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Topic: Pisces Ascendants - how do you act when you are NOT interested!
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mudmama
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posted December 14, 2007 12:51 PM
 
want to hear more of this Pluto in the 7th with a Pisces rising....Now if I'm getting the gist of this, this placement makes the person more intense or maybe obsessive when in love? IP: Logged |
SagSun
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posted December 14, 2007 01:22 PM
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So you Sag sun and Pisces rising (which he has) do you feel he's keeping 'safe' until he's absolutely sure, or do you think he's just being Mr. Friendly? (which he also is!)
It's hard to say ... When I like a guy that I don't know very well yet, I usually wait for him to take action. I would never call him or even start a conversation over an instant messenger first. Once he has made a move, however, I start to become more active myself (which in Pisces rising terms means that after gathering all my courage for several hours or even days I finally give him a call too  ). When I know that a guy is interested in me but the feelings are not reciprocated I give him subtle clues that I'm not interested ... you know, I tell him things like "I went out with a friend last night. We had a lot of fun" ... of course those clues are usually not very well understood, especially since I never say who that friend is. Like I already mentioned in my earlier posts, I don't like disappointing people and saying no is not exactly my strong point. The best advice I can give you when relating to a Sag with Pisces rising is to be as direct as you possibly can ... but be careful not to completely intimidate him. Just make sure that your intentions are understood by him. I'm not sure about other people, but personally, I'm not very good at picking up hints when it comes to guys. The best way to tell whether a Sag Sun with Pisces rising likes you or not is to pay close attention to what kind of friendliness he displays. When he becomes somewhat evasive (without ever really saying no of course) chances are that he's not interested. But when he listens closely to every word you say and smiles at you and has that dreamy look in his eyes (I'm not talking about the dreamy look that Pisces risings normally have ... when we are in love it gets even more dreamy) you might dare to take it a step further and be a bit more direct in your advances. Hope this helps a little!!!  IP: Logged |
SagSun
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posted December 14, 2007 01:56 PM
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want to hear more of this Pluto in the 7th with a Pisces rising....Now if I'm getting the gist of this, this placement makes the person more intense or maybe obsessive when in love?
Exactly ... only that with Pisces rising the obsession is less visible to other people. Of course, I can only speak for myself here ... I usually torture myself with my obsession while the object of my desire doesn't even know that he is all I can think of. And when they finally do find out they are usually not all too pleased with it... IP: Logged |
capnsag
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posted December 14, 2007 02:05 PM
Thanks, Sagsun! I'm so bad about picking up even the most obvious signs; like he kept reaching out to touch me, and being insecure I just thought he did that to everyone - I was a complete doofus. And now I'm worried it's too late. Although when I recently wrote that I regretted that our trip didn't work out (I cancelled on him. OUch!!) he wrote back just a friendly post from work, and would get back to me later...It's also a long distance thing too. I'll see what his next reply is like, but heck, I've been this brave, maybe I'll go the whole way and tell him I still like him! Thanks! I REALLY appreciate your viewpoint! Yep, I think Sag Sun and Pisces rising are kind of rare... IP: Logged | |
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