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AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 4418 From: Pleasanton, CA Registered: Apr 2009	posted November 11, 2007 04:29 AM His chart looks pretty sexual to me, and I'm not just talking about the Mars in Scorpio. Ruler of the 8th in the 8th Ruler of the 5th in the 8th Sun in Virgo in the 8th Moon in Pisces in the 2nd I wonder if Uranus is somehow throwing a wrench into the works. It's connected with the Sun, Moon, and Venus. My suggestion is to bring on the kink. If this guy lives in his head as much as you say he does, then that's where you need to meet him. Do the thing sexually that he'd never logically think he'd do in his life. That way when he's doing it he'll be astounded and confounded, and probably totally turned on finally. Remember that you can't let him think about whatever it is for too long, or he might chicken out. IP: Logged
yourfriendinspirit unregistered	posted November 11, 2007 04:32 AM Acoustic that's Beautiful! cezanne, Something you can do yourself quickly is really notice 8th house rulers too. Yours being Aries may show some impatience of sorts... His being Leo may show... ?[fill in the blank] (you see where I'm going with this?) Then notice what planets are in these houses and how they act. Yours has Jupitar, representing EXPANSION... His has....The Sun and Mercury (Mercury representing COMMUNICATION) like talking about math and dictionary stuff, LOL! and so on... It's really important to have a clear understanding of the houses and what areas of life these represent in order to grasp a chart. Go to Tim's site, already... (Џ`vДЏ) `.И.Д И.ДИ.Ј) И.Ј) (И.Д (И.Д .Д ИИ.ЈЏ` IP: Logged
mars446 unregistered	posted November 11, 2007 09:13 AM He has his head in the books......very well, try getting him to read aloud to u, or u read to him a romance novel, or both of u try to make a project out of the kama sutra. I hope this helps... IP: Logged
Azalaksh Knowflake Posts: 982 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Apr 2009	posted November 11, 2007 12:44 PM cezanne ~ The chart you put up is the interactive Astro-Click Partner composite chart -- you can click on any of the red/blue/etc aspect lines and get a detailed interpretation of that aspect in a popup window..... YFIS ~ That's a nice little chartcheatsheet for the house meaning/associations!! I especially liked the "Chanel to Universe" in the 10th house -- did you have perfume on your mind that day?? IP: Logged
yourfriendinspirit unregistered	posted November 11, 2007 03:52 PM What Is scent, not a chakra?...... ha...haaa...haa.. Silly Zala, I love your playfulness. Yah, well... re; the chart I wish I could claim it my own creation, but it's one of the pictures I've collected hiding in my secret vault. Don't Anyone Try To Explore, Now... {{{ Thou Are Not Authorized To Veiw This Page }}} Haaaa.....aaaaah aaa......haaaaaaaaa.....Haaa..... anyways, all joking aside... I do have alot of cool little charts! I also like this quick reference one: (Џ`vДЏ) `.И.Д И.ДИ.Ј) И.Ј) (И.Д (И.Д .Д ИИ.ЈЏ` One day, I'll start a thread in here just for interesting cheatsheets... I'll bet others in here have some great hidden goodies too.. ------------------ Sendin' love your way, "your friend in spirit" IP: Logged
Diandra23 unregistered	posted November 11, 2007 06:52 PM Cezanne im a virgo girl but i dont feel exactly identified with his way of acting in bed - for example i do love that my partner inovates and we are always trinyg to do mores stuff that keeps our intimate life enjoyful also (heДs a libra) You can try to one day lock all his books and direct him into another diferent place,for example the bathroom ( as he is a bit clean freak) and make love in the shower - put some candles some rose petals and show a cleaniless place where everything shines around of cleaness hihih Dont think that we Virgos are all shy and pure - we have that inocence to a certain point but we do not neglectj the sex life ( we only completely opne with love and comunication )- may be the thing on there-he doesnt comunicate what he liked so you really dont know what turns im on... You know you tw ohave some beautfiul aspects there and you share deep prfound love for each other sun conj AC Venus conj AC Kiron coj DSC - There+s a healing onto one another through your relationship As oneДs venus fall into anothers 12th-you share deep intuition torwarsd the other and may have been together as lovers in past Venus-URANUS conj - maybe a love at first sight? Saturn conj AC - itДs a glue hat keeps you together no matter what! IP: Logged
Poptart unregistered	posted November 11, 2007 08:19 PM I've been looking at my charts a lot lately, as well, and noticed a few terms in the "legend" that I am not familiar with "True Node, Chiron, and Lilith." Can someone help me out with this? IP: Logged
cezanne unregistered	posted November 11, 2007 08:24 PM Yourfriendinspirit, everything makes a lot more sense now that I have looked more closely at it. At first, my boyfriend and I were confused about why the lines even connect in our individual birth charts, but we've since figured it out. I'll communicate about sex with him, perhaps. I will certainly look into this website made by Tim. You've made this process a lot easier for me. Diandra, thanks for your input. I'll spare you the corny details, but there's no doubt in my mind that we're a pretty good pair who doesn't need superficial things to have a comfortable relationship. I'm trying to make sense of the compatibility ones, but your list gave me a kick-start to it. Thanks a lot. Oh, but one more thing, what is Kiron? IP: Logged
yourfriendinspirit unregistered	posted November 11, 2007 09:21 PM Here's a good short article called, Chiron: The Story of a Soul [ Chiron & Kiron & Kyron & Chyron ] All represent the same thing just different names being used in different programs. IP: Logged
Azalaksh Knowflake Posts: 982 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Apr 2009	posted November 11, 2007 10:28 PM YFIS ~ And she comes up with another valuable cheatsheet!! I liiiiiike the "Humanist, Evolutionary, Traditional" sections -- could we conjecture that the "Traditional" sector would be the first decan, "Humanist" the second, and "Evolutionary" the third?? quote: Silly Zala, I love your playfulness. Yah, well... re; the chart I wish I could claim it my own creation, but it's one of the pictures I've collected hiding in my secret vault. Don't Anyone Try To Explore, Now... {{{ Thou Are Not Authorized To Veiw This Page }}} Haaaa.....aaaaah aaa......haaaaaaaaa.....Haaa..... And the sentiment is mutual, Silly 'Spirit I love your chutzpah in trying to get into my "vault," and you took the No Admittance sign on the door with such good humor IP: Logged
Azalaksh Knowflake Posts: 982 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Apr 2009	posted November 11, 2007 10:40 PM Poptart ~ True Node -- the North half of the Nodes of the Moon, (North Node and South Node, or Dragons Head and Dragons Tail). The "Mean" Node is always transiting retrograde in your chart, the opposite direction from most of the other planets at any given time. The True node goes retro and direct, I believe it's h13 in astro.com's "additional objects" list (YFIS, you put something up about h12 recently..... ??) Chiron -- a Centaur asteroid between the orbits of Saturn and Uranus, or "the transforming bridge between the inner and outer planets" as one expert (Clow) put it..... http://zanestein.com/chiron.htm Lilith -- generally Black Moon Lilith (although there are three or more "Lilith"'s) There's a LOT of information about all three of those subjects at this link: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/006272.html IP: Logged
Geocosmic Valentine Newflake Posts: 0 From: New York, NY Registered: Apr 2009	posted November 11, 2007 11:10 PM Cezanne, Looking at your boyfriends chart, it appears that he has been going through some kind of personal ego wipe-out and hes been either very spiritual in his thinking or confused in his thinking, due to transiting Pluto conjunct his natal Ascendant and then natal Neptune. Id want to ask about his health, has he had a major geographic relocation recently. Also, Neptune squared his Mars which usually suggests a sluggish energy, especially sexually. Neptune has been sitting at 19 degrees Aquarius for a long time now, about 2 months. That would wash out his sexual appetite and possibly even make him feel somewhat ill. Neptune is moving away from that now, but very slowly, so it may take some time. The Pluto transit also suggests that he may have been in a power struggle of some sort over the last 2 years or so, but finally empowered, but some kind of possible illness or even addiction issues may be in his past or even now. He should stay away from addictive drugs and alcohol if possible. Has he been depressed lately and did he have a break up within the last few months? Transiting Saturn just played ping pong with his Venus in Leo in the 8th house. This suggests an echo of the sexual energies being doused. I guess what Im getting at is that this all looks temporary. Venus rules the glands and its something he may want to take a look at to see if its a health issues with the genitals. Because I agree with Acousitc God that he has a very sexual chart, the current planetary transits are just affecting the sexual planets and sectors of his chart. Were there any serious issues happening with his mother or his home? That fits in with the geographic relocation. It could just be that hes very worried about other things going on in his life. It happens sometimes that your needs are off kilter from time to time. Also, you both have a Sun-Uranus conjunction to each others charts. That can also suggest such an intense energy that you need time apart from one another a lot, its a measurement that works well for people who are in long distance relationships. But space is definitely needed between the two people, more so than other couples. OK, I just exhausted myself this late at night, gotta go to bed, but it might be worth it for him to really take a good look at his health. Geocosmic Valentine ------------------ "Everybody is a star!" Sly & The Family Stone IP: Logged
cezanne unregistered	posted November 11, 2007 11:23 PM Geocosmic Valentine: Wow. If it's not too much work, can I have some insights about my individual chart? Maybe if I could compare and contrast some things that went on in my life (that I may have overlooked) with his, this could be really useful information. A lot of what you said have been freakishly correct, and I don't know the first thing about reading these charts in-depth. I can't speak for him effectively in this regard, but I can tell you that the things you have vaguely mentioned are right. IP: Logged
Geocosmic Valentine Newflake Posts: 0 From: New York, NY Registered: Apr 2009	posted November 11, 2007 11:36 PM Hi Cezanne, I'm glad I hit some points for you and I want to tell you that there's nothing freakish about it. It's called Astrology!! It's natural, and it ROCKS!! I can't do it tonight, I have to go to bed, but for further information, email me at: boirlesnow@yahoo.com Just so you know, I am a professional astrologer and I will quote you a fee, just so you're not surprised. In the meantime, that's my opinion, that he's been going through some tough things lately but it looks like those things are easing up for a time, hopefully, but there is more stuff on the horizon for him, he just really has to watch his health. No mind altering substances. Geocosmic Valentine boirlesnow@yahoo.com ------------------ "Everybody is a star!" Sly & The Family Stone IP: Logged
yourfriendinspirit unregistered	posted November 11, 2007 11:58 PM Sorry poptart, did'nt even see your little post in there, LOL! Seems Zala gave you some excellent resources though... Wow, Zala! I had'nt quite thought about that chart in this manner but I do like this decan association theory... - hmm??... I will play with it a bit I continue to laugh about the "Thou Are Not Authorized..." because I can clearly hear a loud deep echoing voice in my head saying it!!! [image: G O D ] Too cute. -LOL! K, here's what I have to share with you on the "LILITH" factor Depends on what Lilith you're talking about... There are 5 things refered to as "Lilith"!!! As shown in this chart below: -It's also important to know whether this is male of females chart we are looking at, as the effects can be dramatically different for each. Are we talking about...The Mean Apogee Black Moon Lilith, [h12] Here is it's Glyph This is what astro.com offers automatically in its additional objects area.. Black Moon Lilith is not a celestial object but an abstract, geometric point. An ellipse has two focal points: in the case of the Moons orbit, the Earth is located at one of the focal points and Black Moon Lilith is considered to be either the other focal point (about 36,000 km from the Earth), or the apogee of the Moons orbit, both points lying in the same direction from the Earth.7 Black Moon Lilith is commonly used in mainland Europe, and its use in the US and UK is increasing... IP: Logged
yourfriendinspirit unregistered	posted November 11, 2007 11:59 PM Or are we talking about one of these four others?... h13 Oscillating apogee Black Moon Lilith also called true BML, this point actually fluctuates a lot, as much as 30 degrees from the mean BML, and it retrogrades often...(It's like the difference between mean node and true node.) h21 Interpolated Lunar Apogee (Lilith), also called 'Natural Apogee' h58 Dark Moon Lilith (Waldemath) Dr. Waldemaths Black Moon This is another hypothetical second moon of the earth, postulated by a Dr. Waldemath in the Monthly Weather Review 1/1898. Its distance from the earth is 2.67 times the distance of the moon, its daily motion about 3 degrees. The orbital elements have been derived from Waldemaths original data. There are significant differences from elements used in earlier versions of Solar Fire, due to different interpretations of the values given by Waldemath. After a discussion between Graham Dawson and Dieter Koch it has been agreed that the new solution is more likely to be correct. The new ephemeris does not agree with Delphine Jays ephemeris either, which is obviously inconsistent with Waldemaths data. This body has never been confirmed. With its 700-km diameter and an apparent diameter of 2.5 arc min, this should have been possible very soon after Waldemaths publication.source 1181 Asteroid Lilith A main-belt asteroid, represented on astrological charts by a glyph of an upturned hand (right). The asteroid Lilith was discovered in 1927 by Russian-French astronomer Benjamin Jekhowsky and given the provisional designation 1927CQ. Here is the asteroids glyph To read a short description through the signsClick Here -and to learn even more, be sure to read these 2 pages of posts by Clicking Here (or) check out this great article at Mountain Astrologer Here. I hope some of this, is found to be helpful... IP: Logged
ciao unregistered	posted November 12, 2007 01:04 AM His chart does look very sexual as Acoustic God pointed out. Golly, this is indeed quite a dilemma! Well, just from my perspective, I think the culprit might be his Venus square Uranus. An individual with this aspect, I've read, tends to blow hot and cold from time to time, and may be unsure about what they want. Secondly, Neptune on the Ascendant can muddle things a bit, causing further confusion. I'm still a novice to astrology, so take this with a grain of salt (or 2 or 3). But I like AG's advice, amp up the kink! Best of luck to you! ciao IP: Logged
GeminiLover75 unregistered	posted November 12, 2007 05:03 AM If it was me, I'd want to know first of all exactly how to get his attention away from the books... My man is a Gemini stellium with Mars in Aquarius trining his Mercury. So my problem when this happens to me isn't just the books/intellectual topic du jour, it's the talking about it. The lecture tends to continues for... a loooong time... and I often end up asleep before any opportunity for intimacy or sex can occur at all. And there's nothing I can do to make him stop talking, and interruptions are not welcome! Sex has always been a secondary interest for my bf. So I can relate to what's going on for you, Cezanne! My method of dealing has been to accept that he's just not as highly sexed as a lot of men are. shrug IP: Logged
Lana29865 unregistered	posted November 12, 2007 05:53 AM Interesting dilemma and great posts, everybody. However, I don't see anyone tackling one interesting area of the synastry chart: There are no planet contacts to the 8th houses of either one from the other person. Any significance...? Also, that area is empty in the composite chart. IP: Logged
babeefoxx unregistered	posted November 12, 2007 07:57 PM My Virgo likes when I initiate the activity. I guess he likes to be the passive one in that department and of course I enjoy it because I'm an Aries. Ask him if he would like to try anything new, I'd have to say my Virgo is a little more adventurous than the usual Virgo, but talking to him would do wonders, he likes honesty, also anything that you like, let him know and he'll do it much more passionately ------------------ I love my Virgo <3 S: Aries ASC: Libra M: Cancer V: Taurus M: Gemini IP: Logged
jane Knowflake Posts: 1277 From: Registered: Jul 2009	posted November 12, 2007 10:40 PM I've noticed a lack of confidence in the romance department among Virgo guys. They just don't perceive themselves as being the sexy studs they actually are or are fully capable of being. (I'm sure many Virgo guys don't have this problem, but I'm close with 3 who do.) Exacerbating this for your guy is that he has Chiron in his 5th house. Chiron is the wounded healer, & its house placement is often said to denote the area of life where a person feels wounded or not up to snuff. The 5th house is, among other things, the house of romance. So couple that with his Virgo Sun, and he may not perceive himself as being good at expressing his sexual side. My suggestion for bringing out his sexy side - dirty word play, like erotic crossword puzzles, for example. It's also important to keep in mind what GeminiLover said & accept that we all have different sex drives. You two may just be incompatible in that way. I do believe though that if you can help a Virgo see himself as sexual, he'll start expressing that part of himself more. IP: Logged
GeminiLover75 unregistered	posted November 12, 2007 11:51 PM Those are some great ideas, Jane! Especially the crossword puzzles. I'm a Sag rising and I too was with a Virgo, for five years. We never had this problem though, as our sex drives were compatible and we both had Mars in water signs (Pisces for me, Scorpio for him). So it worked out. With my Gemini I had to realise that his requirement for sex wasn't as frequent, and to be honest I struggled with that. Our sun (me earth, him air), moon (me water, him fire) and Mars (me water, him fire) signs are all quite different from each other so I think this makes for some incompatibility in that area. It does surprise me that he's not more sexual with Mars as his chart ruler and also ruling his moon, but I think it's the Mars in Aquarius and the absolutely hyperactive intellectualism that gets in the way. lol. So yes do consider the sex drive and are your Mars signs compatible? IP: Logged
jane Knowflake Posts: 1277 From: Registered: Jul 2009	posted November 13, 2007 12:24 AM GemLov - Yes, hyperintellectualism can be such a bother when you just want to get your freak on. But it can also create some kinky flirtations. My Virgo ex and I were both Phil majors. Before we became a couple and during the relationship, he would get his jollies out by deliberately initiating heated discussions on philosophical topics by choosing sides he knew I was against. He faked being a nihilist for months b/c that philosophy psss me off. It helps tremendously with cerebral types when you two share the same intellectual interest. Intellectual discourse is so stimulating for them, that when done right, it can become a turn-on sexually. I have Venus in my 3rd house, so I know of what I speak. It sounds like the OP's boyf is a math lover. I don't know if she's into that too, but maybe they have other academic subjects they're both passionate about. IP: Logged
GeminiLover75 unregistered	posted November 13, 2007 02:06 AM Strangely enough I've never had the intellectual interests spill over into sex. My Virgo ex and I were students together too, lol. Oh wait... we got together when working on a presentation topic together, so I guess you could say the intellectual interest spilled over into sex in that instance. J/k... it became love! Now, I'm thinking that if Cezanne's Virgo man is anything the same as my Gemini with the hyperintellectualism, then nothing will tear him away. I can't ever sidetrack the conversation to lead it to anything more... my Gemini is basically... a monologuer who can't be stopped. What I didn't like for a long time, and still am not crazy about, is the lack of spontanaeity this creates in our sex life (we do have our moments but it's rare to have a spontaneous 'encounter'). It sounds as though this Virgo could be a monologuer about the math... it's like they get fixated on that one thing. Something that does work for me is when he notices that other men might be interested in me so he has to get my attention. hahaha For all my complaining in this post though, it's really not that much of an issue for me anymore. I would suggest that Cezanne's Virgo should get a glimpse of other men giving him a run for his money. Isn't it a universal thing that we're less interested in what we already have, and more interested when we might lose it to someone else? IP: Logged
etheric distortion unregistered	posted November 13, 2007 03:15 AM O.K... honestly..I didn't read much else besides the subject of this post..BUT, as a man, I DO KNOW, that if you (somewhat) agressively apply (some sort of ) friction to the pen!$, you should accomplish said goal!!! My 2 cents, and, your welcome! IP: Logged

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