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cezanne
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posted November 10, 2007 10:07 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Sagittarius woman and I've recently been dating a Virgo man for the past two years. I've been pretty lenient in his sexual reservations and it seems like nothing I do can get him heated. I'm sexually frustrated all of the time, and I love his personality but he's not very adventurous in bed. It seems like all he wants to do is read the dictionary and recite them in his daily vocabulary. Suggestions?

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yourfriendinspirit
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posted November 10, 2007 10:19 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ahhhhhhhh! haaaaaaaaa......haaa.....haa..

Sorry that was funny!!!

I myself am a Sagittarian too..
I was once married to a Virgo man. (4+ years)


hmm? Let me think on this one a bit more, (I'll be back)

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Hey, cezanne... nice to meet you.
And... to the forums!


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Mirandee
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posted November 10, 2007 10:30 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've been married to a Virgo man for 42 years and the opposite of what you stated has been my experience.

My husband has a Scorp moon and Virgo Asc. But just about every other planet in his chart is Virgo so he is a true Virgo.

Must be something else in your guy's chart because sexually this has not been my experience with my Virgo man at all.

Was kind of funny visualizing a guy reading the dictionary in bed with a woman.

Oh and

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yourfriendinspirit
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posted November 10, 2007 10:45 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lets begin...


BREAK THE ROUTINE

Unusual episodes and meetings in strange places will excite him and make him act more passionate.

Actual examples:
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Initiate a morner (It's like the nooner just sooner)use a different area of your house for these purposes, try the shower (Virgos LOVE cleanliness) Bonus here is he has no access to his dictionarys, LOL!
+Go camping! (deeply wooded area is best) He is into the earth, you are adventurous... Hike a bit, Have a candlelit dinner up in a tree. Make the first move.
What's he gonna' do, Climb down? NOT! He'll be completely into it, trust me!
+Go to the lake (late at night) start peeling your clothes off and just go in the water. He'll laugh and make silly excuses at first but with just a little encouragement he'll join you... (water nourishes earth) He be very very excited and playful. Opposite polarity effect here!

Now a quote from the book Seduction By The Stars:
"Virgos are very self-critical. They are terrible moralizers, so you have to tease them along a bit to convince them that what they are about to do is is not only terribly moral, but good for their health because it's natural."

And Mirandee, 42 years..GOOD FOR YOU!!!
I'd like to remind you however, that you are not a Sag girl with all that "FIRE",
you are his same earth element are you not?
You two will naturally be more in tune...
Then add in your water, and you my dear... are his nourishment!, ~LOL!

btw I just realized your daughter and I share the same bday
No wonder you "get me"
*interesting to note, my mother too.. was a "Taurus".

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cezanne
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posted November 10, 2007 11:33 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yourfriendinspirit,

Thanks so much for your advice with my Virgo man. He's very much into math and geeky things like that, so whenever we do have sex (especially when he sleeps), he will seriously recite sine curves and quantum mechanics while we're going at it. Unbelievable, I know. He's a good, genuine person and I love him dearly, but I have to have my needs satisfied, too.

However, I've already tried to touch him around his crotch area in water, but he hates natural water so he's been reluctant to go on swim dates or anything of the sort. And, the camping? He's far more interested in telling me how to travel using the stars alone and end up getting us lost and having no room or energy to have sex. Unbelievable. I know.

I've read somewhere that Virgos really enjoy it when their partner expresses and communicates their needs, and I've tried doing this, but he is so damned stubborn and won't acknowledge it. Do you have any other tips? Hiking and camping aren't his most favorable things because he's a clean freak, so are there any more ideas?

Thanks.

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MUSTANG
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posted November 10, 2007 11:45 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Get him drunk, but not too drunk

Maybe if you clean the house in a sexy outfit it will get him in the mood.

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cezanne
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posted November 10, 2007 11:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would get him drunk, but I want him to genuinely make love to me and mean it, and not make love to his BlackBerry. He's really into expressing himself by words but not by what I want him to do.

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yourfriendinspirit
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posted November 11, 2007 12:03 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have you talked with him about your concerns?

Being genuine and honest will do wonders with this guy and your relationship.


um... watch some porn together?
Note: for educational purposes only
He is a Virgo after all, LOL!

*point out things, ask questions...
play coy!

hmm?....

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ciao
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posted November 11, 2007 01:39 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yourfriendinspirit, your posts crack me up! I laughed so hard I've got an ache in my side now! But all those things you mentioned would definitely turn me on!

I'm a Virgo chick, so I don't know how much this may help you, but I like massages, that always puts me in the mood. Oh, and watching my partner touch himself and moaning too (hope that wasn't too explicit )

What are his moon and Asc signs? These could help us give some extra tips.

ciao

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writesomething
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posted November 11, 2007 01:44 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I cannot believe this freakin thread. You have got to be kidding, I do not believe it.

signed,
a suspicious virgo.

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cezanne
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posted November 11, 2007 01:47 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know what you mean, Ciao. I'm far more vocal than he is, and I'm all, "Why the hell can't you put a little more oomph into it?" because as of now, he's into his books than me. Or, at least, it feels that way. It's weird, I don't feel "neglected." He's just not as sexually adventurous as I am, so I want to know if I'm possibly demanding too much of my pure, shy Virgo.

His Rising Sign is Sagittarius and his moon is Pisces. How's that for a royal screw-over.

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cezanne
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posted November 11, 2007 01:49 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What is there not to believe? I'm simply wondering if this is too much for an innocent Virgin to handle.

Signed,
A Curious Sagittarius.

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yourfriendinspirit
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posted November 11, 2007 02:34 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey there, ciao Glad I could entertain you!

cezanne,
He's all mutable?
You say Virgo Sun
then "His Rising Sign is Sagittarius and his moon is Pisces."

Then you said (in another thread)
"I'm a Sagittarius with a Virgo rising and a Capricorn moon. "
You too, are strong mutable...

You have that flip switch thing going on with your Suns/Ascendants
Hmmm? Are you sure you're not turning him off unintentionally with "your virgo habits"
He maybe see's you as a neat freak, nitpicky, too pure, (or) ?, etc.
Your moon is ruled by Saturn, let us not forget (emotions) or lack of?
Where as his is in very fantasy oriented Pisces ruled by Neptune

Come on already, Post those charts!

(I still am still sticking by the shower suggestion...)

Here's a little cheat sheet chart to maybe help you see clearer what the deal may be:

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Sendin' love your way,
"your friend in spirit"

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cezanne
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posted November 11, 2007 02:43 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have no idea. It must have been silly of me to turn toward a forum for advice on sexual advice; I was reading around the forum and I saw other people ask this, so I went for it. If the flip-switch thing with his sun/ascendent is a positive thing in astrology, I must be one lucky person. That was really the reassurance that I needed, actually. You've been a great help, thanks.

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yourfriendinspirit
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posted November 11, 2007 02:55 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
I must be one lucky person. That was really the reassurance that I needed, actually. You've been a great help, thanks.

First, you are welcome

Second, That flip switch combo between you is an amazing factor here

Third, This guy is most likely "The One" -I say this because of how kindly you speak of him after having experienced these setbacks over a period of a couple of years. -Sex obviously is'nt the glue that holds you together...

I wish you the very best!

Again, if you are interested... you may post your birth data or charts.

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Sendin' love your way,
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cezanne
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posted November 11, 2007 03:02 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Actually, that's exactly why I registered here, so that I could talk to knowledgeable people because I made a chart on astro.com, and I am having trouble interpreting it. As in, what should I compare and contrast, since I know all of the signs and planets are and what the houses signify.

If you could give me a few helpful hints on how to read these charts, I'd appreciate it.

Oh, and I'm not sure if this is enough information for you, specifically, so I have the approximate degrees available, as well.

His Data:

Rising Sign: Sagittarius, 23 degrees
Sun: Virgo, 10
Moon: Pisces, 2
Mercury: Libra, 6
Venus: Leo, 23
Mars: Scorpio, 18
Jupiter: Scorpio, 6
Saturn: Libra, 19
Uranus: Sagittarius, 00
Neptune: Sagittarius, 24
Pluto: Libra, 25

My Data:

Rising sign: Virgo, 8
Sun: Sagittarius, 2
Moon: Capricorn, 26
Mercury: Scorpio, 17
Venus: Sagittarius, 26
Mars: Scorpio, 00
Jupiter: Aries, 20
Saturn: Sagittarius, 21
Uranus: Sagittarius, 25
Neptune: Capricorn, 6
Pluto: Scorpio, 10

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yourfriendinspirit
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posted November 11, 2007 03:24 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
um, you say astro.com? Great site but I've no clue where that chart you just posted came from

It doesn't show degrees or anything...

hmm?

It looks as if you actually have Virgo ruling your First and Second houses!!!

Sun is in LIBRA!!!!

(would you mind posting your birth details, I'll be able to post up a better chart for you, this way) Note: you can edit this info out as soon as I receive it or you may email this info to me directly if you're more comfortable? yourfriendinspirit@gmail.com

Then we'll start working on it!

*Details to do an accurate birthchart are location, date, and actual time of birth

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The very best help I can provide to you is to ask you to click this link.
Then, at the bottom of the page you arrive at, begin by clicking on "step 1"
this will give you very astute lessons on many astrology tools
necessary to understand your charts.

These lessons are graciously provided Free of charge by Linda-Lands own Tim Wilson

There is also a Free ongoing astrology course here at this very site!
In order to participate you must however aquire a password from
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to request one, then after receiving it,Click here to enter this area of Linda Land.

LEARNING BASIC ASTROLOGY IS ESSENTIAL,
This will help keep our forum boards clear of clutter.

Thank you!!!!!!!!!!

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Sendin' love your way,
"your friend in spirit"

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cezanne
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posted November 11, 2007 03:33 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh, not even a problem. They're just birth dates, and this forum makes me feel particularly welcomed. The chart I got was from the, "AstroClick Partner" thing. Some quickie chart, but I guess it just sucks.

Anyway, I was born on November 25th, 1987 (12:20 AM) in Seattle, Washington, and he was born September 2nd, 1982 (3:38 PM) in Provo, UT.

Thanks for your help. I'm really excited to receive the feedback because from your reactions, I guess our charts are quite compatible.

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yourfriendinspirit
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posted November 11, 2007 03:35 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I see that you are still editing...

But I can see clearly that that chart does not match the degrees info either...

(patiently waiting...)

Added Update:
Ahhhhh, now I see...
It's a compatability chart of sorts and NOT your individual birth chart!

I'll be back in a just a bit to post it up

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cezanne
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posted November 11, 2007 03:47 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oops, I'm sorry, I forgot to mention that. Sometimes I forget that this type of knowledge is exclusive to me and not apparent to other people. Hopefully, I gave enough information.

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yourfriendinspirit
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posted November 11, 2007 03:51 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Ok here we are!

Yours

and His

Now the synastry of the two...

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cezanne
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posted November 11, 2007 03:57 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm, but what does all of this mean? I have not a clue as to how to identify why the lines line up the way they do. Unless I am making it more complicated than I should.

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yourfriendinspirit
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posted November 11, 2007 04:06 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
K, lets start with the colored lines you see...

Just basics here though 'cause I've already provided some EXCELLENT learning resources above.

Where ever you see a RED line, this is representing areas of challenges [Like Squares,etc.]

Where ever you see a BLUE line, this represent more harmony and flow [Like trines, etc.]

These lines are showing "aspects" between the planets in your chart.

SOoooooooo starting with your own personal chart we see that Jupitar, the Moon, and Mars all have a RED line right?

So the first thing you do is see what aspect these are, what these planets represent, and what house they are located in to see challenge, or problem areas within your own chart.

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cezanne
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posted November 11, 2007 04:09 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ah, I see. Thanks you; I think I got it from here. I have not yet looked at the site in-depth, but can you quickly tell me how to identify a conjunction, if there is any?

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yourfriendinspirit
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posted November 11, 2007 04:23 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A conjunction is symbolized by this glyph
on your chart above


More info on Aspects:

Geometrical relationships between planets are called aspects; these affect the energies of the planets concerned. Should a planet have difficult aspects, or be in an unsympathetic position in the chart, it is said to be afflicted; its negative characteristics may be exhibited on occasions in your character. Should it have favourable aspects, its effects may be more beneficial. Difficult aspects, being more conducive to personal development, often generate complex results that require considerable interpretation and self-analysis, whereas favourable aspects more often produce simple effects which are easy to understand. In any case, the chart must be viewed as a whole, for the positive and negative characteristics may cancel out, or appear in mitigated forms, according to circumstances depending upon other factors.

Designated as difficult are
opposition (180)
square (90)
semi-square (45)
sesqui-quadrate (135)
quincunx or inconjunct (150)
contra-parallel (opposition by declination)

Favourable aspects are
trine (120)
sextile (60)
semi-sextile (30)
parallel (conjunction by declination)
whereas conjunction (0) may be favourable, difficult, or both, depending to a great degree upon the nature of the planets involved. There are several other minor aspects, but these are not generally used by astrologers in the analysis of nativities, or birthcharts.

Theoretically, a conjunction occurs when two or more planets occupy exactly the same degree and minute of arc in a sign - as part of the circle of the Zodiac. As a practical matter, there is about 8 to 10 degrees of latitude in the definition of a conjunction. (In other words, planets less than 8 to 10 degrees apart in a sign are still considered to be conjunct with one another.) Metaphorically, this represents a uniting, blending and combining of the different energies involved.

In Astrology, two planets that are in conjunction influence each other's expression to a tremendous extent. They operate like Siamese twins - the action of each impacting and affecting the other in an inescapable, inevitable way. Each planet involved in the conjunction will assume the colorings, qualities, and characteristics of its partner so that the unit is literally inseparable -- in the same way the color green contains the elements of both yellow and blue, but is still markedly different from either one of those original components.

A conjunction thus represents a strong, unbreakable alliance between the characteristics, assets, and methods of the two or more planetary placements. Because the planets operate in this united fashion - the personality matters and life concerns designated and governed by one cannot be considered without taking all the personality matters and life concerns designated and governed by the other(s) into account at the same time.


Again, Tim's Site really is a great place to learn further!

I hope this helps...

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