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lioneyes
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posted January 17, 2002 02:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lioneyes     Edit/Delete Message
Hi There!!
I was wondering if I gave you my information and my mother's info if you could share some insight from our charts. My mother and I have a very deep and emotionally satisfying relationship on both the mother daughter side as well as the friendship aspect. I just can't help but feel that we have a long history together.

Light and Laughter,
lioneyes

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Morning Storm
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posted January 17, 2002 09:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Morning Storm     Edit/Delete Message
Sure, just give me the birth data.

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Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.
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lioneyes
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posted January 17, 2002 11:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lioneyes     Edit/Delete Message
Great Thanks!!! I'll get the info to you early tomorrow. I know your time is valuable and I just want you to know that I really appreciate all your help with this!

Thanks a Bunch!

Light and Laughter,
lioneyes

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Morning Storm
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posted January 18, 2002 07:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Morning Storm     Edit/Delete Message
If you can get it to me quickly, I'll get it done today. I'm having surgery this afternoon and will be taking some time off to recover. If you don't get it to me before the surgery, I'll get to it as soon as I get back.

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Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.
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lioneyes
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posted January 18, 2002 05:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lioneyes     Edit/Delete Message
Morning Storm,
Sorry I didn't get the info you needed to you this morning. I logged on and saw that you were having surgery and thought that you needed your own time beforehand. Let us all know when you are feeling better and have recovered and I'll post the info.

There is no rush.

I told my mom when I was asking for her info what I was doing and she is very excited as well. If possible she would like you to include my grandmother, her mother in the mix. She has had problems with her Mom for what seems like ever but she asures me that her mom was good until she left for college and then just changed on her. So when you are all better if you could include my grandmother it might help my mom and I figure out what might have caused this situation between them. My grandmother is having over the course of the past couple of years series of tia's (little strokes that finally lead to the big one) and Mom would like to maybe figure out the problems between them before my grandmother passes so she can understand everything and try to make the last however long my grandmother has healing for the both of them.

Take care and get some R&R (rest and recuperation)

There is no rush we'll still all be here when you return.

Light and Laughter,
lioneyes

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Morning Storm
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posted February 11, 2002 11:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Morning Storm     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Lioneyes,

I just wanted to pull this to the top, so I won't forget about it. I don't have the energy to do it tonight, but I want to get to it this week.

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Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.
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lioneyes
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From: Texas
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posted February 19, 2002 01:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lioneyes     Edit/Delete Message
Hi there Morning Storm!
Glad to see that you are back! I took few weeks off as well, so I'm sorry to just now getting around to this. Things have been out of control here as of late. I was married less than 4 months ago and things are quite rocky to say the least. Hopefully things will take a turn but as for right now I am on an emotional roller coaster so please forgive me for keeping you hanging.

As for the information needed I will get on tomorrow and pass it along to you.

All my thanks for remembering!

Light and Laughter,
lioneyes

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lioneyes
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posted February 19, 2002 09:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lioneyes     Edit/Delete Message
Good Morning Morning Storm,

I finally have the info required. Thank you so much for all your help on this!

My Grandmother's: May 25, 1918 @ 7:00AM, Springfield, Ohio

My Mother's: December 5, 1947 @ 4:02AM, Springfield, Ohio

My info: August 3, 1974 @ 6:07AM,
Lancaster, Ohio

Finally Mom and I might figure out why she and her Mother's relationship has been so strained in the late years and why my mother and I's relationship has been the way it is.

Thanks so much!

Light and Laughter,
lioneyes

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lioneyes
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posted February 21, 2002 01:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lioneyes     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Morning Strom!

I do not want you to miscommunicate here and do not want to offend you in any way. Rather that I just wanted to make sure that you saw that I replied. I thought that maybe you might have forgot about me after I did not reply for a few days after you moved my question to the top.

If you find a chance If you would please just reply to let me know you have seen the info. I would be most greatful!

You are an and a blessing to all whom you guide.

Light and Laughter,
lioneyes

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Morning Storm
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posted February 21, 2002 09:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Morning Storm     Edit/Delete Message
Hi lioneyes,

Yep, I saw your thread, I just haven't been able to respond to it. Last week, I wrote too many long responses and couldn't get to as many questions as I would have liked to do, because of it. I answered so many questions the other day, that my arm was numb, tingly and in a lot of pain afterwards. I took the whole day off yesterday because of it, and didn't even log on the net, except to get my email. I'll get to it when I can.

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Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.
--Rumi

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lioneyes
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posted February 21, 2002 05:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lioneyes     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Morning Storm,

Thanks so much for your reply! It feels good to know that I am not forgotten about! Please do not worry about when you can get around to it. It certainly can wait!

Take care and have a great afternoon!

Light and Laughter,
lioneyes

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Morning Storm
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posted February 21, 2002 05:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Morning Storm     Edit/Delete Message
Sorry! You know you'd think I should've known to at least let you know I saw the message, given I KNOW you're a Leo--and know what my three Leo strong kids need, but I goofed that one!

Thanks for your patience.

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Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.
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lioneyes
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posted February 22, 2002 12:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lioneyes     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Morning Storm,

Double Leo at that! You make me laugh and I can't tell you how much that means to me considering the ---- I've had to deal with as of late. You're the best!

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Morning Storm
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posted February 22, 2002 04:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Morning Storm     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks!

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Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.
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lioneyes
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posted March 05, 2002 12:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lioneyes     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Morning Storm!
just a quidk note to say hi and see how you are doing. I hope your recovery is going well! My father had reconstructive surgery a few weeks ago on his shoulder, so I know that the recovery process can be frustrating needless to say. Hang in there. Take time to smell the flowers! I know it sounds so trite but I'm finding that there is alot of truth in those words!

Light and laughter,
lioneyes

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Morning Storm
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posted March 05, 2002 10:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Morning Storm     Edit/Delete Message
Hi lioneyes,

I'm doing okay. I get my cast off this week, so I'm happy about that. I overdid it yesterday with answering questions, and am still worn out, today. I'll be happy when it heals and I don't have to worry about overextending myself. Thanks for the support. White light to your Dad! I dislocated my elbow and my shoulder in the accident, and the doctor said I'll have to have surgery on both eventually, but I haven't had problems with either since they healed. I think I'm going to skip those problems!

Stop and smell the flowers....ahhh, yes, I agree, especially if they're wild flowers after a rain.

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We see things not as they are, but as we are: Love brings understanding. ~Anais Nin

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lioneyes
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posted March 19, 2002 11:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lioneyes     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Morning Storm,
I hope all is well. I have not heard from you and I am beginning to get worried that maybe I have done something to hurt or upset you. I understand that you do this out of your own free will and are very generous with your time and thoughts. You keep telling me that you are still planning on looking at the charts and considering everything you have been going through lately with the surgery and all the delays are more than understandable. Could you let me know whether you are still planning on working on this? Thanks!

Light and Laughter,
lioneyes

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Randall
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posted March 19, 2002 12:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message
Nah, you just got lost in the shuffle somehow. She's nursing two sick little angels right now, and she'll get to it soon.

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"It is never too late to become what you might have been." George Eliot

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lioneyes
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posted March 19, 2002 12:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lioneyes     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Randall for the update! I'll be sending some white light her way to help get those little ones back on their feet!

Light and Laughter,
lioneyes

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Morning Storm
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posted March 20, 2002 11:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Morning Storm     Edit/Delete Message
Sorry sweetie! I'll try and do it tomorrow. I'm flat out exhausted right now and haven't opened my astrology program in over a week. I don't even know where the Sun is right now, much less the Moon.

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To fall in Love, is to rise. . . .
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Spiritua
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posted March 21, 2002 04:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Spiritua     Edit/Delete Message
lioneyes, I must put my hat off to you. You are being remarkably patient.

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lioneyes
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posted March 21, 2002 06:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lioneyes     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Morning Storm for replying! I hope your little ones are feeling better and that you are taking care. I don't in any way want to be putting pressure on you. Just keep me in mind when you get to feeling better and the more important things in your life mellow out a bit (your little ones feeling better and your recovery).

Thanks Spiritua for commenting on my patience. Actually it's been something I've been trying to work on for many years. Being a double Leo and the teenager, I want what I want and I want it NOW. As I've gotten older I've been burned by that more times than once and am finally getting to the point where I'm beginning to really believe that good things come to those who wait!

Thanks All,
Light and Laughter,
lioneyes

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Morning Storm
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posted March 22, 2002 03:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Morning Storm     Edit/Delete Message
lioneyes,

I had every intention of looking at your charts today, since my girls went back to school. However, I caught up on sleep, since I haven't had much this week. Then, Kassiana came home sick. I've been at the hospital with her all night and just arrived home. I honestly don't know when I'll be able to look at it as long as my daughter needs me. She has literally been sick the entire week. I'm sure you understand that my children are my first priority.

BTW, there's a reason this question keeps getting delayed. Everything happens for a reason. It may be that one of you will be more open to me when I lOOk at it, or there's something I need to SEE, but have to wait, or a number of things....possibly just you needing to learn patience, although I have to say I admire what you have shown. Whatever the reason, it IS happening for a purpose. Go look at Gooberzlostlovefound's thread called leo/capricorn..help, please! and you'll see an example of why delays occur at times. That one was a classic and the timing was perfect. I seriously doubt I would have done the Lexi for her at an earlier date as well. Yet, it was jumping out at me to be done when I did it. Timing....

BTW, if there's anyone else who could help her, I'd truly appreciate it. jwhop, Sue, gOOb, Amy....all of you are welcome to take a look at it.

The other thing I could do is send you a computer generated report. Much of it has been rewritten in my words. It still won't SEE like I do, but it'll give you something until I can get to it.

BTW, my girls start spring break today, and the break is completely needed after a week of illness. I'm seriously thinking about taking them out of state for spring break, but I promise I WILL look at it before I go. We were supposed to leave tomorrow, but the trip has been canceled (or at least delayed) because of Kassiana's health. I'm not sure if we're going to go or not. It all depends on how Kassiana feels.

Take care, lioneyes, and thanks for your continued patience.

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To fall in Love, is to rise. . . .
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jwhop
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posted March 22, 2002 07:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jwhop     Edit/Delete Message
Hello lioneyes

There is a Sun/Mars square between your mother and grandmother and it's both ways. One at 2* and the other at 6*. This is the kind of strong cause of friction that Linda Goodman thought it would be preferable to balance the Karma in another lifetime.

It probably doesn't help that your grandmother has a Scorpio Moon and feels the disagreements deeply and personally on an emotional level.

It may be further compounded by a Moon/Saturn square, your mothers Leo Saturn, your grandmothers Scorpio Moon at 5*. It's a little loose aspect wise but if you consider the signs the planets are in, it could be a contributing factor. Since Saturn is the teacher, it might have felt to your grandmother like the parent/child relationship had reversed itself.

These aspects are thoroughly discussed in Linda Goodman's Relationship Signs and well worth reading.

Hopefully someone can give you more insight.

jwhop

Sorry, I had listed the planets in the signs for you, your mother and grandmother but they got mangled when I posted them so I took them out.

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lioneyes
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posted March 25, 2002 12:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lioneyes     Edit/Delete Message
Hi jwhop!

Thanks so much for the help and insight that you took the time to look up for my mother and I! There is definately something there between my mother and her mother! You hit the nail on the head when you spoke of the reverse of the relationship! I'm sorry I don't have more time to write but I'll write more tomorrow when I have a bit more time to contemplate. Right now I'm running out the door to an apt. I really appreciate the time you took to help me on this matter. My grandmother actually is going in for a CAT scan tomorrow. They found a spot on her lungs. My prayers are with her whatever the outcome. If she is sick I hope there will not be much pain involved and that her dignity remains intact. You have great timing. Again thanks for all your time and effort with this!!! Sorry so short and that I really don't have time to look up what you explained! I will talk with you hopefully tomorrow!

Light and Laughter
lioneyes

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