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Topic: whoa! hes gay? closet? no idea.
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Glaucus Moderator Posts: 5228 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2008 04:08 PM
People can refuse to return advances for many reasons without being homosexual. She might not be his type. He might just not be interested. So many factors. Maybe he's into somebody else. Maybe he's very shy. Maybe a combination of most or all those factors.IP: Logged |
blue moon Knowflake Posts: 1344 From: U.K Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2008 04:24 PM
Maybe it's just me but if I thought someone wasn't really interested in me in a sexual way I would leave them alone and not push the issue. Maybe I would want to talk it over if I had been married to them for 20 years.So many factors -> that's the other thing I liked about that article. It highlights the dangers of taking cookbook definitions at face value.
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posted February 02, 2008 04:34 PM
quote: People can refuse to return advances for many reasons without being homosexual. She might not be his type. He might just not be interested. So many factors. Maybe he's into somebody else. Maybe he's very shy. Maybe a combination of most or all those factors.
quote: Maybe it's just me but if I thought someone wasn't really interested in me in a sexual way I would leave them alone and not push the issue. Maybe I would want to talk it over if I had been married to them for 20 years.So many factors -> that's the other thing I liked about that article. It highlights the dangers of taking cookbook definitions at face value.
No, he is attracted to me, I know that for a fact. Hes not into anybody else. He is shy but he is a gemini, and very changable. This "relationship" friendship whatever, has been building up over time, we would talk for hours, and discuss things over coffee. I let it be what it was without pushing it. Why am i questioning things? He gave me all the signs he wanted me, flirting, etc I hadnt seen him in awhile so I thought he was interested, it was my intuition. Transit wise, he has Saturn squaring his natal venus. which probably explains the coldness. Im not pushing it, actually Im letting it go. I never once thought he was gay because of what happened, it didnt come up in my head until a friend pointed it out...and it made me wonder, because it would explain a lot of things I never could put my finger on. IP: Logged |
Xodian Moderator Posts: 275 From: Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2008 04:40 PM
quote: No, he is attracted to me, I know that for a fact. Hes not into anybody else.
Sorry to say this Writesomething but the only way you could say that his attraction to you is a "fact" is if you were actually him . Having trust in someone isn't factual; You just go upon instincts that he/she actually mean and would do as they say. IP: Logged |
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posted February 02, 2008 04:51 PM
xo- hes told me i was beautiful girl. I even asked him once if he was sexually attracted to me, and he said yes. IP: Logged |
Thethirdbenjamin unregistered
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posted February 04, 2008 09:02 AM
Intresting....I'm also a gemini sun with a capircorn rissing. I almost jumped out of my seat as I was scroling down the screen when I SAW the following GAY and GEMINI SUN/ CAP RISSING. I was thinking DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!! then I looked at the other planets and was relieved, that his chart is nothing like mine after that. I think hes bi, not gay just because I could imagine him getting bored, then wanting to go to the next conquest, guy or girl. Yes, I'm also drawn to motherly like people, LoL and no the 5th house in gemini doesn't mean your gay, its more of creativity. I have my gemini sun in the 5th house same with mercury in gemini and i'm a mix of Art and Programing together. IP: Logged |