posted May 04, 2012 07:23 PM            

I think we get out hearts broken WAY more than we break

Or atleast I do

But like I was saying, once scorned there is NO going back once the heart is broken....NO going back~

posted May 05, 2012 03:42 PM            

When I’m badly bruised and I’m ready to let him go. If I’m not ready to let him go yet, I’d stick around no matter how toxic the relationship is. I’d still want to work thing out no matter what, even though I know that the relationship is already bad. No matter how bad he treats me, as long as I’m not ready to let him go, I’d stick around. I’d suffer for a loooooongggggg time for the moment to come. I hate it when I do this, it makes me seem like I don’t have pride and no love for myself.

When I’m ready, or when I’m at the point where I say “enough is enough”, I’d call things off. You can tell if I become distant and not affectionate. Those are the signs me wanting to leave you

I’ve left some of my exes. It’s not because there is another person, it’s just because I can no longer endure the pain. And once it’s done, it’s done. I would not contact him anymore, would not go back. That’s why after the break-up, I would not talk to him, I would totally vanish from his life. It’s because I need time to heal myself. It will take long time. And when I’m healed, don’’t ever expect me to say “hi”, even if u say “hi”, I would ignore you because for me it’s over.

And I do have 2 of my exes that I still hate until now, it makes me sick thinking about them, basically because of what they’ve done in the past.

Once I’m in a relationship, I’m loyal, I don’t cheat, honest, totally selfless, I don’t play around and I expect the same thing from my partner (My libra moon always makes me seek for balance). I got suspicious and tend to be jealous because I’m afraid to be hurt (I don’t know if my Pluto in scorp has anything to do with it). I sometimes hate this selfless nature of mine, cause it makes me seem too stupid to stay in bad relationship when I should really just leave and it is hard for me to end the relationship.

posted May 14, 2012 06:57 PM            

I think it's quite possible for Pisceans to hate ex-lovers, but as we tend to put up with so much, we get taken advantage of, and so this anger is often justified. Even at our worst, I'd say we're no more vengeful than any of the other signs.

In my opinion, the problem is that we don't have great boundaries, and the terms "no", "I find that unacceptable", or even "I don't like this", are lacking in our vocabulary. It's almost as if we expect a lover to pick up on our subtle cues and adjust their behaviour accordingly. When this doesn't happen, repeatedly, we get disappointed or hurt and swim away.

As others have said, there is no turning back, we just vanish. Sometimes it's physical, but more often than not our departure is emotional. Our heart isn't in it any more, and picking up on this (at least), the lover bails. It's when he or she doesn't get the message that Pisces may exhibit some of his/her less favourable traits, such as infidelity.

posted June 29, 2012 08:16 PM            

Sometimes I will tell the guy its not working but more often than not I will just disappear. I've made amends for ignoring a person. It is rude and immature and I will NEVER do it again. We are all worthy of closure.

posted September 13, 2012 01:23 PM            

Also, the thing about Pisces women(and men) is that they're so hidden from others' view that they can become downright dangerous if their buttons are pushed for too long(especially if they have some heavy Mars/Pluto or Saturn influences in their charts).
I am a Pisces Sun myself, and have already developed a reputation for keeping my anger locked down until I reach a "boiling point" at which point I won't hesitate to get physically violent. Mind you, I do have Moon in Taurus conjunct Mars and Jupiter, so despite innate masochism, I don't allow others to treat me as low as I treat myself.lol.

Also, the most demonic human being I have ever met in my life and the only person in my life I can honestly say I was truly "afraid" of, was another Pisces Sun girl.

posted September 15, 2012 06:28 AM            

I haven't been treated emotional very well. I've always been left to clean up messes that other people started and most of the time, I get so tired of taking care of others that I would be too tired to take care of stuff for me.

First, my parents didn't treat me well. I grew up in an emotionally distant family. There was also abuse going on for years. I was always loyal and stuck around, hoping things between my family got better. I gave up going to school 1000s of miles away just to be closer to my parents to watch over them. After I had finished my undergrads, they ended up divorcing and both were trying to bully me into being on their side for the divorce. I decided to take neither side and disappeared. I didn't bother to contact them in any way, shape, or form for over 5 yrs.

Second, I had friends who would often take their anger against the world out on me by being nasty towards me and blaming me for their problems. I would put up with it for so long and was always calm and didn't argue with any of them, but when I've had enough and saw that they won't change, I walked away and never come back. Some of my friends are still hurt that I walked away from them. They are shocked that I just and "abandoned" them.

I had a few short relationships where the guy didn't treat me very emotionally well. One of them was a Cap Moon who was cold towards me. Another one was a Virgo Moon and he didn't want a relationship but wanted to keep the physical relationship. I pulled out on both of them after giving them a few chances to correct their mistakes with me. I had put up with their nonsense shortly but ultimately, I realized that they weren't going to adjust for me, so I didn't want to adjust for them and I walked out.

For Pisces people, once they give up on someone, that's it, it's done.

posted September 15, 2012 07:10 PM            

In the end, though, when I leave, I leave. Once I've made up my mind & feel it deep within, I know that it's over. When I've lost any love for that person, I can't stay. Afterwards I berate myself for staying too long, for giving it my all, for staying with someone who couldn't reciprocate the same feelings, only to start over with someone else.

posted September 16, 2012 05:08 AM            

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Originally posted by a_may_gemini:
I understand Pisces females because I have Pisces moon in late degrees. My Moon has hard aspects to every planet except Sun (quintile), Mars (sextile), Uranus (trine), Pluto (no aspect).

I haven't been treated emotional very well. I've always been left to clean up messes that other people started and most of the time, I get so tired of taking care of others that I would be too tired to take care of stuff for me.

First, my parents didn't treat me well. I grew up in an emotionally distant family. There was also abuse going on for years. I was always loyal and stuck around, hoping things between my family got better. I gave up going to school 1000s of miles away just to be closer to my parents to watch over them. After I had finished my undergrads, they ended up divorcing and both were trying to bully me into being on their side for the divorce. I decided to take neither side and disappeared. I didn't bother to contact them in any way, shape, or form for over 5 yrs.

Second, I had friends who would often take their anger against the world out on me by being nasty towards me and blaming me for their problems. I would put up with it for so long and was always calm and didn't argue with any of them, but when I've had enough and saw that they won't change, I walked away and never come back. Some of my friends are still hurt that I walked away from them. They are shocked that I just and "abandoned" them.

I had a few short relationships where the guy didn't treat me very emotionally well. One of them was a Cap Moon who was cold towards me. Another one was a Virgo Moon and he didn't want a relationship but wanted to keep the physical relationship. I pulled out on both of them after giving them a few chances to correct their mistakes with me. I had put up with their nonsense shortly but ultimately, I realized that they weren't going to adjust for me, so I didn't want to adjust for them and I walked out.

For Pisces people, once they give up on someone, that's it, it's done.

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