posted January 17, 2002 11:48 PM         

Thanks a Bunch!

posted January 18, 2002 05:10 PM         

There is no rush.

I told my mom when I was asking for her info what I was doing and she is very excited as well. If possible she would like you to include my grandmother, her mother in the mix. She has had problems with her Mom for what seems like ever but she asures me that her mom was good until she left for college and then just changed on her. So when you are all better if you could include my grandmother it might help my mom and I figure out what might have caused this situation between them. My grandmother is having over the course of the past couple of years series of tia's (little strokes that finally lead to the big one) and Mom would like to maybe figure out the problems between them before my grandmother passes so she can understand everything and try to make the last however long my grandmother has healing for the both of them.

Take care and get some R&R (rest and recuperation)

There is no rush we'll still all be here when you return.

posted February 11, 2002 11:03 PM         

I just wanted to pull this to the top, so I won't forget about it. I don't have the energy to do it tonight, but I want to get to it this week.

posted February 19, 2002 01:33 AM         

All my thanks for remembering!

posted February 19, 2002 09:47 AM         

I finally have the info required. Thank you so much for all your help on this!

My Grandmother's: May 25, 1918 @ 7:00AM, Springfield, Ohio

My Mother's: December 5, 1947 @ 4:02AM, Springfield, Ohio

My info: August 3, 1974 @ 6:07AM,
Lancaster, Ohio

Finally Mom and I might figure out why she and her Mother's relationship has been so strained in the late years and why my mother and I's relationship has been the way it is.

Thanks so much!

posted February 21, 2002 01:09 AM         

If you find a chance If you would please just reply to let me know you have seen the info. I would be most greatful!

You are an and a blessing to all whom you guide.

posted February 21, 2002 09:55 AM         

Yep, I saw your thread, I just haven't been able to respond to it. Last week, I wrote too many long responses and couldn't get to as many questions as I would have liked to do, because of it. I answered so many questions the other day, that my arm was numb, tingly and in a lot of pain afterwards. I took the whole day off yesterday because of it, and didn't even log on the net, except to get my email. I'll get to it when I can.

posted February 21, 2002 05:32 PM         

Thanks so much for your reply! It feels good to know that I am not forgotten about! Please do not worry about when you can get around to it. It certainly can wait!

Take care and have a great afternoon!

Light and Laughter,
lioneyes

posted February 21, 2002 05:44 PM         

Thanks for your patience.

posted March 05, 2002 10:13 AM         

I'm doing okay. I get my cast off this week, so I'm happy about that. I overdid it yesterday with answering questions, and am still worn out, today. I'll be happy when it heals and I don't have to worry about overextending myself. Thanks for the support. White light to your Dad! I dislocated my elbow and my shoulder in the accident, and the doctor said I'll have to have surgery on both eventually, but I haven't had problems with either since they healed. I think I'm going to skip those problems!

Stop and smell the flowers....ahhh, yes, I agree, especially if they're wild flowers after a rain.

posted March 21, 2002 06:44 PM         

Thanks Spiritua for commenting on my patience. Actually it's been something I've been trying to work on for many years. Being a double Leo and the teenager, I want what I want and I want it NOW. As I've gotten older I've been burned by that more times than once and am finally getting to the point where I'm beginning to really believe that good things come to those who wait!

posted March 22, 2002 03:07 AM         

I had every intention of looking at your charts today, since my girls went back to school. However, I caught up on sleep, since I haven't had much this week. Then, Kassiana came home sick. I've been at the hospital with her all night and just arrived home. I honestly don't know when I'll be able to look at it as long as my daughter needs me. She has literally been sick the entire week. I'm sure you understand that my children are my first priority.

BTW, there's a reason this question keeps getting delayed. Everything happens for a reason. It may be that one of you will be more open to me when I lOOk at it, or there's something I need to SEE, but have to wait, or a number of things....possibly just you needing to learn patience, although I have to say I admire what you have shown. Whatever the reason, it IS happening for a purpose. Go look at Gooberzlostlovefound's thread called leo/capricorn..help, please! and you'll see an example of why delays occur at times. That one was a classic and the timing was perfect. I seriously doubt I would have done the Lexi for her at an earlier date as well. Yet, it was jumping out at me to be done when I did it. Timing....

BTW, if there's anyone else who could help her, I'd truly appreciate it. jwhop, Sue, gOOb, Amy....all of you are welcome to take a look at it.

The other thing I could do is send you a computer generated report. Much of it has been rewritten in my words. It still won't SEE like I do, but it'll give you something until I can get to it.

BTW, my girls start spring break today, and the break is completely needed after a week of illness. I'm seriously thinking about taking them out of state for spring break, but I promise I WILL look at it before I go. We were supposed to leave tomorrow, but the trip has been canceled (or at least delayed) because of Kassiana's health. I'm not sure if we're going to go or not. It all depends on how Kassiana feels.

Take care, lioneyes, and thanks for your continued patience.

posted March 22, 2002 07:58 PM         

There is a Sun/Mars square between your mother and grandmother and it's both ways. One at 2* and the other at 6*. This is the kind of strong cause of friction that Linda Goodman thought it would be preferable to balance the Karma in another lifetime.

It probably doesn't help that your grandmother has a Scorpio Moon and feels the disagreements deeply and personally on an emotional level.

It may be further compounded by a Moon/Saturn square, your mothers Leo Saturn, your grandmothers Scorpio Moon at 5*. It's a little loose aspect wise but if you consider the signs the planets are in, it could be a contributing factor. Since Saturn is the teacher, it might have felt to your grandmother like the parent/child relationship had reversed itself.

These aspects are thoroughly discussed in Linda Goodman's Relationship Signs and well worth reading.

Hopefully someone can give you more insight.

jwhop

Sorry, I had listed the planets in the signs for you, your mother and grandmother but they got mangled when I posted them so I took them out.

posted March 25, 2002 12:00 PM         

Thanks so much for the help and insight that you took the time to look up for my mother and I! There is definately something there between my mother and her mother! You hit the nail on the head when you spoke of the reverse of the relationship! I'm sorry I don't have more time to write but I'll write more tomorrow when I have a bit more time to contemplate. Right now I'm running out the door to an apt. I really appreciate the time you took to help me on this matter. My grandmother actually is going in for a CAT scan tomorrow. They found a spot on her lungs. My prayers are with her whatever the outcome. If she is sick I hope there will not be much pain involved and that her dignity remains intact. You have great timing. Again thanks for all your time and effort with this!!! Sorry so short and that I really don't have time to look up what you explained! I will talk with you hopefully tomorrow!