posted March 27, 2008 09:03 PM              

with gemini sun and libra moon, i'm just thinking that maybe you are overthinking this. my libra friend just came for a visit and she always talks about relating.. relating.. relating.. (and is kinda obsessed with conflicts in relating styles). i think the balancing act must be difficult (though it is a real NEED for you!), but maybe try not to focus so much on the contrasts as what *works*.. since, it seems that you want it to work. i'm just getting the impression you are seeing her as the problem more than your own issues.. and recognizing differences and conflict is fine.. but my thought is that if you relax and breathe.. let her be and accept her for who she is, then you will have your answer. if you can accept her for who she is, and accept your relationship as it is, it has a much better chance of success than if you want her to change. if that is what you want (i still can't quite tell what you're asking!).

posted March 27, 2008 10:19 PM            

I just wish it never happened in the first place. Its like a fine line, do I just completely try to forget about it? Do I bring it up everytime it bothers me? My question is, when do I become "wrong" for bringing it up? When do I cross that line?

But as far as everything else, my mind does work overtime to "figure things out."

posted March 28, 2008 01:27 AM            

First of all, if you're Virgo ascendant, her Pisces sun falls in your 7th house, the house of the marriage partner. You 2 are natural partners.

Since she has Virgo moon, and you're ascendant and Mars virgo, she likes the way you look and how you present yourself. She probably finds you quite attractive.

Your mercury are in opposite signs, so there is a balancing act that must be achieved in the way you 2 think and how you express yourself. She being the Aries moon tends to want to dominate the conversation and to be one sided. You being the Libra moon are more willing to see different sides of issues and will try to decide what is fair. Issues of fairness are important to you. I know, I have libra moon too. We'll fight tooth and nail over what we consider fair. Lol.

You have Venus in emotional cancer, and feels easily wounded. Her pisces sun can relate to your Venus, as they are both watery and emotional.

She has Venus in airy Aquarius. That's a good match for your airy gemini sun.

posted March 28, 2008 02:23 AM            

Mine:

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posted March 28, 2008 02:24 AM            

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posted March 28, 2008 11:27 AM            

It doesn't look like you 2 will be getting rid of each other that quickly. Her Venus trines your moon and your Pluto in Libra. That makes for a very intense connection, one that's obsessive and difficult to break.

You 2 have Saturnian ties that indicate longevity, or being bound to each other for a very long time: Her saturn sextile your Jupiter and your uranus. Your Saturn trines her Chiron.

I think the latest transits have brought up strains in your relationship: Transiting Jupiter in Capricorn squared your moon and Pluto in Libra a few weeks ago. You may have succumbed to some indiscretions.

She is going through some Uranian times right now, with transiting Uranus smack on sun, opposing her moon in Virgo. Expect her to be unpredictable, rebellious, revolutionary, upset and upsetting. Yeah. This too shall pass. She will get a reality shot at her Saturn return in a few months, and also when Saturn conjuncts her moon later this year and opposes her sun.

Expect to feel some of that saturnian influence too as it will square your sun and mercury also sometimes later this year. If used properly, it will help you 2 get grounded.

posted March 28, 2008 01:24 PM            

Your analysis is accurate too. I gave into flirting with that libra a few weeks ago that I mentioned. My new thing now is to curb the flirting since I know I wouldnt like it if she did it.

And yup, I can see those uranus effects too. She is really, what I like to call "extra" right now. I hope this passes soon!

posted March 28, 2008 01:54 PM            

You two are just going through some relationship thunderstorms, especially her with the Uranus energy going on in her life. It's good that you're thinking this stuff through and talking it out, because your individual growth depends on it, you're discovering positives and negatives about yourself, but it's all necessary and ultimately benefits the both of you in the end.

Geocosmic Valentine

posted March 28, 2008 02:35 PM            

When I mentioned upcoming Saturn transits for you, I was talking about when Saturn at 24 degrees in Virgo will square your sun which is natally at 24 degrees of Gemini. That is NOT a Saturn return. I hope that's clear.