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AquaGuy
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posted July 07, 2008 04:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AquaGuy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Experiences please - at what point does a Pisces Girl call it quits and breakup a relationship? Thanks...

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posted July 07, 2008 04:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AquaGuy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I should explain why I'm asking this...

I've read that Pisces Girls are loyal and stick with a relationship longer than most...

But, at the same time, I read about Pisces Girls tend to have a number of ex boyfriends/husbands...

So, I'm trying to understand where the line is - at what point is the point of no return...?

Thanks...

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posted July 07, 2008 06:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mblover     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Almost 15+ Pisces women I know have never broken their relationships - even if they have had multiple divorces. They have never quit and they never hate their Exs even if how badly they were treated. The reality is that Pisces (Sun) are made to sacrifice their lives and they are not made to be selfish. Most likely, it is the other person who quits. Problem is understanding the Neptunian world. If you consider Piscean retreat as 'Quits' then it will happen very frequently in a relationship, almost every year.

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posted July 07, 2008 06:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Isis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL mblover...that's what I was going to say. When does a Pisces girl call it quits? They don't.

Although I'm sure that's not always the case...but I've never known a Pisces guy or woman to call things off. When they wanted things to end they'd just withdraw, start acting strange and distanced. The other person finally got frustrated and ended it.

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posted July 07, 2008 07:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for flyin_free_70     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Pisces girl and I can tell you that it's really hard for me to end relationships, even ones that were fairly short where I never ended up loving the person. I was with my ex for 16 years and it took a Lot for me to end that one(a lot as in somehow after we were together for 10 years he started doing crack) If my marriage hadn't turned out to be a horrible nightmare by the end I never would've left him...even with the drug use it still took me five years to finally do it.

I'm fiercely loyal and once I fall in love with somebody it's extremely hard for me to break things off...even if I know that ending it would be better than being together. When would I find it easier to end things...at the beginning I think, when you're still at the cautious stage and haven't really fallen in love yet...at that point if I have too many *red flags* or if things just aren't working out like they should then I can end it...and even then it's still really hard for me.

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posted July 07, 2008 08:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AquaGuy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I do know one pisces wife that left her cancer husband (with 2 kids) for an aquarian guy (a friend of the husband)... I don't know all the details of what happened, but, I assume the pisces girl if effect "quit" the relationship...

Thanks for sharing guys...

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posted July 07, 2008 09:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mblover     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
, I assume the pisces girl if effect "quit" the relationship...

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That is an incorrect Aquarian Logic and incorrect Assumption.

It was the Cancer man who already quit long time ago and retreated first either because of Money insecurities or because of some expectation of children. And, after that with no choice, the Pisces woman got sucked into a different world - the world of Aquarian.

What you don't know is that this Pisces woman, no matter how much Attention the Aqua gives, will still secretly love that Cancer Ex. It's just how Pisces are, there is no Objective Logic.. There is no Rationality..

It's called Loving without any selfish or un-selfish Objectives..Loving with an Open heart.. and Most importantly.. Loving without Thinking..Or In Linda's words - HUMILITY

Piscean women are welcome to correct me if I am wrong.

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posted July 07, 2008 10:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taurusvirgoleolady1974     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My venus,as well as my descendant, is in pisces, and yes, it is true about pisces women. Being that my sun and ascendant are earth signs, I actually transform into another person in relationships. The deeper my feelings get, all my common earth sense is thrown to the wayside. Looking to love in those higher planes, the more deep, the better. I have a tendency to take on and enthrall myself in my loved ones world, good or bad. Thats bc if I love you than I am a part of you, and thats the way I love. It is true we never stay mad with our exes. We do have big forgiving hearts. Our exes truly never leave our hearts for some reason we carry them, even though we may not have feelings for them any more. I actually have a potential mate and his venus is in picses. He tells me about his exes and how he still speaks to them, and he gives me their history and most women would probably get upset, but we are the same in that nature, so I cant even get mad. I do feel as though, looking back, my heart did get taken advantage of and now as I have gotten older, I have learned to not necessarily be careful, but cautious, and ask myself: can I be this persons sponge? Does this person have serious issues or just normal day to day problems. Because that is how i function in love. We absorb your problems, and may even take up your habits. Water transforms and transcends. Lovin a pisces is great.

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posted July 07, 2008 11:05 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
what about Pisces men?

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Pisces here and have been the one to call the shots about 80 % of the time, the other 20% mutual breakups [never dumped].

But having said that I know exactly why: I have a stubborn Aqua mercury conjunct my Aqua DSC and good communication is a *must* and I become very Aquarian-like in that regard to others in romantic relationships. If it breaks down I start getting a horrible anxious feeling running down my arms and I just can't stand it for anything and bolt...(also have DSC ruler [Uranus] square Sun so that doesn't help much.) At other times I've realized too late that we were emotionally incompatible.

V. strong in Cardinal so no probs in initiating, either.

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posted July 08, 2008 01:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for flyin_free_70     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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"What you don't know is that this Pisces woman, no matter how much Attention the Aqua gives, will still secretly love that Cancer Ex. It's just how Pisces are, there is no Objective Logic.. There is no Rationality..

It's called Loving without any selfish or un-selfish Objectives..Loving with an Open heart.. and Most importantly.. Loving without Thinking..Or In Linda's words - HUMILITY

Piscean women are welcome to correct me if I am wrong."

This is very true. I can honestly say that I still feel love or "something" anyway, for my HS sweetheart, my ex husband, even for the few men I've dated since. Once you're in my heart you're there to stay. I'm pretty sure I'll never quit caring about any of them.

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it's hard to generalize all Pisces women or men I guess. but I agree with the fact that we keep in our heart ex lovers, be it platonic or romantic. The ones who know their limits will not disappoint the current partners by rekindling the old flames...

the point of no return for me is when I realize there is no love from my partner/wish to stay together. I hardly ever think of leaving somebody... Well then I am inundated with a lot of water influence lolz and almost no air/cardinal. Venus in Cappy so take a long time to enter or leave a relationship. but once it's done, it's done.

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I think it really depends on the other signs in a Pisces Girl's chart and also how old she is. I've got Gem moon and Venus in Capricorn, and I've almost always been the one to end a relationship...now to be fair to my Pisces sun, I give it my all before throwing in the towel, but conversly, my Cap venus knows when it knows. I.E. I pretty much know about a guy from the first few meetings, whether he's the "one". Doesn't make it right, but it is what it is. Sometimes I don't even know why I think a guy won't work out, he's sweet, cute smart, etc, but my "spidy senses" tell me he's not long term guy..and I'm always right.
And I have lots of love in my heart for all them men I've loved, but the past is the past, I've never looked back when leaving a relationship, only forward.

In my youth, I probably was much more the clingy, don't let it be over Pisces gal, but as I 've aged and experienced life a bit, I'll not stay in a relationship that isn't right. Might miss something (durn Gem moon, haha):-)

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posted July 08, 2008 10:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey AquaGuy I don't know about other Pisces women but this one is loyal to the very end. I am honest and I don't cheat..And when I fall inlove I am totally loyal and honest. The only way that I leave is if the man has expressed to me in some way through his words or his actions that he does not give a damn about me, then I am up..

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posted July 08, 2008 10:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"What you don't know is that this Pisces woman, no matter how much Attention the Aqua gives, will still secretly love that Cancer Ex. It's just how Pisces are, there is no Objective Logic.. There is no Rationality.."

Nope I don't get this, not true..Once we walk away from a person its done..Granted we have to be at our wits end for it to happen, but when we get there no looking back..Also we don't bring others into our lives like that bc if we are inlove we can only love one person truely at a time..If I receive someone else after breaking up with another its over for that other person..

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posted July 08, 2008 09:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
triplepisces: "what about Pisces men? "

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Just as hard I'd say. But I think it can't be avoided that a lot of Pisceans have a mild touch of masochism about themselves. They don't respond to being treated badly in the same way as most.

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posted July 09, 2008 02:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for alma_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"What you don't know is that this Pisces woman, no matter how much Attention the Aqua gives, will still secretly love that Cancer Ex. It's just how Pisces are, there is no Objective Logic.. There is no Rationality.."


This is not true for me! I have been the one to end all of my relationships and never looked back.

But I do want to say that with my current relationship ot would be extremely hard to end things, but not because I will die without him but because I think he will be extremely sad without me and I would never want to be the cause of him being miserable. SO I think it can be hard for a Pisces to end things just because we don't like to hurt people that we truly care about.

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posted July 09, 2008 11:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for flyin_free_70     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

"Nope I don't get this, not true..Once we walk away from a person its done..Granted we have to be at our wits end for it to happen, but when we get there no looking back..Also we don't bring others into our lives like that bc if we are inlove we can only love one person truely at a time..If I receive someone else after breaking up with another its over for that other person.."

I agree with this. I love very very deeply, but when it's over it's over. Really, I can't even START something new until it IS over...so when I'm with you, I may possibly remember my ex's or think about them fondly, but I would never ever wish I was with him instead of you. And IF I ever did get to that point (the point of wishing I was with somebody other than you) then I'd leave. I can't be with somebody I don't love and I can't be in love with two people at the same time.

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I agree with the above.

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posted July 10, 2008 10:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pisces women (and men for that matter) tend to stay in bad relationships WAY too long.

I am a Pisces woman with a Pisces bfriend and we both have stayed in former relationships years beyond their death.

However....I have a huge Aqua influence and when someone has hurt me, finally to the depth of the core, I have NO problem letting go and being the one to end it all. I have ended all but one "relationship" and that one was never even a relationship anyway just a dating scenario.

Pisces women fall in love very quickly and fall out just a quick. We are nuts for love and give ourselves very openly. But when we begin to fall out of love for lack of return of love, abuse, whatever, we fall out quick. We can stay in the horrible situation for way too long, and often do, but eventually we will flee, into the depths of the sea, (our emotional selves) or into the arms of another.

O, and by the way, Liz Greene put it SO eloquently, the Pisces woman scorned turns not into a witch, but a vampire, preying on the (blood) of others....

yikes!!!

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posted July 10, 2008 10:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AquaGuy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:

That is an incorrect Aquarian Logic and incorrect Assumption.

It was the Cancer man who already quit long time ago and retreated first either because of Money insecurities or because of some expectation of children. And, after that with no choice, the Pisces woman got sucked into a different world - the world of Aquarian.

What you don't know is that this Pisces woman, no matter how much Attention the Aqua gives, will still secretly love that Cancer Ex. It's just how Pisces are, there is no Objective Logic.. There is no Rationality..


I must admit - these statements freaked Me out when I read them (no offense intended)...

I'm glad that some Pisces Girls chimed in after to counter them...

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posted April 28, 2012 03:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted April 28, 2012 03:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Found the exact quote, for all you either Pisces hurt or hurt a Pisces....

"There is also more than a touch of a witch in Pisces (woman); wheather it is white or black depends on wheather she has been badly bruised, and how badly. A Pisces woman gone wrong is a vampire, playing on the fantasy life of others and draining their strength. Never underestimate her, because she may be inarticulate or reluctant to explain herself......"

Liz Greene
Astrology for Lovers 1980

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posted April 29, 2012 09:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Neptune makes them stick around sometime when they really should leave.

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posted April 29, 2012 09:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yep, Randall, been there done that all of my life.

With Neptune in the 12th and a Pisces sun, I am doomed...lol!

Have decided to not get involved anymore. At my age, no need to anyway!

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