have written that humans start to identify sexually as kids not in a consious way though. But I have known one or two people including myself who has thought they were maybe bi but when they actually experimented they realised that they were just curious or liberal and that they could never actually fall in love with the same sex. And I think thats what being gay is really about whether you could fall in live with the same sex.
Anyway just wanted to say that
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posted November 07, 2007 11:36 AM              

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Some men suddenly become homosexual or bisexual. It can be a case of a "walk in" where a different soul occupies the body and it has had more female incarnations.

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A walk in in is a body thief, not the original soul. So the man does not become bi-sexual, he has been kicked out of his body and his identity and body stolen. If he is not kicked out then he is being possessed and it is still not him.
However a man with many female incarnations can suddenly be triggered by someone or something, and one or more of his female incarnation identities can come to fore, whether consciously or consciously.
This can explain why a man can be totally straight but upon meeting a certain man, will cross the line to be with only that man yet totally not attracted to any other men. It could be a part of him remembers that certain man from before.

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posted November 07, 2007 11:48 AM              

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But I have known one or two people including myself who has thought they were maybe bi but when they actually experimented they realised that they were just curious or liberal and that they could never actually fall in love with the same sex. And I think thats what being gay is really about whether you could fall in love with the same sex.

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I totally agree! Otherwise it is just sex, like masturbating...it has nothing to do with what gender one prefers. And many folks when going through puberty experiment with same sex friends. It is completely normal and most do not go onto to be gay or lesbian or even bi.

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posted November 07, 2007 03:50 PM            

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That is so true about the masturbation similarity. We played "doctor" with other little girls because they were too paranoid to ever leave us alone with little boys long enough. lol. That didn't make us lesbians. Remember when a boy seeing your panties was a big shameful thing?

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posted November 07, 2007 04:03 PM              

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Remember when a boy seeing your panties was a big shameful thing?

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Oh boy do I remember! And I started having menstrual cycles at age 9 and felt like a freak!
So I wore blue jean cut off shorts under my dresses and skirts. That was in the "old" days before girls were allowed to wear pants or jeans.
The boys loved grabbing my purse and tossing my pads and tampons about. It was no fun being a girl.

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~Do Not Seek Wealth From The Suffering, Or The Dire Needs Of Others~
~Assumption Is The Bane Of Understanding~
~ if you keep doing what you did, you'll keep getting what you got.~
Everything changes.
Fear not the changes.
"My body is physically disabled, but I am not my body nor am I its disabilities!"
"I would rather," Truth said; "to walk naked than wear the raiments of Falsehood!"
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posted November 07, 2007 08:29 PM            

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That happened to me at nine too. I don't envy kids today but in SOME ways they DO have it easier.

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posted November 07, 2007 09:00 PM              

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stillatlarge
Are you old enough to remember the "strap and safety pins" before the days of self adhesives?
That was absolutely horrible!
Boys sure had it easier!

PS. apologies for segueing the thread.

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~Do Not Seek Wealth From The Suffering, Or The Dire Needs Of Others~
~Assumption Is The Bane Of Understanding~
~ if you keep doing what you did, you'll keep getting what you got.~
Everything changes.
Fear not the changes.
"My body is physically disabled, but I am not my body nor am I its disabilities!"
"I would rather," Truth said; "to walk naked than wear the raiments of Falsehood!"
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posted November 08, 2007 05:22 PM            

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Yes, I do. We had the modern stuff at home but if you happened to get "your visitor", as they used to call it, at school then you were back in the stone age. Weren't they fun, especially during gym class? As if we weren't self concious and paranoid enough.

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posted November 08, 2007 07:30 PM              

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stillatlarge
No kidding! Granny rags and gym class..bad combination!

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~Judgement Must Be Balanced With Compassion~
~Do Not Seek Wealth From The Suffering, Or The Dire Needs Of Others~
~Assumption Is The Bane Of Understanding~
~ if you keep doing what you did, you'll keep getting what you got.~
Everything changes.
Fear not the changes.
"My body is physically disabled, but I am not my body nor am I its disabilities!"
"I would rather," Truth said; "to walk naked than wear the raiments of Falsehood!"
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