posted April 07, 2008 06:54 PM            

I think an intellectual connection (as 23 sort of already mentioned) is very important. And he might think that going into a business partnership with his significant other is lovely dream... if his other placements didn't override that.

posted April 08, 2008 02:41 AM            

With a Sun and Moon in the 10th house, his career will matter and he'll take it seriously, as everyone has said...he'll be especially drawn to people who can confer prestige upon him, however that's judged in his particular career. He'll be attracted to someone that everyone he respects can respect and admire.

With the Scorpio/Libra moon combo--he'll want 100% honesty and openness from any partner (but he won't necessarily respond in kind.) To show you he's interested, he will a) seek you out (call you often, invite you places), b) want to introduce you to friends and colleagues and just generally want to spend time with you. He may care how the both of you dress. As a Scorpio, he's gonna be meaner and more intense than your average Libran.

A Cap Rising is very career focused, even without all that tenth house action, and we (I'm a Cap rising) come off as cooler than we may be feeling inside. With Cap Rising, Mars in Leo, he's going to care a lot about how he comes across in public, especially in his career. So when he wants lots of public time with you, it's a way of showing he adores you.

posted April 08, 2008 03:10 AM              

Here is his chart : http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?rs=3&btyp=w2gw&&cid=dopfile4Xac2S-u1207630716

Here is mine, if that helps : http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=astro_w2gw_02_bleu_hp.25538.13058.gif&res=63&va=&cid=dopfile4Xac2S-u1207630716

posted April 08, 2008 10:37 PM            

His Saturn return is in that 8th house...he's gonna be all Saturn-y about sex...meaning he'll want to keep his options open during this phase, because actually partnering is very deep, intense and IMPORTANT to him (hello 7th house Mars-Jupiter-Node.) But Venus in Sag feels miserably confined by commitment. The Scorpio Sun/ Venus in Sag guy I know has an endlessly on-again, off-again long-distance relationship. They keep trying to be with each other in person, and it always goes really badly, but then they get back together long-distance once she moves away again.

I was under the mistaken impression that his Moon was in the 10th house too--it's in the 8th with his Saturn and Pluto. There's lots of intensity about sex with him, and he might even have sexual/emotional issues you don't know much about.

If he's spending lots of actual time with you, and wants to introduce you to people, he really respects and values you as much as he can. The flirting with others is probably partly his Sag Venus tendencies, and partly a Scorpionic bid for control. Hopefully during his Saturn return, he'll learn to let go of that control and let himself enjoy the scary, great process of real intimacy.

posted April 09, 2008 07:38 PM            

Shoot!

I cringe at the thought of such... mediocrity, monotony,and melancholy for me! It's like the color beige.

There must be something other than his moon that made him like that. I am having one of those sensitive days and I just saw everything vividly as you told it.

a weak grin over candlelight as he chuckles about some weak joke or story, which he found interesting enough to tell. There I am, sitting across him with a glazed look in my eyes, imagining how he'd react if I got up and screamed...

posted April 10, 2008 11:57 PM            

The funny thing is, I see beauty in almost every woman I meet. I dunno what it is but I can almost always find something beautiful about a female. Whether it be her hands to her legs, to her eyebrows, to her smile, to her hair, to her figure in general, I just appreciate beauty.

I don't like my woman to be loud, flashy, outright raunchy in public, ignorant, rude, or mean. I like a woman that isn't too conservative, and isn't too provocative. Oh yeah, good hygiene is a MUST!