posted October 16, 2008 06:22 AM         

LOL

posted October 16, 2008 06:24 AM         

I don't know if I can live without a man. I've always had one. It's one of those things I kind of think about and wish I'd tried.

posted October 16, 2008 06:29 AM         

It's harder with kids, yet l like the freedom l get with not living together because l think my aries stellium attracts the intensity and yet not sure l want such intensity at home!!

I think i prefer the passion coupled with a mentally stimulating interraction in day to day life.

posted October 16, 2008 06:34 AM         

we are so similar on the aries front... and l have aqua DC!

Yes, i need a LOT of space too and l give back. Im not possessive yet l demand loyalty - must be my leo AC and taurus sun!

posted October 16, 2008 06:42 AM         

hahahaha your post did make me laugh cos i'm the same...
had to be nit picked and yet secretly love it lol

posted October 16, 2008 06:48 AM         

i don't hate *all* women, but i have to be honest and say that i get along far better with men than i do most females. i have REALLY bad luck finding genuine female friends.

growing up, my mother was cruel to me (still is) and i was teased relentlessly by the girls in my grade from as far back as i remember until freshman-sophomore year of high school. i remember in the 8th grade this one girl (she's a day older than me actually) put tape and gum in my hair when i wasn't looking. when i got upset and cried, she also started flicking rolled up tape at me and told me to "do something about it". at the time, my confidence was non-existent so i just sat there and cried. my teacher never noticed any of it, either. he was always on his computer. a few months later he was arrested for child molestation, actually... he was caught when police were given a lead and they searched his computer at school and found AIM conversations he had had with a 13 year old. anyways, i digress. a boy named chris stood up for me when he saw me crying and switched spots with me so he'd sit with the girl table and i sat with his male friends who weren't jumping up and down to hang out with me but at least they weren't cruel in any way.

since then, i've always gravitate towards men more. i feel a sense of physical and emotional safety with them and i know its because i've just had really rotten luck when it comes to females in my life. there was this one virgo girl i knew . we don't talk anymore because she kinda just dropped off the face of the earth, but she really saved me in junior high. i would hang out with her group of friends but they were only nice to me because of her and so i never got especially close to them. she always defended me and called me all the time to make sure i was ok because my home life was a complete mess. it was weird for me growing up: i didn't want to go home to my mother but i didn't want to be at school with all these kids making fun of me. it was hard...

in high school, my solid friends were male and in either AV or theatre. i was ALWAYS in the theatre for the play and musical and i never saw the girls who made fun of me in junior high because our high school is enormous. but i did spend a lot of time with the actresses and it went one way or another really. i was mainly a floater. i really can't say much about high school because i mostly had a wonderful time until senior year. what was the quote from little miss sunshine again?

Frank: Yeah. French writer. Total loser. Never had a real job. Unrequited love affairs. Gay. Spent 20 years writing a book almost no one reads. But he's also probably the greatest writer since Shakespeare. Anyway, he uh... he gets down to the end of his life, and he looks back and decides that all those years he suffered, Those were the best years of his life, 'cause they made him who he was. All those years he was happy? You know, total waste. Didn't learn a thing. So, if you sleep until you're 18... Ah, think of the suffering you're gonna miss. I mean high school? High school-those are your prime suffering years. You don't get better suffering than that.

posted October 16, 2008 07:30 AM         

I've got a Taurus stellium in the 7th house including Venus, the Sun is there too in Gemini. But that Sun is part of a Grand Trine with Uranus and Aqua Mars. The Moon 9* applying to Uranus.

Human beings are contradictory though, aren't they?

I don't think I'd like a 9 to 5 husband. Mine works away from home a lot. He's an Aquarian with Taurus Moon Trine Uranus. Think I did quite well for myself, astrologically speaking, though it wasn't till a long time into the relationship I thought to take a look at a synastry chart but now it all makes sense.

In another life I would have married a sailor.

posted October 16, 2008 07:38 AM         

Funny thing about the 9 to 5 husband. As someone who needs a lot of space, I shouldn't want that. But he works night shift, which means, when he's going to work, the kids are coming home from school. So I never have time to myself. Which is what I really desperately need.

In my next lifetime I should remain single and have many many lovers. Something that my personality in this lifetime is suited to. It fits my chart.

posted October 16, 2008 07:58 AM         

After somebody meets ideal partner and loses him (her) from some reason, then is difficult to have another man.
I think that most of us have one really love and all other are only copies.

posted October 16, 2008 08:07 AM         

That's really interesting. I'm not sure if there is just one person for each of us. I think there are people for us at the perfect time. So when someone exits it makes space for someone else bringing in something new. Not to replace people - but to create and learn something new and grow in a way that you can only with them.

posted October 16, 2008 08:15 AM         

-wholeheartedly believe in soulmates, but I also believe in the value of Earth mates. I think sometimes people are so busy looking for this "one" person that they miss opportunities for love and happiness because of minor details or blind siding.-

We all are different. After I have lost "my Karma" any man coming to me was not "him". That is also reason that I became more and more sick. My sickness is not dangerous but boring and blocks all in my life.

I am thinking about that: to write a book about relationships and all other bad and good in the life and post the Charts there. I have never seen something like that but could be very interesting.

posted October 16, 2008 08:18 AM         

l miss the waking up in the morning with a man all the time though - but equally l like sometimes to fall asleep alone!

posted October 16, 2008 09:17 AM         

*shakes head in utter confusion and asks god, "you came up with that as well? Where's the consistency in your work, dude?"*

Venus square Uranus.