posted March 26, 2002 02:47 PM         

i'm looking at your grandmother's chart and have some questions to ask you so i can feel the water, so to speak. i hope you don't mind, but somehow i felt really compelled to look at her's personally first.

does she get angry a lot? and when i mean a lot, i am asking at least once a day, or quite a few *major* blowups every few months.

i don't feel that she has mellow personality at all.

love,

aphrodite

posted March 26, 2002 06:56 PM         

I connected with you to find out what you really need, before answering this question. Then I came here to answer it and found out about your grandma and concentrated on it instead. Told you it was all about timing. I'll tell you the astrology later.

The lungs are ruled by Gemini and Mercury. Neptune has been squaring your grandmother's Mercury for some time now. It dissolves everything. Unfortunately, it can dissolve that part of your health, too, if you allow it. That's probably when the spot on the lung developed, aided by Pluto being in her house of health--which is squaring her Mars and opposing her Jupiter, and Sag rules her 6th house. That's taking away from her energy to fight it. The Moon is in Virgo today--not the best day to be having a cat scan for the lungs. She may be weaker than expected afterwards and need a lot of tlc. I hope you and your Mom are there to give it to her. You see, the lungs are ruled by the Heart Chakra, and complications with them are due to lack of feeling loved or self-doubt. Given what you said about the relationship you described your Mom and Grandmother, that impacted her greatly (probably more than she is even willing to admit verbally, given many placements and aspects in her chart.) Yet, she is crying out in pain, and it is obviously affecting her physically. No, it's not the only thing that has contributed, so please do NOT think that. Your grandmother has a tendency to hide her pain or hold it in, according to her chart (even if she can be outwardly mouthy) The relationship with her daughter is one of many. The people in her life need to show her unconditional Love to help her get past this. She also needs positive reinforcement to know she's a good person. The transits show it is all karmic in nature, and Chiron is exactly trining her Mercury, so I k-NOW she wants to heal from this and go forward. She's a very stubborn woman, who probably thinks her way is the only way. I hope she is able to let go of this attitude, so she can HEAL.

posted March 26, 2002 06:57 PM         

Lots of Love to all of you!

Now, I'm 1 1/2 hours late, because it took so long to write this and I gotta go!

posted March 26, 2002 10:57 PM         

Lioneyes~ and White Lite to you and your Moms

~Princess

posted March 27, 2002 01:27 AM         

Love is the power that heals the soul and mends hearts.
~Jill Harrison

posted April 11, 2002 05:21 PM         

Your relationship with your mother HAS spanned many lifetimes together. I see she was your mother in another life, and a sibling in even another one. You had challenges and often disagreed when she was your mother before, but were very close and had a sweet bond when you were siblings.

In this life, I see the deep emotional bond you mentioned, as her Moon sextiles your Venus/Saturn conjunction, and opposes your Jupiter. An opposition to Jupiter is a sweet aspect as far as I'm concerned. Most astrologers disagree with me, but I have this thing against Jupiter trines, because they make you lazy. The opposition helps you balance things. Your Moon sextiles her Sun/Jupiter conjunction, which adds even more sweetness to your relationship. It opposes her Pluto, which is a very deep and profound aspect. There will be times it will add emotional balance to your relationship and others, it will bring emotional upsets between you.

As for your mother and grandmother, they have Moon conjunct Mars, and a double Sun square Mars, which all together is equal to an emotional firecracker constantly being set off. They aren't easy aspects, to say the least. Your mother needs to learn not to be so sensitive and your grandmother needs to learn not to be so harsh when your mother does get emotional. Your grandmother was your mother's mother in their last life together, too. And your mother was a mother to your grandmother in another one. They had many challenging times together in their other lives as well. I guess that's why when I connected to you, I felt their need to forget the aspects and heal, regardless of them. It lOOks like they might continue this pattern until they have worked it out between them and allow Love to HEAL them. Most of the Chiron, Saturn, and Pluto aspects between them are very challenging, and they really set up a doozey of a synastry between them. Ouch. They really, really need to let down the walls and negative expectations and go forward in Love. If your mother reaches out to your grandmother, and your grandmother is harsh to her, tell your mother to continue with kindness, and not to retreat in emotional anger and hurt. It HAS to be done to break this pattern. It will NOT be easy, but I promise many here will send lite, well wishes, and positive vibrations to help, if you ask.

Good luck to your family. BTW, how is your grandmother doing?