posted September 23, 2008 05:08 AM         

Scorpio Sun, Virgo Moon, Sagg Mercury, Gemini Saturn and although they have different Ascendants, the new guy's Mars sits at the same degree as my ex's Ascendant.

Most strangely, although they have different names, my ex-bf's name asteroid sits at 23' Taurus in his natal as does the new guy's name asteroid in his own natal. In my chart, my ex's name asteroid sits at 21' Gemini and this new dude's asteroid is at 19' Gemini. How very odd.

The thing is this (there's always a thing): He's brahmin and I'm really quite caucasian. During the time we spent talking (about an hour and a half), although I practically impressed the pants off of him with my limited knowledge of Rahu and Ketu, it became clear that it could never go anywhere serious, for that very reason (my whiteness/non-east indian-ness).

After looking at our synastry, I wonder if maybe we have some type of career connection going on here in addition to all the juicy chemistry. Either way, there are a ton of karmic aspects. I'm wondering if anyone else sees it too (his Mars and NN in my 10th...)?

I almost feel like I would be helping him on an emotional level and he would be helping me out in a career/social networking level.

Reality check anyone? Here's the chart.

posted September 23, 2008 05:14 AM         

Also he will be attracted to you as your mars is in his 1st. Anyway you would be good for him as a friend at least as your sun and venus fall in his 11th

Interestingly your NN is conj his IC, his NN on your MC. So both future and past associations, you might see him good for your future somehow, he might see a previous intimate connection with you. However you do have his saturn on your AC - maybe you might find him a bit heavy going after a while.

posted September 23, 2008 05:49 AM         

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I almost feel like I would be helping him on an emotional level and he would be helping me out in a career/social networking level.

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I think I wrote this backwards? Never take sleeping pills and then write on messageboards.

We actually have a Saturn conjunct Ascendant double whammy. We have Karma conjunct Karma. And a Pluto/Venus double whammy (but that's, like, essential for me with les boys).

posted September 23, 2008 06:14 AM         

Did you get the impression that the attraction was mutual? I'm asking because in terms of the synastry I would have thought that it's mostly you who is feeling a (romantic/physical) connection.Your 7th house being triggered and all whereas for him it seems more of a friends/career/networking thing (your planets & AC are mainly in his more neutral houses like the 11th house/10th house.

posted September 23, 2008 04:51 PM         

There are several aspects which are connective though, like my NN on his IC and his NN on my MC. My NN also conjuncts his Eros. And his AC conjuncts my IC and his DC conjuncts my MC. So the all the angles are involved, as well as the Nodes.

We also have his Venus conjunct my Neptune which feels, well, nice. And although his Venus falls in my 7th, my Neptune falls in his 5th.

I think it was a case of karmic connections of some kind? One interesting thing is that on the day we met Transiting NN was conjunct his natal Osiris and Transiting Osiris was conjunct my natal NN. What does this mean, if anything? Who knows.

posted September 23, 2008 05:31 PM         

With that double-whammy Saturn-ASC conjunction you both have, when you both walk away it will be as if God placed conveyor belts under your feet because you'll be going nowhere.

Plus, that Water Grand Trine of your Sun-Venus trine Uranus all trining his Mars!!!! Yeah...I'd like to see you both walk away from that.

Then your Pluto trines his Saturn...enough said, I rest my case. All that Saturn you both have is GLUE, GLUE, GLUE!!

Anybody wanna see my $100 or raise it?

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posted September 23, 2008 05:44 PM         

Well, he asked me out last week and I told him I was not yet convinced that seeing one another was a wholly good idea. I also waited more than 24 hours to reply back to that particular email and I get this feeling that made him back off a bit. He wrote back that he hoped I was feeling better (since my email included an apology for writing back late since I had been under the weather) and a casual "ttys".

posted September 23, 2008 06:56 PM         

I remember driving to get to our first date and repeating to myself in my head "It's just karma. Go to dinner, smile, eat and then get the heck out. Karma complete!"
By the end of dinner I knew I was going to fall in love with him, which is the only time I've ever known something like that right away. And I did, and my heart got broooken.

So now, with this guy who has such a similar energy, I feel very cautious and unsure if I really need to go back in this direction again. And it figures that just as I finally convinced the ex to stay away permanently, two days later I meet this dude.

Geo, if you're right that this is glue and I'm stuck, then I plan on using my free will to navigate things much differently this time. I'm pitifully grateful that my heart is guarded for the first time in my life, because we have some serious sexual mojo between us.

posted September 23, 2008 07:26 PM         

You're right about the free will. After all, don't they sell glue removers these days at your local hardware store? If they don't have it, we neep to invent it. We'll call it "Neptune Adhesive Remover", it disolves Saturn strength glue in one easy application.