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Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 5819 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 04, 2008 04:41 PM
shrugsMy Mom has Sun in Gemini but the dispositor of her Sun,Mercury is in Cancer so is her Venus,Jupiter,and Uranus.....she has Moon and Saturn in Scorpio. Sun is her only air planet. She's far more emotional than intellectual. also her Sun in Gemini is heavily modified by the placement in 12th house and trine Neptune, a Sun-Neptune double whammy, sextile/parallel Pluto and parallel Mercury,Venus,Jupiter,Uranus,and Ascendant as well as a wide quincunx to Moon.
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posted February 05, 2008 03:38 AM
I am trying desperately NOT to get obsessed with this Gemini guy that I am crushing on.I have had plenty of experience with Gem guys... and I should realize this is not a good idea. he is just so damn cute, I can't help it. MK IP: Logged |
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posted February 05, 2008 04:09 AM
I've finally decided for sure, 17 years onward after my first Gemini, that these men are just too emotionally tortuous. I'll stick it out with this one and see what happens... we had a huge blow-up yesterday after a while of what I thought was a good patch... then suddenly he's ok again, meanwhile I'm not. Hmmph. After this one I think I would only go for it if it was a Gemini with Scorpio or Taurus or Cancer placements. Say Venus in Taurus or Cancer, and a Scorpio moon. IP: Logged |
DainBramaged Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Oct 2009
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posted February 05, 2008 04:54 AM
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posted February 05, 2008 07:25 AM
AcousticGod,I agree we can be very cut throat at times, I mean being a ruthless businessman is Trumps specialty. I mean when ever I'm watching TV and i see trump, I automatically think "who is going to fight with today???." I think us gems, being dual natured, we can be both we can vary cut throat and be the complete opposite and be vary nice. GeminiLover75, Did he rally blow up yesterday??? who am I to talk I did yesterday also, LoL. I was cool once I came home thought. Well since he's prone to blow up the same way as me.. I think the biggest problems it the fact that most Gemini males well never be 100% happy, there are some exceptions thought. I say this because most gems are the ambitious types, they expect things in this world to be a certain way...then onces its achived, they'll push the bar even more. explains Trump, he's an ambitious gem...once things are the way he expects it..he's going to raise the bar on what he expects..leaving an unhappy person, easy to upset. Not to sure if you'd want a gem with a Venus in Taurus, i'm one and you'll always think that theres only one specially person for you, then end up doing your "reserach before you wed on everyone". I use to be freinds with a gemini with a venus in Taurus and pisces moon....he acted like such a child. LoL...christmas time he whould be wondering, what presents he got and asking "what you get me, what what yo uget me". But, I know he could feel and understand emotion. Also, GeminiLover75 what your doing for your gem, is a good thing after he calms down I'm sure he appreciates you being there once his mood changes.
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posted February 05, 2008 10:13 PM
DainBramaged,he's got an aries rissing and I have an aries moon, so we both can explode sometimes. All gem males can change mood quickly, however. IP: Logged |
BornUnderDioscuri Moderator Posts: 49 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted February 05, 2008 10:44 PM
quote: After this one I think I would only go for it if it was a Gemini with Scorpio or Taurus or Cancer placements. Say Venus in Taurus or Cancer, and a Scorpio moon.
GeminiLover - I loooveeess you! Hehe. Being a Gemini moon in Scorpio with Taurus Venus! I get tortured by my Gemini too and hes a Cancer venus. But his Gemini Taurus brother is a lot better in dealing with his emotions. I know a ton of Gemini Tauruses. Way saner! Just met a Gemini Aries btw who is SOOOOO full of himself. Sure hes a male model that looks like a God but man is he in love with himself....but his equally hot Gemini Cancer friend is way cooler. Btw if u want a reeeeeally sensitive Gemini go for a Pisces mooner...they are sooo gentle IP: Logged |
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posted February 05, 2008 10:59 PM
Well thats what I saw saying pisces mooners are rally good feelers and there as plenty as apple pie.IP: Logged |
DainBramaged Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Oct 2009
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posted February 06, 2008 01:26 AM
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Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 06, 2008 10:41 AM
quote: GeminiLover - I loooveeess you! Hehe. Being a Gemini moon in Scorpio with Taurus Venus! I get tortured by my Gemini too and hes a Cancer venus. But his Gemini Taurus brother is a lot better in dealing with his emotions. I know a ton of Gemini Tauruses. Way saner! Just met a Gemini Aries btw who is SOOOOO full of himself. Sure hes a male model that looks like a God but man is he in love with himself....but his equally hot Gemini Cancer friend is way cooler. Btw if u want a reeeeeally sensitive Gemini go for a Pisces mooner...they are sooo gentle
Totally random but for some reason I'm convinced that the gemini I was talking to has a Taurus moon. For one thing, he gave me and everyone else in our circle perfume/cologne for Christmas. Then there's other stuff but yeah, Im convinced he's a taurus mooner.
And I know Im right about this since I had a hunch that he was a gemini (he had given me headbands too....Linda says that headbands is totally Gemini and as a gemini venus I LOVE headbands) and low and behold......hes a gemini. Okay, random thought of the day over. 
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posted February 06, 2008 08:09 PM
lol... Gemini's like headbands??? That's so weird... Venus in Gemini here and I've always been obsessed with headbands. How strange... Ahhhh but yeah Mr Gemini turned all lovey dovey again and said he doesn't like himself when gets in a tantrum and fights with me. w/e... it takes me a while to get over it. Yeah ThethirdBenjamin, it's true he does appreciate that I'm still there after he's had a tantrum, but still. I don't exactly enjoy the sudden mood swing. IP: Logged |
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posted February 06, 2008 08:40 PM
quote: Hmm, geminilover, what did this one you're referring to have? the one i am sort of interested in has virgo and gemini placements only, jup in sagg, and venus in leo...i think pluto in libra, dunno about the rest
DainBramaged, my bf is Gemini sun, Mercury and Venus with Aries rising and Aries moon. Mars in Aquarius, Saturn in Taurus, Jupiter in Scorpio, Pluto in Virgo. So with all of that Gemini and Aries, he can be very quickly changing and not very sensible sometimes... but also so much fun and very loveable. IP: Logged |
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posted February 06, 2008 10:33 PM
Well, I've been frustrated and angry ever since I moved here. So I throw a temper tantrum, all the time.I barley ever did back in my hometown, vary vary rearly. A gem can adapt to the change...but doesn't mean he's happy about it. I’ve gotten rally angry myself before I got my new quad-core desktop I kicked my old desktop while It was running I just forced myself to accept it, as a reality of life even thought I don’t like it. Then becomes vary easy to tick off, because its still in the back of his mind. There was an aqua that whould always "defuse" me before I whould "explode" Thats what made her special, I'm wondering if you could "defuse" him somehow???. Which makes me wonder ????. IP: Logged |
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posted February 07, 2008 02:25 AM
How interesting you mention that, ThirdBenjamin, because I've always wondered about it myself! He started to get in a tantrum/sulky mood yesterday when we were out shopping because he didn't feel well and he couldn't get pants in his size - but when we went to get coffee and he realised I ordered a slice of cheesecake he instantly defused. But I don't know how to get him to calm down when it's really important.IP: Logged |
DainBramaged Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Oct 2009
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posted February 07, 2008 02:49 AM
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posted February 07, 2008 06:22 PM
Is he always like that, do you think something in the back of his mind thats deep must still be bugging him.I'm still trying to figure out myself, to figure him out lol. IP: Logged |
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posted February 08, 2008 05:00 AM
yeah ThirdBenjamin, I do think that's part of it... the thing in the background that bugs him, but no one knows what it is maybe including himself.DainBramaged, nah he can't be easily distracted. Mostly I've learned that when the tantrum comes, just let him get it over with. It doesn't intimidate me, BUT the one thing that does worry me is that he does have a heart condition (apparently one that isn't life threatening) and when he goes into tantrum mode I worry that he'll do some damage or something like that. The main concern is that the tantrum comes so quick and there is no time to defuse it before it happens. IP: Logged |
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posted February 08, 2008 05:10 AM
Well, For me its not so much that it comes so quickly then disappears.I just find that somethings makes me "spark". But then again gems are vary volitile to spark, if that makes sense. Sorta like a big gas tank waiting to explode . Intresting, he has a minor heart condition my mom does and she's been saying I should get check myself since it may be hereditary. But, you know how it is for gemini's and there health. Almost a last priorty. If he trust you and loves you enought he might tell you or give some hints about it, but of course I whouldn't push him. Right now, i haven't sparked even thought I've been up all night typing up a report. IP: Logged |
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posted February 09, 2008 01:08 AM
yeah well that's the other thing, he has been giving me hints every now and then but then he just says "don't worry about it, it's nothing" and won't discuss it. His condition is an irregular heartbeat but I can't remember the name of the syndrome.IP: Logged |
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posted February 09, 2008 08:13 AM
Well I have my short out bursts that last for a couple hours.This morning I was trying to get my c# programing code to work, I slamed on my desk a couple of time, "why can't you work". Then I relized the problem was I was didn't do my updates. I have times were all be grouchy all week along. I assume Mr Gemini has those periods that he's grouchy all week long, the longer ones have a reason. The shorter ones are just how to deal with short term frustration. IP: Logged |
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posted February 09, 2008 09:41 AM
From what I have read and learned, Gemini's tend to fear commitment. And they are very independent. But they can love deeply. They also will be there for you for a while, then they may not call you for a week. But you are still in their minds. It can be very hard to understand. But the "connection" can be awesome!The best match for a Gemini would be an Aquarian. So if anyone knows any single Gemini Men....hook me up!!! LOL IP: Logged |
DainBramaged Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Oct 2009
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posted February 10, 2008 02:12 AM
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posted February 10, 2008 04:28 AM
Interesting... do you think that the age of the Gemini also makes a difference? eg the older they get, their progressed sun goes into Cancer and then into Leo. My Mr Gemini's progressed sun just went into Leo recently, and I could swear I've noticed some differences. Like a stronger loyalty for example. Nah ThirdBenjamin, he doesn't usually stay grouchy for extended periods. If something's wrong underneath then you don't usually know until it gets to the point where he has to get it out. IP: Logged |