posted November 12, 2007 04:30 AM              

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really like the Capricorn one btw lol

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capricorn will not regard the flashy sportscar as a turn-on; they will regard it as a sign you are an idiot

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I loved that line too. That's why I made sure to include it!

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I'm not interested in receiving any information from you as this book already lives in my home library as well.

I just wanted to stop in here to say, This is really a very generous and kind offer of you to share so much of your time and energy helping everyone out this way.

You ROCK!!!

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Aww...shucks... *blushes*

Do you like the book?

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Frankly, the Virgo description was right on, on several layers for me.

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Really? Thanks for the feedback, becuase I was wondering about that one,(virgo) especially. I also enjoyed the feedback on the cappy.

I added the parenthetical about the flowers. My bad.

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So, MUSTANG, I know this is off topic but re: The Aquarius Man, since you are one, then... Do Aquarian men ever love, commit or desire companionship?
I ask because well, I am doing God knows what with an Aquarian and he is the one who brings up the subject of "you're my girlfriend", basically he is doing all or desiring all the No No's you mentioned above, and I seem not to believe a word he says because I am inclined to think that Aquarius men are as you described above.

Basically, whenever he says something romantic, I just consider it utter rubbish, but other than that, we get on like a house on fire giggling all the time.

Apparently my skepticism hurts his feelings. I doubt that. I think what hurts his feelings is that I am onto him.

What do you think?

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I'm a aquarius woman. But I'll answer, nonetheless.

I can fit the sterotypical aquarius stuff. I am fearful of beiong trapped and need to know the person I am getting involved with is a good, decent person. So I wait and I watch. I am cautious when it comes to love. I think a lot of aquarius people are this way. We dissect you before we will want a committment.

That said, I can be thee most sentimental, romantic, and security loving person. I want a guarantee (although I know that's not possible) that you won't hurt me. See, aquas are terrified of being vulnerable, especially in their younger years. We would ideally like you to sign your name in blood that you will never harm us, and will be our friend FOREVER. But we're a realistic lot, so we just detach.

That said, I want an all or nothing relationship. Us aqua's are high strung as it is. We need a grounded relationship, but we also need to be sure you are not going to go all Fidel Castro on us, so again, we detach. We also don't like to show our emotions. We like to know you feel the same way before showing our hand.

What do I think? I think your guy loves you. Period. Aquarians do commit. They do fall in love... Much to most astrologers advice to the contrary.

Never forget, people before astrology. His actions are telling you who he is. Who knows, maybe he has a water moon. Whatever the case, it doesn't matter, because he is showing you who is and how he feels about you!

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Apparently my skepticism hurts his feelings. I doubt that. I think what hurts his feelings is that I am onto him.

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I guarantee it DID hurt his feelings. He made himself vulnerable to you and you didn't believe him. That had to sting. It would've hurt me. You need to apologize, now!

posted November 12, 2007 04:35 AM              

I will do them as soon as possible!

posted November 12, 2007 10:53 PM              

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LOL... Oh, gosh, I will do so right away. Thanks a million.
and great job on the thread as YFIS said.

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Ok...

Aries

I could do aries woman myself, but I won't.

Methinks yon aries has a lean and hungry look

What charm. That smile, that confidence, that presence, that aura of energy.

Surely this person could take a hold of life and swallow it whole.

Hold onto your horses(or rams)you've just met an aries.

Aries have an all-out approach to life and sex. They are achievement oriented dynamos who love nothing more than a challenge.

Aries men secretly identify with Tarzan- and so do aries women!

Their sexual drive is raw and primeval.

To interest an aries, you must appear intersting rather than interested. There are two fundamental points to remember:

1] Aries are suckers for image and are always concerned about the impression they make.

2] They love a challenge.

You must skillfully cater to both these foibles. You must let them know that you find them interesting but you must NOT let them think that you are a sexual pushover. Never tell them that they fascinate you - especially if they do. Try to convey interest in them, but, if anything, appear rather uninterested in getting them into bed; aries wants to think they got you into bed - that way they feel they had their way and got what they wanted.

Key Tactic
Charm and withdraw.

An integral part of the charming phase will be the way you present yourself physically. Aries must be convinced they look good standing next to you. You must be an asset to their ego.

Display your status symbols shamelessly. Aries are not impressed by modesty. An ideal status symbol is a sports car - especially a red one.

Impress dynamic aries as being ever ready for action. Never appear tired. Never yawn.

Aries is impressed by name-dropping. They love the big time - which is where they feel they deserve to be.

Key Tactic
Run away until you catch them.

Never chase an aries if you want to get them into bed. Aries like conquests and challenges. Aries respond to playing hard to get more than any other sign. Feign mild indifference and they will pull-out all the stops to win you over. You must keep them intrigued and uncertain.

To seduce an aries, present yourself as a challenge. Never forget that aries is ruled by Mars, the God of War. To aries, love is warfare. They want the challenge, the battle, the conquest. Once they feel they've conquered you, you're history.

Above all else: Never let them feel they've conquered you before you've had sex with them. If you do, you may never get that roll in the hay.

Aries women can have a very male-like sexual appetite - including the desire for conquest. Ms. Aries usually doesn't mind calling a f**k a f**k and probably prefers you do to.

If you're one of those guys who has a secret worry that your equipment is smaller than the national average, the aries woman is not for you. Aries women are most likely impressed by big things and have never believed those magazine articles that say size doesn't matter.

Aries would rather display anger than vulnerability.

If you enter a relationship with an aries, you have to be prepared for stand-up, toe-to-toe psychic slugfests. Indeed, with some aries, a sure sign that they have lost affection for you is when they stop arguing with you.

A final warning: sexual exclusivity is difficult for aries, but they will expect you to be their exclusive sexual property.

Must Do's

Reassure the aries male that he is abundantly equipped or at least equal to the national average.

Reassure aries of both sexes that their technique is outstanding.

Dress well.

Keep them convinced there's a potential sexual adventure just around the corner.

No-No's

Don't appear too interested, but don't appear uninterested.

Never let sex fall into a pattern.

Never tell an aries you are in love with them.

***Such brats! And now tell me Samantha isn't an aries!

posted November 12, 2007 11:42 PM            

Some of that applies.. Some doesn't at all, but with Moon/Mars in Cap - it sort of neutralizes my Aries-ness hehe

I agree with DON'T chase! Because that does put me off.. I feel very frazzled and imposed upon. They can approach *carefully* and *friendly* lol - but definitely not in an overtly sexual way.. That puts me off.

The problem with doing the opposite and 'playing' hard to get is that I snuff it out straight away. They'd have to have a personality that IS slightly aloof naturally.. not by putting on an act. Any sort of falsity will put an Aries person off.

Another problem with playing hard to get is - it's SUCH a thin line the person would be threading.. If they put on too much of an act or over-sell it, they'd offend the *gigantic* Arien ego - that we all love to death lol - and the Aries person's goals would change from - trying to sleep with X - to … trying to hurt X and teach him/her a lesson .. + never ever sleeping with X for as long as they both shall live lol

I do want my guy to be demonstrative. If he didn't tell me he loved me.. it would have a negative impact not a positive one.

Other than that.. I thought some parts were true

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Surely this person could take a hold of life and swallow it whole.

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Lol I'd like to think that on a good day I come across this way.

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Impress dynamic aries as being ever ready for action. Never appear tired. Never yawn.

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Yeah.. I can see that.. The more ready for action they look, the better.. but I am actually impressed by modesty and put of by arrogance - maybe that's Capricorn-like

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Ms. Aries usually doesn't mind calling a f**k a f**k and probably prefers you do to.

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lol I don't mind calling it a s**ew either..

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Indeed, with some aries, a sure sign that they have lost affection for you is when they stop arguing with you.

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True! We become cold - when it's over, it's over.

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*Such brats! And now tell me Samantha isn't an aries!

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posted November 14, 2007 05:04 PM              

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***Such brats! And now tell me Samantha isn't an aries!

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I agree with everything CoralFrequency said... that's exactly like me... o.O

posted November 16, 2007 09:48 AM              

Ok, I just realized I left out Cancer male for NAM.

Cancer

I took my boy to a psychiatrist. Dr. Freudenheimer said Sheldon had an Oedipus complex. Oedipus smedipus. What does it matter as long as he loves his mother?

Key Tactics
1]Get them to mother you and/or you mother them.
Cancerians love to be fussed over and spoiled - and they like to do the same for others.

One ploy for getting cancers interested in you is to expose your wounded, tragic soul.

They tend to be emotional, sentimental - even mushy - cancer's wear their heart on both sleeves.

If you do invite them over to your place, makesure your kitchen is well-stocked. It should look like you could survive a two month siege.

You must be seen as a safe homebody.

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Above all else, convey that you understand that happiness lies in domestic bliss.

Ask about their mother frequently.

Cancerians tend to be moody and easily hurt. A common cancerian tactic for protecting against future hurts is to pick holes in potential love partners and look for reasons why they are totally unsuitable.In this way, they fend off a lot of future emotional pain - and a lot of pleasure as well.

Cancerians believe in love at first sight.

The seduction must be based on 1930's movies.

The key indicator to watch for is a "starry eyed" look on their part. From then on, you should be just fine.
Display your cleavage to advantage. Titillation - to a cancer - can be just that.

Thed symbol of cancer is the crab: and that's exactly what they can be - crabby.

They can be terribly upset by the merest trifle. You'll need to become a good apologizer.

They are shrewder and more dominating than they first appear. Cancerians wish to dominate the relationship, but they see this as being for your own good.

If you try to exert your independence, you will be subjected to cancerian torture tactics: sulking, brooding, whining, nagging, slander, gossip.

They don't believe in your right to privacy, they believe in their divine right to meddle. They justify this with the all-purpose excuse, "But I worry about you!"

Remember: You won't just be in a relatiosnhip with them. You will also be in a relationship with their mother. Pull out all the stops to get the mother to like you.

Pull out all the stops to get their animals to like you, too. If the animals don't take a shine to you, they will become suspicious of your character.

posted November 16, 2007 02:53 PM              

I'm not at all cancer, but I feel the same way. If children and pets don't like a person I feel there's something wrong with them. Like, they are a bad person. Animals and, to a lesser extent, kids, know.

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Thanks Mustang.

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They don't believe in your right to privacy, they believe in their divine right to meddle. They justify this with the all-purpose excuse, "But I worry about you!"

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posted November 16, 2007 07:43 PM              

Deep down water signs are the same - we have the same foundation, but we each found a different way to deal with the world's onslaught

Cancer turns hard on the outside
Scorpio lashes out to anyone who hurts them - so it doesn't happen again
Pisces just turns indifferent ( denial if you will ) and keep themselves moving to avoid it

The connection is more of a comradery cause we're fighting the same battle so we get what the other's going through. Unfort for pisces both cancer and scorpio *typically* need to know everything to feel safe. The irony is pisces needs trust to feel safe.