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Topic: what makes you sexual/horny?
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librasunleomoon Knowflake Posts: 187 From: Registered: Feb 2008
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posted October 22, 2008 12:38 PM
...really this is a real question! I am wondering which aspects make you actually very sexually physically "in need" so to speak, as opposed to just interested in romance on the emotional level (they may do both.)My theory is that venus mars aspects especially the hard ones including conjunction, square, and opposition, and eros aspects to personal planets especially the sun and venus tend to make someone just really need sex; they also increase the desire for love. My experience is that surprisingly venus pluto aspects do not increase the physical need as much as you might think. What other aspects/transits has everyone noticed have this effect? IP: Logged |
Libralove09 Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 22, 2008 12:42 PM
ah well, i would say my libido is pretty "healthy" lol, maybe some could argue its because im 19.i do have venus in libra, and mars in virgo, im not sure about all my aspects, but i read them on cafe astrology and couple said i enjoy those kind of pleasures. i think also people have neglected the role of Eros, thats meant to define your intimacy i think, i have scorpio in pluto, and scorpio in eros, the description in the scorpio eros was very accurate about the "intensity" ^ ^. ill post the links here so you can read your interpretation of your eros & pschye firstly work them out if you don't know them already: http://www.cafeastrology.com/erosephemerisasteroid.html then when you know what yours are, here are the interpretations: http://www.cafeastrology.com/sexualastrologyeros.html IP: Logged |
Sei no Senshi Knowflake Posts: 88 From: Hot Springs, AR, USA Registered: Oct 2008
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posted October 22, 2008 12:48 PM
Eros isn't neglected, it's superfluous. If it's meant to define your intimacy, then it's going to have to fight for that with Luna (emotional intimacy), Venus (relational intimacy), and Mars (sexual intimacy) so there's really no "intimacy" left for Eros, making it unnecessary.Your sexuality is defined by your Fifth house, it's lord and condition, and Mars. IP: Logged |
aqua/scorp Knowflake Posts: 203 From: Middle Earth Registered: Jun 2008
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posted October 22, 2008 12:50 PM
I would say the planets mars and pluto being well placed in ones chart by sign and/or house and making strong aspects to the personal planets. For example having Mars in any of the fire signs is in its element so more expressed i guess. I'm no pro but just what i think Also I think they say you should look to the 5th house, 7th and 8th houses i believe as they are related to romance, sex and relationships/marriages. IP: Logged |
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 2761 From: Sacramento,California,USA Registered: Jul 2006
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posted October 22, 2008 12:52 PM
that's because Pluto is an outerplanet, a higher octave of Mars - more like collective will...the sexual energy can be channeled into spirituality,metaphysical. It could be celibacy,tantra,kama sutra,sex magick. Pluto orbits beyond Saturn,and so its about the obliteration of boundaries and relates to transformation,death,rebirth. like Scorpio is not just sexual but can be a spiritual sign. I do think that Venus-Pluto connections can be sexual because obsession can drives the person's sexual needs. But those aspects can indicate a possible holding off of sex to want something more profound. Some people might just wait until they find somebody that they find a deep soul connection. I think the greatest sex is with somebody that you love with all your soul. I find sex without love to be rather empty and even meaningless. When I have sex with the one I love, it's an experience that I lose myself into and a complete merging. Intimacy on the emotional,soul level. all or nothing. I don't want any "wham..bam..thank you,ma'am"
I have Venus in Scorpio and Pluto in Libra mutual reception...they are in a septile aspect too. I also have Venus trine North Pluto Node. I have Sun in Scorpio contraparallel Pluto, and I have Mercury in Scorpio sextile South Pluto Node. I also have Moon quincunx Pluto. of course, Pluto could be about psychoanalyzing your sexlife,sexual needs
also can get you into contact with taboos also can attract people who have gone through abuse,trauma,betrayal,trust issues,and or have problems with the psyche...especially of sexual nature. There were women that I was attracted/involved with that had a history of those things. IP: Logged |
aqua/scorp Knowflake Posts: 203 From: Middle Earth Registered: Jun 2008
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posted October 22, 2008 12:56 PM
hmm interesting about Pluto! I have moon/pluto conjunction in scorpio and mars Aries inconjunct Pluto (still confused as to wht tht aspect means) and Venus in the 8th House.IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 689 From: processing destination...... Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 22, 2008 12:56 PM
Gosh. You know, I think the older I've gotten the more sexual I've become.My sun's in the 5th house and my Mars is in the first and conjunct my ascendant (they're both in Mars too so...I think this makes me an extra horny person??? I don't know.) I'm not sure if Pluto transits do anything, but it was just moving through my 8th house and squaring my sun and making me feel like I was going to jump any and every male within a 10 mile radius...and what's worse, I'm picky as well, and I've had %$#@ Saturn in transit in my 5th, so it was always like something was getting in the way of even getting a date!!! There is something I am curious about though...my 8th house's ruler is Sagittarius, and my Jupiter in my natal chart has aaaallll kinds of aspects to it. Does that make me extra horny by nature??? This is a serious question! ------------------ "The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do. " IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 689 From: processing destination...... Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 22, 2008 12:57 PM
Sorry, I meant to say both in Taurus, not both in Mars...------------------ "The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do. " IP: Logged |
Libralove09 Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 22, 2008 12:58 PM
hmm, i understand, but the description of my scorpio ero's was just as accurate as the rest of my other intimacy planets, so i personally wouldnt say it has no space.my 5th house is in Sagittarius my mars virgo is in house 2 my venus libra is in house 3 my moon aries is house 9 i don't think any of my aspects are particularly explaining my libido if its no my scorpios in pluto and eros :S otherwise, don't know. sun leo here. edit: 5h in saggi 7th/descendant? in aquarius 8th in aquarius pluto scorpio in house 4 i have pluto sextile saturn and nepture pluto sextile mars mars trine nepture and saturn moon trine ascendant i have sun trine uranus, sun sextile jupiter, the rest of my aspects are oppositions or squares (god damn grand square) anyone make anything of my aspects to explain my libido? IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3274 From: London Registered: Mar 2006
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posted October 22, 2008 01:00 PM
i'm getting more sexual as l get older I can't divulge my aspects yet as i'm just re-rectifying my chart zzz zzz IP: Logged |
Kay Libra Knowflake Posts: 355 From: New York, USA Registered: Feb 2005
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posted October 22, 2008 01:01 PM
Any water sign that touches my Mars in Cancer. Qoute "I do think that Venus-Pluto connections can be sexual because obsession can drives the person's sexual needs. But those aspects can indicate a possible holding off for sex to want something more profound. Some people might just wait until they find somebody that they find a deep soul connection." I can relate to holding off (sex)for something more profound as i have natal Venus conjunct Pluto. I prefer connecting on a soul level which is more to my liking. I can also have physical, but soul connecting is much more appealing. IP: Logged |
Sei no Senshi Knowflake Posts: 88 From: Hot Springs, AR, USA Registered: Oct 2008
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posted October 22, 2008 01:02 PM
quote: hmm, i understand, but the description of my scorpio ero's was just as accurate as the rest of my other intimacy planets, so i personally wouldnt say it has no space.
Sorry you feel that way. quote: my 5th house is in Sagittarius
What's he doing? The Lord of the Fifth holds sway over your sexuality. So you're overlooking the most important part. IP: Logged |
aqua/scorp Knowflake Posts: 203 From: Middle Earth Registered: Jun 2008
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posted October 22, 2008 01:02 PM
I was just thinking the same thing with Jupiter, regarding my 8th house ruler which is also Sag.. I my 8H Venus in Sag squaring Jupiter in Pisces.. and Trine 12H Mars in Aries.IP: Logged |
Libralove09 Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 22, 2008 01:05 PM
se no senshi, is this what u mean about my 5th house:5th House Sagittarius 2°16'43 ? otherwise i don't know what your asking i edited my previous post and put in potential aspects (i think there potential :S) can you make anything of them? IP: Logged |
Sei no Senshi Knowflake Posts: 88 From: Hot Springs, AR, USA Registered: Oct 2008
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posted October 22, 2008 01:08 PM
Ah, sorry, I was speaking of the lord of your Fifth house, Jupiter. I thought I put that in the last post, but I guess not. My mistake. ^.^'IP: Logged |
Libralove09 Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 22, 2008 01:11 PM
sorry, im new to astrology, iv never heard of the lord of the 5th house, my jupiter is in cancer though ah i think i found what your looking for, Saturn in the 5th house at the time of my birth, according to astro? but according to the full list of my planetary positions, saturn, neptune and uranus are all in house 5, well neptune is end of house 5, all 3 are "retrogade" bah, heres all my aspects: Planetary positions planet sign degree motion Sun Leo 27°06'00 end of house 1 direct Moon Aries 8°16'56 in house 9 direct Mercury Virgo 22°42'12 in house 3 direct Venus Libra 2°27'19 in house 3 direct Mars Virgo 10°29'12 in house 2 direct Jupiter Cancer 3°52'22 in house 11 direct Saturn Capricorn 7°41'40 in house 5 retrograde Uranus Capricorn 1°31'09 in house 5 retrograde Neptune Capricorn 9°52'43 end of house 5 retrograde Pluto Scorpio 12°35'23 in house 4 direct True Node Aquarius 25°48'28 in house 7 retrograde Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house. House positions (Placidus) Ascendant Leo 11°27'07 2nd House Leo 28°51'47 3rd House Virgo 21°30'32 Imum Coeli Libra 22°28'38 5th House Sagittarius 2°16'43 6th House Capricorn 11°15'47 Descendant Aquarius 11°27'07 8th House Aquarius 28°51'47 9th House Pisces 21°30'32 Medium Coeli Aries 22°28'38 11th House Gemini 2°16'43 12th House Cancer 11°15'47 Major aspects Sun Sextile Jupiter 6°46 Sun Trine Uranus 4°25 Moon Opposition Venus 5°50 Moon Quincunx Mars 2°12 Moon Square Jupiter 4°25 Moon Square Saturn 0°35 Moon Square Uranus 6°46 Moon Square Neptune 1°36 Moon Trine Ascendant 3°10 Venus Square Jupiter 1°25 Venus Square Saturn 5°14 Venus Square Uranus 0°56 Mars Trine Saturn 2°48 Mars Trine Neptune 0°36 Mars Sextile Pluto 2°06 Jupiter Opposition Saturn 3°49 Jupiter Opposition Uranus 2°21 Saturn Conjunction Neptune 2°11 Saturn Sextile Pluto 4°54 Neptune Sextile Pluto 2°43 Neptune Quincunx Ascendant 1°34 Pluto Square Ascendant 1°08 any of them explain my libido? or am i just that "horny teenager" ? ..
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Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 2761 From: Sacramento,California,USA Registered: Jul 2006
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posted October 22, 2008 01:14 PM
what he is referring to lord(aka ruler)of 5th house is the the planet that rules the sign on the 5th house cusp(where the house begins) for example I have Capricorn on 5th house cusp. Saturn rules Capricorn. Therefore,Saturn is the lord of my 5th house. So I check Saturn's placement in sign,house, and aspects to check out 5th house matters. IP: Logged |
Libralove09 Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 22, 2008 01:24 PM
i cant see what you have explained in my aspects, maybe it was part of the written interpretation in astro? i don't know :S IP: Logged |
Sei no Senshi Knowflake Posts: 88 From: Hot Springs, AR, USA Registered: Oct 2008
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posted October 22, 2008 01:25 PM
Hehehehe. I get to prove a point now. Yay me! What happens a lot of times in astrology is that people look to "little things" to explain things while they overlook big things. You say you have a nice libido and that it doesn't make sense without Eros as it's just as accurate, but what if I told you your sexuality was defined by an exalted Jupiter in the Eleventh house effectively making it a "super Jupiter" being in a Sign it very much enjoys and in perhaps the most fortunate house of heaven. There's your sexuality and you having a few kids since Cancer is a prolific Sign. IP: Logged |
Libralove09 Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 22, 2008 01:27 PM
sei, lol im new to this stuff, i didn't mean to overlook it!thats why i was doing the asking (coz i really didnt know)
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Sei no Senshi Knowflake Posts: 88 From: Hot Springs, AR, USA Registered: Oct 2008
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posted October 22, 2008 01:29 PM
It's fine. I'm not "blaming" you or anything. Everyone has to start somewhere. IP: Logged |
Libralove09 Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 22, 2008 01:35 PM
any of the other aspects stand out, like those pluto trines? or the mars sextile pluto? (just curious!) do u know a website i could read more about the jupiter in cancer in house 11? IP: Logged |
annaf Knowflake Posts: 322 From: Registered: Oct 2006
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posted October 22, 2008 01:36 PM
Libralove,i lost you there. What did you not understand? Glaucus, just explained to you your quesiton from the previous post. You asked what 'lord of 5th house' means and he explained it by using his own chart as an example. IP: Logged |
Libralove09 Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 22, 2008 01:38 PM
sorry, i just find it all confusing, theres 3 lists of aspects, with planet bla in this, and house bla in that, etc.just confuses me, i kind of understood what he was saying, but i couldn't see which 5th house i was looking at in all my aspects IP: Logged |
deuxantares Knowflake Posts: 1197 From: Meet Me in Sofia Registered: Nov 2006
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posted October 22, 2008 01:41 PM
I looked at your chart. Your 5th house = Sagittarius. Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter. Now, where is Jupiter? It's in the 11th house. Go check the chart, it's easier than looking at your list of aspects.
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