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Topic: i wish this Pisces
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writesomething
Knowflake Posts: 2376
From: meet me in montauk
Registered: May 2006
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posted July 05, 2008 03:37 PM
 
This is one disturbing thread. Your thoughts become your karma. IP: Logged |
Kick It
Knowflake Posts: 1032
From: Leeds
Registered: May 2008
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posted July 05, 2008 03:45 PM
Mope and be depressed for a bit, it will help. That kind of long term relationship needs a good amount of time to grieve.You had many years with him and some of it must have been good. It sounds like he didnt know what he wanted when he got back with you.
It seems what he did wrong was to flirt with others and then say something hurtful to end it....he could be an arse or maybe he was genuine about getting back with you but decided not to in the end. When he said what he did, maybe he just meant to say that both of you are not suited after all this time together. You might not think, but its better than coming up with some silly excuse like "I'm too busy at work"
Maybe it just came out wrong or maybe he is a top class ahole. Don't matter now as you are seperated. It doesn't help to think of him too badly as you will only beat yourself up for putting up with that type of behaviour from someone. If lesbianism is not a choice  get some of your mates round and do girly things.
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BlueTopaz124
Knowflake Posts: 1508
From: Portland, OR
Registered: Jan 2004
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posted July 05, 2008 06:56 PM
and...when you're up to it, surround yourself with your girlfriends, platonic guyfriends and family who will help to boost/lift you up, to believe in yourself again. Go be around people who will give you support.It will happen, just give it time. If you try to race through and avoid what you're feeling, you may end up in another hurtful relationship.  IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel
Knowflake Posts: 6677
From: Australia
Registered: May 2008
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posted July 05, 2008 08:27 PM
kairalisten to Azalaksh - she knows it all. zala - you're a star.
and please, i know what was said wasn't really very nice - but give the girl a break - enough of the karma stuff - she needs compassion - not judgement - she's in a lot of pain. who hasn't been there? who at some point hasn't thought something negative about someone else? so, she's accumulating life lessons - who isn't?
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Azalaksh
Moderator Posts: 7410
From: New Brighton, MN, USA
Registered: Nov 2004
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posted July 05, 2008 08:41 PM
PeaceAngel ~
You're the  Z IP: Logged |
writesomething
Knowflake Posts: 2376
From: meet me in montauk
Registered: May 2006
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posted July 05, 2008 09:18 PM
peace- im giving her advice from experience. yes, when i was a young, immature teenager i probably did say/think stupid things like that, but trust me when i say it always has come back to me. i believe your thoughts/words(unless you are strongly fighting it/asking god/etc for strength) then youre attracting karma. im not going to personally encourage threads like this.IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel
Knowflake Posts: 6677
From: Australia
Registered: May 2008
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posted July 05, 2008 10:14 PM
writesomethingi don't believe in karma in the sense of good or bad. i do believe that when we pass judgement that we create a lesson for ourselves and that lessons are opportunities for growth. i don't think there is judgement behind it. i think the world is loving and judgement is the opposite of that. i read this thread the first day - and it could have been taken down then. it's evolved from there and kaira is learning from herself and others - she said that herself - and isn't that why we're here? she wants to find a place of peace in herself where she can grieve and heal after her experiences with this person. why do people feel the need to remind others that they are accumulating or creating bad "karma" when they may well be doing the same for themselves by passing judgement upon these people too? even if it is the case, that's their issue. it puzzles me but the irony appeals to my sense of humour. lol! IP: Logged |
CoralFrequency
Knowflake Posts: 1432
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posted July 06, 2008 01:32 AM
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PeaceAngel
Knowflake Posts: 6677
From: Australia
Registered: May 2008
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posted July 06, 2008 01:39 AM
coralfrequency"It actually never ends."  precisely. we all do it. that's why we should have that understanding when someone else does it. IP: Logged |
CoralFrequency
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posted July 06, 2008 02:12 AM
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PeaceAngel
Knowflake Posts: 6677
From: Australia
Registered: May 2008
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posted July 06, 2008 02:15 AM
coralfrequencyi think understanding is what we offer someone out of compassion for what they are experiencing. but you can't have double standards - if you expect something then you should offer it in return. you can't have one set of rules for everyone else and a different one for yourself. i think that's all i have to offer this thread. lol! done. IP: Logged |
CoralFrequency
Knowflake Posts: 1432
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posted July 06, 2008 02:43 AM
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i think that's all i have to offer this thread. lol! done.
those were exactly my thoughts, 2 min ago. IP: Logged |
jupitersgirl
Knowflake Posts: 1035
From:
Registered: Nov 2006
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posted July 06, 2008 04:14 AM
Kaira,
I know a very similar story. Even the dates match with yours. Could you post your chart and his chart?IP: Logged |
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