posted January 31, 2008 06:01 PM            

We like to spice up boring situations with a bit of a flirt, and we like to pick our targets for teasing. Or is that just me?

Maybe this man was flirting with you and you misread it as something more. Do you work with him? That could explain it.

posted January 31, 2008 06:16 PM            

I'm thinking the eyes - if he was looking all over the room like he wanted to get away, that would make some sense.

Maybe he has a confidence issue.

posted January 31, 2008 11:25 PM              

not to sure what to think, we confuse people sometimes.

It could be a sign that he likes you if he acts differently and strange.

posted February 01, 2008 10:41 PM            

For them, life is fun, life is communicating with others and relationship is a great friendship..

And touching the deepness of Commitment, Marriage, Family, Children etc scare them.

Even Libra and Aquarius women continue to complain about Gemini man's inability to stick to one place and to say "I love you" by looking into their eyes.

On the other hand, they give you excellent independence. and they are always there for you when you want to talk about something. You never find directions from them but they are there for you and will not cheat as long as they have freedom :-)

As soon as the topic goes deeper, watch their eyes move around the room, if they feel they are boxed in... THEY WILL DISAPPEAR...

Expressing emotions is the hardest part for Gemini men.

Cancer, Scorpio, Capricorn, Taurus women hate them most and will retaliate very fast.

Piscean women go into self Martyr and get lost in finding out that the man in their life doesn't have emotions. And, they think again that I got disappointed in relationsihp one more time - they say "I am 55 now and still disappointed one more time, why do men treat me badly?"- However it is their own mistake of getting attracted to Physically attractive funny witty guy - even after knowing (psychicly) that he is not emotional.

Aries, Leo, Sagi keep them in check for some time. But Sagi leaves first, then Aries. Leo might stick around as she is very loyal, but her ego will get hurt one day too.

Libra and Aquarius will stick around as long as there are social events in their lives. Libra will leave first. Aquarius is anyway already detached so no reason to leave.

Above descriptions fit well for Gemini men more than women. In my experience, Gemini women express emotions more deeply - may be one more foot in the deep ocean of emotions - but its still better than no emotions.

posted February 01, 2008 10:43 PM            

He may truly like you in certain moments, and that is when you feel like there is something between you, but then in a quick second, his mind may change and he may feel like he doesn't.

I don't want to be cliche, but it's very difficult for Geminis to make up our minds as to what we want, cause we want so many different things simultaneously.

If you have felt even of a hint of there being something more, than there probably was more, as Geminis won't try to deceive or purposely mislead you. He probably genuinely felt something for you. But Gems sometimes have a bit of ADD, and bouts of forgetfulness.

I would recommend being as direct as possible, and come right out and ask him. He'll probably explain everything.

posted February 03, 2008 12:16 AM            

I think it depends on the Gemini. I can change my mind and be fickle but there are also moments when im stubborn as a bull. Maybe its my moon but when i make my mind about something, i go for it and save anything in my way

posted February 03, 2008 12:57 AM            

I am a cancer.

I don't see geminis being unfaithful, just for the heck of it, which is the stereotype for gems. I actually think they are made of just as as fine a moral fibre as any of the other signs. Now, if a certain gemini happens to be a complete jerk..I think this would be much more because of a reason in his birth chart, rather than solely his sign. His sign may help it, considering that he/she doesn't enjoy emotions, but are rather scared of them.....so they try to override strong emotions with rationality. BUT, ultimately it depends on what is in the birth chart, especially the aspects.

I think geminis might "flirt", or actually only appear to be, because they enjoy making people laugh..and they enjoy being courteous. They basically enjoy social graces and sociality in general...they enjoy people and they enjoy having entertatined them/gained their approval by doing that. So that's why sometimes they may be a little TOO nice/friendly/charming and though they just feel like they are being socially graceful and charming, like they like to be, other people will interpret this as flirting because they are interested in someone. It could very well be interpreted as flirting, but in this case then, that you want to call it that, then you'd have to call EVERYTHING a gemini does when they perceive they are being nice to someone as flirting.
They enjoy entertaining and being socially graceful/adept. Don't see it as a big deal..they are just being their charming selves.

From a cancer.

Now, if you find a gemini who lies and cheats, they are probably extreeeeeemely insecure (so need to seek constant approval and feel popular, even if they have to lie and cheat to get there), and probably even feel pretty bad about themselves inside, though they could completely ignore this and move on (remember, they don't ponder on emotions, but let rationality override). But, still, the feelings will still probably affect them in some way which will make them uncomfortable in life in some way..and they might need to see a psychologist, maybe. Lol. I know, sort of fatalistic. If you're a gemini, and you lie and cheat, eventually you'll need to go see a psychologist. But that's just an example I'm giving (of what I think might happen). I guess. Lol. Whatevs, you get me. .

I think they are just as SENSITIVE as us cancers...it's just that they hate feelings as they are very scared of the effect they could have on them..aka..their power. So they accept/or adopt, if the situation calls for it.. a rational approach, and move on.

Geminis are just curious about life..and just so happen to also be afraid of their own deeper emotions which they don't feel they can handle. I mean emotions sometimes are unhandleable, but you have to face something to overcome it, right? So, you have to face/accept the intense emotion you dislike first, and then you can do something about it, once you've accepted it. I doubt air signs even accept/recognize the emotion (or at least recognize the emotion as valid or real).
So..they appear superficial....and some of the things they "appear" to do because of "superficiality" (which is not really superficiality....just, fear and a great curiosity about life) makes them out to be jerks according to the stereopypes (in astrology, about them). They may act like jerks sometimes too!! But they don't mean to...at aLL. Of course, there are your exceptions, but again, for this..look to the birth chart!

posted February 03, 2008 01:00 AM            

"funny f-. really. they give you all the signs theyre into you, and when you give into it they make you feel completely retarded like they dont like you."

Ask them what's up. Open commmunication is the best way to solve anything. Whether gemini or not, communication will open up the chance of understanding what this situation was all about. Maybe he is scared of a relationship with you, and doesn't want to admit it. In that case, he will also lie when you ask him, right? lol, yeah. But, if he was just flirting....if he was just being nice...(what he sees as being nice..and maybe he was flirting..for approval..to feel like he's still desirable and charming) then you can just see the incident as something minor, a misunderstanding which he probably shouldn't have caused in the first place...but one which did happen, and one which you CAN ask him about.

posted February 03, 2008 04:01 AM              

I stick to my decisions, but it takes time...to see everything first.

But there are others that flip-flop because of that

I mean right now I'm thinking to myself I think mblover, might be a gemini hater.

But before I say that.....I have to also consider the fact that perhaps mblover has never meet any good gem's yet,

I mean, i've never met any good scorpios until recently, had I naught I whould be bashing them.

Thats the kinds thing, I mean by trying to see it from all side.

Or even better in class I was told by one of my professors, i can use my laptop in class and its all right with him,even thought laptops were banned.

posted February 04, 2008 01:05 PM            

"I am a cancer."

>> OK, wonderful! So your response will be full of emotions and protection.

""I don't see geminis being unfaithful, just for the heck of it, which is the stereotype for gems. I actually think they are made of just as as fine a moral fibre as any of the other signs. Now, if a certain gemini happens to be a complete jerk..I think this would be much more because of a reason in his birth chart, rather than solely his sign. His sign may help it, considering that he/she doesn't enjoy emotions, but are rather scared of them.....so they try to override strong emotions with rationality. BUT, ultimately it depends on what is in the birth chart, especially the aspects.""

>> I agree on Moral Fiber. All Air Signs have an intellectual mind so they know before they cheat. And, they don't cheat without a reason. But, continuous flirt is not an easy thing a Cancer woman can live with.

>> Read this scenario carefully. Cancer woman wants a depth of understanding and doesn't want an intellectual analysis when she is emotional. She needs him there until she finishes talking through her issues or finishes through her tears.. but as soon as the matter goes emotional.. Watch the man's eyes rolling and trying to escape.. or try to be rational.. both Twins start fighting on what to do now.. Reality is that at that moment, the Cancer woman wants a really tight hug and full security, which Geminis never do.. No matter how much they know about astrology, they can't do it.. it touches a depth of Love.. they can't express it..

>> Ultimately it depends on his chart? I have seen hundreds of Gemini charts along with Stellium in Cancer or Leo... no matter what rising, moon, mars, venus.. they are still Geminis, and both Twins always exist even at 0 degrees or 29 degress. If you want to taste this, watch their eyes when a depth comes into any topic!! Sun is our Soul and it is a whole lot more of a Person than any other planets...

""I think geminis might "flirt", or actually only appear to be, because they enjoy making people laugh..and they enjoy being courteous. They basically enjoy social graces and sociality in general...they enjoy people and they enjoy having entertatined them/gained their approval by doing that. So that's why sometimes they may be a little TOO nice/friendly/charming and though they just feel like they are being socially graceful and charming, like they like to be, other people will interpret this as flirting because they are interested in someone. It could very well be interpreted as flirting, but in this case then, that you want to call it that, then you'd have to call EVERYTHING a gemini does when they perceive they are being nice to someone as flirting.
They enjoy entertaining and being socially graceful/adept. Don't see it as a big deal..they are just being their charming selves. ""

>> I agree they are being their Charming selves all the time. But when cancer woman sees this flirting again and again, the insecurity increases. The biggest reason why she is still sticking around is because the woman is Extremely Loyal and Extremely Protective. She will take her time, she is extremely patient with her man, she will cry at nights when she sees her soulmate(!) flirting around the whole town and every woman who comes around, but she will stay there..

""From a cancer.

Now, if you find a gemini who lies and cheats, they are probably extreeeeeemely insecure (so need to seek constant approval and feel popular, even if they have to lie and cheat to get there), and probably even feel pretty bad about themselves inside, though they could completely ignore this and move on (remember, they don't ponder on emotions, but let rationality override). But, still, the feelings will still probably affect them in some way which will make them uncomfortable in life in some way..and they might need to see a psychologist, maybe. Lol. I know, sort of fatalistic. If you're a gemini, and you lie and cheat, eventually you'll need to go see a psychologist. But that's just an example I'm giving (of what I think might happen). I guess. Lol. Whatevs, you get me. ."""

>> This whole paragraph you are writing is about Cancer's emotions and insecurities. Geminis are not insecure. Insecurity only comes when there is a depth. Geminis never need psychologist. They are the best rationalized Psychologist themselves. The best Author, the best Mathematician, the best Salesman, the best everything they want to Achieve. And, watch them from their childhood, they always solve their problems themeselves/independently. Ask their parents, they will tell stories about how fast these kids started communicating and exploring the world. I am sorry but things you are saying about Geminis are actually related to Cancers - insecurity, psychologist, therapist etc.

"""I think they are just as SENSITIVE as us cancers...it's just that they hate feelings as they are very scared of the effect they could have on them..aka..their power. So they accept/or adopt, if the situation calls for it.. a rational approach, and move on."""

>> Are you sure? they are as SENSITIVE as Cancer's?? WOW, they are Cancer's 12th house.. And, still you think they are SENSITIVE?.. Gemini is a mutable Air sign - they are scared of Sensitivity - and will escape when it comes - again watch their eyes - They are never attached to a few close people in their lives like Cancer.. I believe you are still talking about Cancers and using the 'Classic Hope' side of cancers here..

""Geminis are just curious about life..and just so happen to also be afraid of their own deeper emotions which they don't feel they can handle. I mean emotions sometimes are unhandleable, but you have to face something to overcome it, right? So, you have to face/accept the intense emotion you dislike first, and then you can do something about it, once you've accepted it. I doubt air signs even accept/recognize the emotion (or at least recognize the emotion as valid or real).
So..they appear superficial....and some of the things they "appear" to do because of "superficiality" (which is not really superficiality....just, fear and a great curiosity about life) makes them out to be jerks according to the stereopypes (in astrology, about them). They may act like jerks sometimes too!! But they don't mean to...at aLL. Of course, there are your exceptions, but again, for this..look to the birth chart! """

>> Yes. I agree that they are curious about every adventure in life. But, Superficiality is superficiality. And it has no depth.

>> I guess most of the Cancer's who are trying to change descriptions of Gemini's personalities here have a Gemini child or a close relative in your life. You are trying to Protect him or her strongly. Yes... Definetly that is how Cancers are .. they will protect no matter how much sacrifice is required.

>> Every Cancer who is in favor of Gemini being emotional and full of Depths are insecure in responding because it seems that they have one or more Geminis in their lives. And they will do everything to protect them.

>> I am extremely sorry if your mom is a Gemini. It will be quite hard to go through this message. But, Truth is truth. Feel free to tell my views Fatalistic. I will take it.

posted February 04, 2008 01:28 PM            

If geminis are so insensitive, then why don't they completely bash with their words like aries do a lot of times, and you can tell they had no idea about the seriousness of what they just said. At least gemini understands that words can hurt (because they use it to their advantage). You don't think aries would use it to their advantage if he/she had any idea in the world? Or that even tone of voice matters. So that means they are sensitive to it because they notice it. Now, that they try to overcompensate for any sort of, what they perceive to be, emotional oversensitivity, by replacing sensitivity(being personally hurt..) with rationality, is another thing. This means they have the sensitivity in the first place, it's just that they choose to not dwell on it, they choose to ignore it. So what we have, is your typical air sign which doesn't consider emotional sensitivity very important and is interested in what's rational and matter-of-factly right. It is true what you implied, that the sun is the soul's life and this is the kind of life the gemini has to live for now, but gemini has things to learn from a cancer just as a cancer has to learn from leo, and signs next to each other are natural allies because they have either been there before, or are trying to get there. They may not be highly COMPATIBLE, but they consider themselves allies.

They are not sensitive. You are right. They abhor sensitivity. They are SENSITIVE to sensitivity. But, that does not mean they don't have feelings. Are you saying the gemini is an emotionless robot? Why aren't they all psychopaths, then? Superficiality is superficiality, but only because they are scared of the depths. This doesn't mean they don't feel. It's just a matter of inappreciation.

Is cancer a disaster for leo because cancer is in Leo's 12 house? I haven't been a disaster to two of my best friends who are Leos. Neither have I been that for my grandma and my loving god-mother. In fact, they highly appreciate my care and devotion to them. Why couldn't it be the same for gemini and cancer? Are you sure YOU'RE not the one being emotional? =)

Perhaps gemini doesn't need a psychologist, I don't know what to say about that one... But someone who is afraid of their deeper emotions, yet still, psychologically, subconsciously feels them (because every human has subconscious emotions, we are all WIRED to have a subconscious filled with things, that would be including emotions, also sociology plays a role too) Well, unless you are a psychopath.........in that case I have no idea what the reason could be, is going to need to face those eventually unless they want to be crippled in some areas of their life.

posted February 04, 2008 01:49 PM            

Tell me something, does he look like an emotionless robot to you?

posted February 04, 2008 01:50 PM            

You can sort of tell this one is not real emotion, though (eyes). It looks forced

posted February 04, 2008 02:18 PM            

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If geminis are so insensitive, then why don't they completely bash with their words like aries do a lot of times

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Oh, Geminis are perhaps the bitchiest sign of all (think Donald Trump in his spat with Rosie O'Donnell). In a verbal argument where the Gemini doesn't care, they're easily more cutthroat than Aries.

By nature, however, they are more humanitarian, and far more into relationships than anyone gives them credit for (think Angelina Jolie adopting those kids).

posted February 04, 2008 04:30 PM            

Geminis are usually very intellectual, which is why we're often scared of emotions. However, this can be beneficial for others who seek our advice because we often give objective advice.