posted February 08, 2008 02:39 PM            

Hard Venus-Mars aspects can indicate potential for love n' hate relationships. There can fights between the lovers.

also...Venus oppose Mars can go from sweet,loving,affectionate,considerate to aggressive,impulsive,selfcentered and back, etc. oppositions are like teeter totter aspects.

It can be a sign of passionate lovers....maybe even too passionate

posted February 08, 2008 05:20 PM            

that's good

What's the orb of the aspect...that's a big factor too.

posted February 08, 2008 05:23 PM              

what do you think?

posted February 08, 2008 05:40 PM            

12th house/6th house is health and service axis. So there could end up being health and service issues in the relationship....especially with the hard aspects like the oppostion. It may not be now...but later on.

I am not sure if the sign,Libra makes any difference. I don't put much emphasis on signs in composites any way.

every composite has its challenges....challenges can make or break a relationship....that depends on the couple and what they choose to do in their relationship. They can choose to fight to stay afloat and swim.... or choose to sink and drown.

Transits to the composite are important too. Comparison from composite to the natal too.

for instance if composite Saturn is conjunct an individual's Venus, the individual might feel that the relationship is very serious and or even restricting. If composite Uranus opposes individual's Sun, the individual might find the relationship unpredictable and even unstable for him/her.

posted February 08, 2008 05:49 PM              

i'm going to think more about what you said and get back to you. thank you!!

posted February 08, 2008 09:59 PM              

it's so weird cuz last summer after i'd see him i would get insanely horny for hours afterward and i have never felt like that with anyone else before. yup, i know the feeling!

posted February 08, 2008 10:31 PM              

man i wish i had his exact birthtime! i'm gonna try to find out forsure. but for now we'll just leave it as is.

"Sun-Mars in 12th oppose Venus in 6th can be problematic.....especially when 12th house can be involved with hidden things,secrets,deceptions. Mars in 12th oppose Jupiter-Saturn can seem like a bipolar relationship in a way as in energy,passions fluctuate between limitations,restrictions and expansion,optimism."

do you think sun-mars in the 12th could mean an enthused romp into matters spiritual that fluctuates or alternates with a sober, careful, deliberate optimism (6th, saturn, jupiter)? cuz this DOES sound like the sort of energy that is between us.. he is also VERY spiritual but in a very independent way, like i am, and i always feel this intense undercurrent of understanding between us and i feel like we could get really deep into talking about and discovering stuff.. but also feel like we would be very careful and deliberate mostly.. maybe even saturn would cut off jupiter's flow on occasion and bring us back to reality.. or sometimes annoy us with stifling cautiousness. though i do LOVE saturn and think he is incredibly benevolent, i do see how it could get frustrating. but what i'm getting at, is i wonder if it could lend some groundedness to the spiritual delving that seems to be a likely possibility, and if, thus, this is a good configuration of planets..?

i dunno. do you think it could work out that way? i just can't picture him decieving me, but i guess deception can be unintentional too, or we can deceive ourselves. hmm..

"Transits to the composite are important too. Comparison from composite to the natal too. for instance if composite Saturn is conjunct an individual's Venus, the individual might feel that the relationship is very serious and or even restricting. If composite Uranus opposes individual's Sun, the individual might find the relationship unpredictable and even unstable for him/her. "

the aspects i see at first glance for him are:

composite chiron exactly conjunct his mercury (! is this healing, or painful..??)

composite mercury trine his jupiter and uranus

composite NN trine his jupiter and uranus

we both have sun and mars sextiled to composite sun and mars, since they are trined natally, so that is nice. i don't think i see anything too negative, though our composite moon in pisces is square his jupiter and uranus in sagittarius BUT i've never understood how pisces and sagittarius are squared since they are both so spiritual so i'm choosing to disregard that one. it's widely trine his venus anyway, and sextile his mercury, so i'm hoping that will help.

"also..with Pluto in 7th conjunct Descendant, it can be an intense,transformational relationship that could even get obsessive.
It can be hard to let go and walk away from the relationship once you're in it."

posted February 08, 2008 11:16 PM            

the relationship is what you two make it.

free will is the ultimate factor.

Everything that you tell me, I agree. It seems that you have a very good relationship. That's all that matters.

posted February 08, 2008 11:21 PM              

i think the weirdness for me is that he almost feels like a brother. so on the one hand it feels SO natural, and on the other it's like, hmm.. i don't want to lose him as a friend, too, if it doesn't work out!

thank you for your insights!! they were very helpful!!

the weird thing is that at first i was only re-entertaining the idea of him to get over this other guy i've been totally infatuated with, but the more i think about him, the more right it feels. but it's interesting cuz this shows how it's so easy to "block" a person out of your heart for whatever reasons your mind makes up, and that is why i'm sort of not sure! cuz i did have these very strong feelings for this other guy, and now i do for him as well and since i'm so monogomous by nature, it is uncomfortable, but i think it's good and healthy for me to experience this openended naturally flowing kind of thing..

posted February 11, 2008 09:07 AM            

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if you like it rough, it can be good.
hehehehehe

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Oh yeah... Lol! Lets just say the intensity of this position is the classic defination of passion! See, the precieved defination of passion these days comes from the ideal outlook of romantic love yet, passion can exist without love. Passion is an entity on its own and can be triggered by anything that you place a focused energy upon; May it love or may it be hate.

Heck hate triggers passion at the same degree as love. You know the saying "revenge is an act of passion?" well... that is why Sadism exists .

Yes, I do have this little aspect in my relationship's synasty but I somehow I also have a Mars sextile Moon there Lol! Oh they both have their ups .

posted February 11, 2008 12:13 PM              

However, he is the only guy who made me lightheaded by we kissed..but that did not translate to "feeling good" or "hot" to me for some reason.
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posted February 11, 2008 12:22 PM            

what were the orbs of those aspects.

posted February 11, 2008 01:24 PM              

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posted February 11, 2008 03:42 PM              

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posted February 11, 2008 08:28 PM              

When composite Venus is opposition composite Mars:

Your relationship is destined to always be a "hot" one. The sexual fireworks which are generated between the two of you are undeniable. However, certain difficulties will arise from time to time in this arena - among them: differences in how you each express or wish to receive affection, an element of conquest or dominance that evokes competitive feelings in the other person, or possessiveness because one or both of you feel you can't get enough of the other person. It may be hard for both of you to get your sexual-emotional needs met, as one of you is apt to dominate. Imbalances of this sort can create a lot of anger in the neglected, "giving" partner. If, however, you can learn to take turns giving and receiving, and focus on truly joining, the two of you can have a very vibrant, passionate relationship.

posted February 12, 2008 10:34 AM            

Not entirely sure. I ran that chart so long ago and now I can't even remember the interpertation site I used for it Lol! (I am really not that good at interperting Synasty charts and aspects... And I completely distrust online site interpertations for the most part.) I am gonna have to run the chart again for both synasty AND composite to find that out for you.

Oh and thanks for that info. Lol! See ppl? Who says challenging aspects are bad? And who says vengeful feelings can't be used for more... "benifitial purposes?"