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Topic: My boyfriend is gay
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LeoCat
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posted October 27, 2007 05:31 PM
 
Ok so I think I've got it figured out, my new bf is a closet homosexual. He's got all the signs:1. He's an aqua/Gemi (heard it can be rather common here)
2. His Lilith falls in my 12th house of secrets
3. His own lilith is in his 5H with Pluto and Uranus (yikes)
4. His Mars is in Sagittarius conj Jupiter and Neptune, 7H
5. His Moon is in his 12H conj Saturn. His juno is in there too dont know if that makes a difference.
6. His Venus is in Sagittarius 8H.
7. Most unfortunate is his Venus square Chrion which screams gender identity crisis and is strong in the charts of transexuals. This is quite disturbing to me as I normally have excellent gaydar. Any thoughts on this? Oh please, I'm really concerned about this. Thanks.
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BlueRoamer
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posted October 27, 2007 05:44 PM
That's all nonsense. Screw astro for figuring out if someone is gay. I've seen so many gay mens charts and theres no correlation.Does he check out men?
Does he have gay porn on his computer?
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hippichick
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posted October 27, 2007 05:44 PM
I would definately not look solely into astrology for your answer!!!If, infact he is, it is his deal and not yours, it will be for him to "come out" when he is darn good and ready, please do not make it your issue. I have many gays in my life and I am quite straight. I have looked to their charts for this clue and that clue and have never, ever found anything common, astrologically as to the sexual preference of an individual. It is highly personal and not so astrological...more soul related, I think. IP: Logged |
LeoCat
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posted October 27, 2007 05:52 PM
You guys really thinks so? He doesn't check out other men for sure I would have noticed. If he has gay porn I haven't noticed I would have been out the door in two seconds. Thanks, your answers actually did make me feel better. There's just something there I'm trying to put my finger on. This is so stupid!!!!IP: Logged |
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posted October 27, 2007 05:59 PM
If you have a feeling about something, then I agree with the others - you won;t find it in the astrology, but rather in whatever you may be noticing within the context of your relationship. I would dig a little deeper into what made you think of that possibility in the first place. IP: Logged |
LeoCat
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posted October 27, 2007 06:05 PM
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hippichick
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posted October 27, 2007 06:31 PM
O, and if he is an Aqua sun...well that classifies him as an oddball anyway  really....!!! IP: Logged |
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posted October 27, 2007 06:49 PM
Does he have sex with you? then he is not gay IP: Logged |
LeoCat
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posted October 27, 2007 06:57 PM
Yes he has sex with me but c'mon, I've had sex with a gay guy before. He was just fascinated with women. But that was a long time ago when I was much younger and irresponsible. I dont do those things anymore :-P. Have casual sex I mean.IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted October 27, 2007 08:22 PM
no LeoCat gay men do not have sex with women.
They may bond and relate to women but no sex.This is where you need to be careful with mis-information, there is the potential to cross lines and unfairly hurt or label someone with astro guesses. In case I haven't mentioned this before, serious astrology students should learn the ethics of astrology before they begin their astro journey.  out IP: Logged |
fayte.m
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posted October 27, 2007 11:12 PM
Gay men do not ever have sex with women?  LeoCat  You really cannot tell from his chart. And if he's not scoping out the guys, I would not worry. Same for if he likes your boobs. ------------------
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Astralmuse
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posted October 28, 2007 02:41 AM
LeoCat, there are certain placements/aspects that are statistically more common in gays, but there is a *big* difference between "probable/possible" and "definite." There are gay men who do have or have had sex with women as an experiment and/or an attempt to conform/be "normal" - and there are also men who are bisexual but perhaps lean more towards other men. But from what you've written, my take is that you aren't zeroed in on his sexuality so much as you are on him having a "secret." Perhaps this is the Lilith falling in your 12th house - his unacknowledged underside is making you uncomfortable. It's best to address 12th house issues, so if you have "something you can't put your finger on" - bring it to the surface and talk to him about things. An honest discussion can clear up confusion so easily. It can be very misleading to try to match up a nebulous suspicion to a chart, especially if you are not an adept, practiced astrologer.
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MUSTANG
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posted October 28, 2007 02:50 AM
This: quote:
Ok so I think I've got it figured out, my new bf is a closet homosexual. He's got all the signs:
1. He's an aqua/Gemi (heard it can be rather common here)
2. His Lilith falls in my 12th house of secrets
3. His own lilith is in his 5H with Pluto and Uranus (yikes)
4. His Mars is in Sagittarius conj Jupiter and Neptune, 7H
5. His Moon is in his 12H conj Saturn. His juno is in there too dont know if that makes a difference.
6. His Venus is in Sagittarius 8H.
7. Most unfortunate is his Venus square Chrion which screams gender identity crisis and is strong in the charts of transexuals.This is quite disturbing to me as I normally have excellent gaydar. Any thoughts on this? Oh please, I'm really concerned about this. Thanks.
Is a joke, right? You don't really believe someone is gay from a chart?! I think you're just scared and digging for dirt on him to find a way to rationalize your way out. JMO. Why don't you just ask him? If he's a gem/aqu he'll most likely fess up (if there's something to fess) and therein lies the rub... you better be sure you aren't wrong before you ask; since you already slept with him, he will be really offended. Men are funny like that... 
EDIT: Oh, I just realized. He has some similiar things to my chart!
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GeminiLover75
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posted October 28, 2007 04:11 AM
If you can tell if someone is gay from their chart, can you also tell whether is someone is straight? IP: Logged |
marsconjunctmercury
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posted October 28, 2007 07:19 AM
He has sex with but doesn't enjoy it. He thinks of a man during sex because this turns him on more than her. In fact having sex with her is like having sex with a man. Hope this helps.
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Nightjar
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posted October 28, 2007 10:05 AM
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Kat
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posted October 28, 2007 01:07 PM
If you're so concerned about an issue that you're using astrology instead of personal contact, what does this say about your relationship anyway???IP: Logged |
BlueRoamer
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posted October 28, 2007 01:17 PM
I don't know WHAT you guys are talking about. Gay men have sex with women ALL the time. I don't know where you people go tthat idea, but it is ERRONEOUS. Just because your boyfriend is having sex with you, doesn't mean hes not gay. If this were the case, why are the lots of children with gay fathers who divorced their wives??? Talk about misinformation, sheesh! IP: Logged |
Vintry
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posted October 28, 2007 01:26 PM
Saying someone might be gay because he has a chart of a gay to me is exactly the same as saying that two people will love and marry each other because their synastry is that of a married couple, when in fact they are nothing but friends. IP: Logged |
stillatlarge
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posted October 28, 2007 01:48 PM
Being that you're a Leo you may not be as intuitive as a Cancer but your judgment is usually pretty good. I'd say trust your instincts. I've noticed that if it ever occurs to me that a guy could be gay, 99% of the time he is. It's also been my experience with Gemini that they are very likely to be bi. Not all by any means, but a LOT I've met have been. They don't seem to be able to control their thoughts and they are always curious that way. The same way they flip flop on everything else applies to their orientation. JMO.IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted October 28, 2007 01:50 PM
If he has Venus and Mars in Sag maybe he justs like lots of people? and he is confused? Many of us same element venus and mars people get confused by people because their sexual energies are strong and direct, and not hidden or shameful.So they get labeled and confused in their identity. Gay is about WHO YOU ARE not who you have SEX WITH. Think about it. It takes a life time to figure out who you are, lifestyle is just how you live it can change. How do YOU KNOW if SOMEONE Else is Gay? How do you know him better than he does? The Logic here escapes me. Gay is just a word, nobody knows themselves with Venus and Mars in Sag, it's too hard with all that sexual energy. He wants to do someone. anyone. Promiscuity is not about desire it's about a lack of control. "The Dooo Doo Doo, the Da Da Da, is all I have to say to you, the meaningless and all that's true"
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Missa
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posted October 28, 2007 02:05 PM
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7. Most unfortunate is his Venus square Chrion which screams gender identity crisis and is strong in the charts of transexuals.
I've got Venus-Chiron-Uranus t-cross, as well as Mars-Chiron-Uranus t-cross, and I most certainly don't have any gender identity crisis, nor have I ever read such descriptions of those placements. Oh, Venus is part of a yod too! *laughs* Seriously, you can't tell such a thing from someone's chart. There are tons of people born at the exactly same time in the world all the time, most of them are straight and some find themselves to be homosexuals. Sure some placements could be more common than others, but astrology only tells what kind of energy a person may possess, not how that energy manifests. If you think that your boyfriend is a homosexual, then simply ask him. That's the only way to find out for sure. No one can actually recognize whether someone is gay or not, what some people do notice is a pattern of social behaviour common in gay culture. However, not all gays are into it, and it is impossible to tell of such a person that they're homosexuals, due to this some surprises happen when such persons come out of closet ("he didn't seem like a gay", "I would have never guessed it"). IP: Logged |
BlueRoamer
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posted October 28, 2007 02:10 PM
gay is about WHO YOU ARE......actually Natasha most people would say that its really about who you LOVE...since you are not gay I'm pretty sure you are not the AUTHORITY on this issue.IP: Logged |
fayte.m
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posted October 28, 2007 11:13 PM
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LeoCat
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posted October 29, 2007 01:35 AM
Sorry LaLinda! I'll be more careful about my responses, sorry, my mouth just shoots off most of the time. So many responses this post generated, gotta catch up!IP: Logged |
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