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posted September 04, 2008 06:01 PM         

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posted September 04, 2008 06:21 PM         

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Wow. I've read it. Yeah. These people are all over. Saturn has my respect. I am afraid of him and his wrath.

I'm a little relieved that she's travelling. Yes. If I'm cutting people off, I fear that I'm doomed because I think it's too late to make new friendships. I think last year was my cut off period. yeah. Saturn sucks.

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posted September 04, 2008 06:40 PM         

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You're young. There's plenty of time. In life, you go through periods of making friends and then no friends. You also go through periods of letting go (most likely happen for you when maybe t-plu is squaring n-merc?). It's not a competition to make friends in life (even though MySpace/Facebook might give the impression that it does)

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posted September 04, 2008 07:47 PM         

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The thing is, I've always had my girls. If this one is cut off, it will leave 4 ladies who I'd die for. I don't hang with them as a group because they hate each other but that works for me because I'm not a group person.

I've changed recently. I was the sidekick friend before. The reserved one. I still am but now tables have changed because I'm more confident. This friend met me at my worst. Now I'm getting closer to my best. I think she's not taking my change well. I'm still reserved, a little subdued and sombre, but when she calls to ask what I'm up to, the responses are now more exciting.

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posted September 04, 2008 08:06 PM         

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Well maybe she fed of your problems at the time. I've seen that many times, where one improves and there is a falling out because there is competition. I don't know, its hard to say as I'm not there to see what is happening between you two.

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posted September 05, 2008 09:53 AM         

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Unmoved, interested to read whole story -I have been having probs with Leos (show-offs?) this past year (mostly male) who think there is everything there is to know, and they are the sole authority on (whatever), DESPITE the fact that they never ever deliver what they promise ("oh, I've got such wonderful connections" - what, in your dreams, love?) never do any work, are easily impressed by famous people *just because they're famous, never mind that they might be right w**kers*, and aren't all that bright!!! Actually, I don't feel like laughing, nearly had a nervous breakdown yesterday...but LL is a warm and fuzzy place for talking about that kind of thing.

Sun and Saturn are just not friendly right now, but that time will pass.

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posted September 06, 2008 03:25 PM         

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Xena. I'll reply properly when I'm on my machine. The mobile is annoying me by not allowing me to edit.

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posted September 06, 2008 11:59 PM         

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um....maybe the alcohol if you don't usually drink it?

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posted September 07, 2008 12:19 AM         

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D friggin P.

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posted September 07, 2008 12:43 AM         

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Xena. Ah. The show off. That creature. You know what? I really don't mind people who show off, just as long as the subject matter is fascinating. But if you are going to brag about something untrue, besides everything else, people can smell an exaggeration a mile away. So what ends up annoying me is not just the white lie but the fact that you thought I'd buy it.

To me, it's not that you lied to me that pushes me over the edge, it's the fact that you undermined my intelligence and thought I'd believe your lie.

Unfortunately, I still get star struck. I only do the screaming when I'm no longer in their presence though. In the early stages of meeting someone I've looked up to, I will tell my friends and those that I care about. Out of sheer excitement.

but those idiots who claim to be connected... I never believe them until they connect me. And if you start showing off about something that's off the topic of discussion, I do deem you an idiot.

do I name drop? Yes, as a reference in my CV. In our work, we are judged by who we have worked with and where we have worked. But that's work related. On a social scene, if you come to me and tell me you know so and so and that you're rich, I'd ask: and so?

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posted September 07, 2008 12:58 AM         

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I replied to you above librasun but as you can see... i thought I had done a double post. Turns out I didn't. So you reply is gone. Unfortunately, I can't be bothered typing that stuff again right now since I'm trying to calm down after doing that.

*turns swiftly on her toes and leaves the thread, hands clenched into a tight fist, trying not to lose her marbles*

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posted September 07, 2008 01:00 AM         

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I replied to you above librasun but as you can see... i thought I had done a double post. Turns out I didn't. So you reply is gone. Unfortunately, I can't be bothered typing that stuff again right now since I'm trying to calm down after doing that.

*turns swiftly on her toes and leaves the thread, hands clenched into a tight fist, trying not to lose her marbles*

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posted September 07, 2008 01:14 AM         

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ah. Now I do a double post. Great!

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