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Topic: Help with Scorpio man's chart please? Seems VERY controlling!
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MUSTANG
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posted December 13, 2007 10:34 PM
 
Tell him he's too good for you and you feel inadequate. So, you have to end it, because if you don't things will get ugly, and you don't want to put him through that, because he's special.   IP: Logged |
Geocosmic Valentine
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 13, 2007 11:34 PM
Mustang,You are my hero.  How awesomely crafted is that response!!! You're a frickin' genius. I'm gonna hire you whenever I need to say something important or...whatever!! You should write speeches for the president. Aria, Please use Mustang's response, it's pure genius. No tires will be slashed after that one and it will make him feel like it was his idea somehow. Pure brilliance. I'm in awe of Mustang. Geocosmic Valentine ------------------
"Everybody is a star!"
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LibraChickety
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posted December 13, 2007 11:36 PM
MUSTANG....GREAT suggestion! ------------------
Sun in Libra
Asc. in Sagittarius
Moon in Virgo
Mercury in Libra
Venus in Scorpio
Mars in Leo
Jupiter in Libra
Saturn in Libra
Uranus in Scorpio
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I feel so naked ;) IP: Logged |
LibraChickety
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posted December 13, 2007 11:37 PM
Aria, I'm glad to see you're moving on - before getting too involved.------------------
Sun in Libra
Asc. in Sagittarius
Moon in Virgo
Mercury in Libra
Venus in Scorpio
Mars in Leo
Jupiter in Libra
Saturn in Libra
Uranus in Scorpio
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I feel so naked ;) IP: Logged |
heart cakes
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posted December 14, 2007 12:03 AM
so good.but but but.. what if he takes that as a challenge to try harder? what then? (just trying to cover all angles..) IP: Logged |
LibraChickety
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posted December 14, 2007 12:10 AM
heart cakes:Let's say she gently advises him of her disinterest. Due to their ultra-sensitive nature, won't a Scorpio (especially with his heavy Scorp placements) let go abruptly and quickly, most likely with a bruised ego? (even still) Wouldn't him taking it as a challenge be more like Aquarian behavior? ------------------
Sun in Libra
Asc. in Sagittarius
Moon in Virgo
Mercury in Libra
Venus in Scorpio
Mars in Leo
Jupiter in Libra
Saturn in Libra
Uranus in Scorpio
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heart cakes
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posted December 14, 2007 12:31 AM
hmm, just based on what she said, and me thinking about my friend, i had imagined it would actually bolster his ego and then maybe when he was alone he'd feel empty and like.. missing her cuz she filled him up, or something.. and want to try harder, to get more of that reinforcement of his ego, again.. but really i have no idea! it does sound like good tire slash prevention though!! IP: Logged |
heart cakes
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posted December 14, 2007 12:34 AM
hey aria, just curious: does this guy COLLECT stuff like there's no tomorrow? my friend does and it's so weird. it's like he can't get enough of stuff. like CDs and movies and particular (very scorpionic) trinkets, etc. it's like he's hypnotized by this process of collection or something. and by that i mean, it does seem like this obsession to HAVE it, not in a posessive way so much as to give him identity or something. that is how it feels. it almost seems imbalanced how ZONED IN on this he is. like he would ask me every time we talked if he could burn copies of all my CDs and things like this. i dunno if that is a scorpio thing or what!?!IP: Logged |
Green Fairy
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posted December 14, 2007 07:41 AM
All that sounds like my dad :S
He's one helluva ride.IP: Logged |
Aria
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posted December 14, 2007 08:24 AM
Hi Guys! You all ROCK!Man, Mustang...I'm not sure that MY pride could handle telling this hot-air balloon that he's too good for me! This would be giving him what he's used to. Hmmm. He DID disappear when I unintentionally hurt his feelings. Maybe I'll just tell him that I don't think we're compatible? The mere notion that I'm the one ending it might be enough...he's mentioned that he's NEVER been dumped! I don't know if he collects anything and I haven't been to his home (nor met his other, much less accomplished daughter) to see for myself. I will say this, his 12 year old is a nationally ranked athlete (same sport he played) and he's her coach. They're almost inseperable and I know for SURE that he lives vicariously through her so, while he may not collect anything, his total focus and intensity is on this daughter! Yikes, ladies...I'd hate to be that little girl almost as much as I'd hate to cross him as his girlfriend! IP: Logged |
Geocosmic Valentine
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 14, 2007 08:47 AM
Hi Aria,I understand the pride thing for you, but Mustang's response was crafted in such a way as to not get your "tires slashed" as you suggested, so only with that in mind should you use that formula, but if you think the sane route will work for you, then telling him you're not compatible will probably work. Also, if he decides to take it as a challenge to try and keep you, remember the broken record method of saying no and keeping your boundaries. The more he tries to stay together and pressure you into staying together, you become a "broken record" by constantly saying no. Firmly putting your foot down because you know what you want and don't need to be persuaded into trying again, etc. etc. etc. That's two more cents from me. Geocosmic Valentine IP: Logged |
Aria
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posted December 14, 2007 10:21 AM
Hi, Geocosmic Valentine:Yeap, I totally get what you're saying. If he takes it as a challenge, I will have to stand my ground and I don't think I'll really have a problem doing that at all - I'm already pretty turned off by his ego and cocky demeanor! We've also not gotten intimately involved. However, I think that simply saying we're not compatible and holding firm will send him packing. If what he says is true, and NO girl has ever dumped him, a blow like this to his ego will certainly take care of him. I know it sounds completely counterintuitive but, I feel awful for him already!  IP: Logged |
MUSTANG
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posted December 14, 2007 07:45 PM
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Mustang,
You are my hero. How awesomely crafted is that response!!! You're a frickin' genius. I'm gonna hire you whenever I need to say something important or...whatever!! You should write speeches for the president.
Thank you. It took years of hell with bad scorpios (not the good one's) for me to be able to craft that response. I may use it one day... I'm holding you to your offer of employment. IP: Logged |
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