posted July 12, 2008 03:30 PM         

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When a woman gets pregnatnt it's mainly her fault. She's not forced into it is she. She holds the egg so she is ultimately the protector of it - or she should be unless she's some sort of slapper.

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Ha, very interesting logic. So interesting- I am at a loss for words. Scientifically, most people don't come armed with a penis and vagina, or eggs and sperm so I don't know how it can be mainly the woman's fault.

And secondly, you talk about "eggs" as if they're diamonds. Kinda weird, and the only way a woman can get pregnant is if some man comes around, forgets his jacket, and provides her with sperm to in fact, FERTILIZE that egg. It doesn't fertilize itself...

A man is not forced into having sex with the woman either. Even less so, yet in fact that seems to be a large part of what men are about (Not male bashing- just stating from general experience and scientific principle). And since a woman can't get pregnant without HIM, if we resort to your...utterly unorthodox and quite bogus statement, then wouldn't the fault mainly lie with him for 1) not wearing a condom, 2) not exercising caution, 3) being too damn fertile for modern technology. Since when did women have to put a steel cap over their uterus to be able to enjoy sex without the consequence of pregnancy while the man gets to jolly about carefree like a spray happy 18 year old boy?! (Sorry for the imagery, you guys...)

All in all, and I don't even know why I'm even responding to this, its 50/50.

The men who say its "her" fault tend to be the deadbeats who later wanna complain about women "sucking on the economy" by having too many children and not being able to support them.