posted May 13, 2002 10:32 AM         

No rush on this as I now you aren't 100% yet, but when you have a chance please take a look at my past life connection with the Sag. The feeling I "knew" him was so strong, that I'm convinced there is something there. (still "hoping" to strengthen that connection you spotted!)

me: 4/2/64 10:50 pm Joliet, IL
him: 12/14/63 2 am Baltimore, MD

I promise - the info is correct!!!

posted May 15, 2002 09:47 AM         

I'll look at it again later to give you some more insight about it.

posted May 22, 2002 09:41 AM         

My Sag just informed me he wants to focus on someone else right now. I K-NOW he's the one. Please send your "hope" soon!

posted May 22, 2002 11:15 AM         

i apologize if this sounds like a nosey question, but what does he mean by "focus on someone else"?

posted May 22, 2002 01:10 PM         

No, it's not nosy. We've both been dating other people, and although a couple of weeks ago I k-NOW he had picked me - he suddenly became evasive again. So, I had a suspicion but think this is an old flame that he needs to work through once and for all. Once it is over for good, then I'll have all of his attention. That's the thought I'm going with anyway! He is still very flirtatious and loving. In fact, we are going to have dinner next week. He clearly wants to stay connected, and I think - no, I k-NOW - it's because he is the one for me.

Please keep the positive energy flowing our way. I k-NOW it helps!!

posted May 22, 2002 01:18 PM         

if you don't mind, i'd like to take a look at both of your charts.

cheers,

posted May 22, 2002 02:59 PM         

Take care, sweetie.

posted May 22, 2002 04:18 PM         

yes, you and mr. saggitarius have past lives connections. more than one, and i think more than two. there are love connections, and mental/communications connections. you both are very attracted and drawn to each other. there is a lot of energies between you both. his inner planets make contacts with your outer planets---hence you are the more powerful one in the relationship, which can be a good and bad thing.

in addition, i just wanted to send give you a piece of advice not to get carried away with the amount of power you have over this relationship because you wouldn't want to ruin such wonderful gifts the two of you have.

in other words, try not to be a *squasher* (and i say this to you with love , so don't take this the wrong way) when it comes to his personal emotions, feelings, and thoughts. mr. saggitarus has tender feelings for a lady, not a bully keep this in your pocket and remind yourself from time to time.

you both have things to teach and learn from each other. my feeling is that his *feelings* will be an important issue. from his perspective, your behaviors of constant change, intense obsessions, the ways you express your earthy sense of love, and your ideas of healing rock his emotional sensabilities. my feeling is that he's thinking about whether or not he wants to deal with these emotions with you, or leave the door shut. he keenly knows that if he were to pursue a more permanent relationship with you, there are going to be demons to be dealt with. this saggitarian sees the big picture.

on the surface, he's a happy, go-lucky, sparkly personality. on the inside, he has intense feelings and emotions that are expressed *positively*. the only serious issues he's working on in this life are his sun and moon squares to pluto and uranus, and his tendencies for excess. not a bad life he's got eh? he doesn't even have retrograde planets, or opposition aspects.

right now, he has uranus transiting this 5th house of romance squaring his natal moon. this aspect is not necesarily a sign that someone would want to immediately settle down and deal with karmic issues in a relationship if he has personal emotions he needs to work with too.

love and best wishes,

posted May 22, 2002 05:35 PM         

Your post is very interesting. By the way - don't worry about offending me. These days, I realize there are lessons to be learned in any comment! I really am trying to evolve into a softer version of me.

You are correct that he is very sensitive and introspective. I have tried to keep things light and fun with him, but you are right that I can be intense! I wasn't sure he had picked up on that - but it sounds like maybe he has? By "squashing," do you mean I shouldn't try and tell him how he's feeling rather than let him express it?

I find it interesting that 1/ he wants to stay in touch, be friends and wants to go to dinner fairly soon and 2/ that I've agreed to this idea! Normally, I would sever any ties at this point, but I am trying to listen to my intuition these days and it's telling me to hang in there - that this other person he's involved with is only temporary.

What do you mean by my "power" in the relationship? I'm not feeling oh so powerful at present. Still, I'm trying very hard not to be controlling and to go with the flow - so I'm curious what you meant.

Expand if you can and have time please!

Thanks for the info -

posted May 22, 2002 05:43 PM         

i used the term *squasher* mostly because your saturn squares his moon, and your pluto and uranus trine his venus, mercury and mars. also, he has numerous squares with his saggitarius moon to your outer planets in a synastry. make sense?

power can be interpreted in many ways. staying power, strength of will, impersonal behaviors were the meanings that i meant, which are associated with your outer planets (symbolically stronger in strength) aspecting this inner personal planets.

cheers,

posted May 22, 2002 06:05 PM         

I am trying to be careful about that. Whenever I say my affirmations, or do my lexi's, I always add the words or thought "by the free-WILL of all involved."

I find it interesting that he is coming out as the more sensitive and sensible one. He seems to be much more of a free spirit than me??

Well, now I'm even more curious about our past life connection!

Thanks Aphrodite. Thank you too Auriel for your kind words. I am going to hang in here with him as long as it "feels" right.

posted May 22, 2002 06:31 PM         

i meant things on karmic terms . . . personality would be a different story (and stray off topic). because someone can be a mild and "even-tempered" person, yet the karmic story would be different. the energies would say something else.

for example, when i look at someone's aura and feel their energy, i noticed vibes. like a person's personality can be tough, thick skinned, domineering, and aggressive, yet upon further LOOK, using my higher faculties, i see i different picture, a different vibe. in this particular case of a person i know, i saw illness, and insecurity. which is a weaker and more fragmented energy.

hope this makes some sense.

love,

posted May 23, 2002 09:45 AM         

I'm envious that you have tapped your higher abilities. I am just beginning . . .

posted May 23, 2002 10:45 AM         

thank you for asking questions, i appreciate your feedback.

i wanted to add this one more example of karmic energies.

say in a chart, a woman has aspects that indicates that she is a very sweet and loving person, and she sends out those happy vibes. and then there's a gentleman who has aspects that indicate he's a gentle, and loving person also who sends out happy vibes too. when these energies intermix, sometimes there is discord/friction. now because there is discord doesn't necessarily mean one person is a meaner or more dominant personality than the other. some of the energies in the mix don't harmonize for some reason, or another, and it up to these two people to figure out why the energies and approaching views they have toward each other are not harmonizing---there needs to be balance.

hope this helps further clear up the air.

posted May 23, 2002 11:13 AM         

What you are saying does make sense to me. I don't much about Twin Souls or if that's what my Sag might be, but with this guy I do know that I recognized him even though we had never met, and that we are very drawn to each other on a level that is much deeper than mere attraction/chemistry. So, the thought that we have karmic lessons to learn from each other makes sense to me.

This morning, the thought hit me that even though I may have lost the battle I have not lost the war. All signs and my intuition have indicated to me that this Sag and I are destined to have an enduring, deep relationship. I'm not sure if you saw that in the chart, but you've definitely given me some insight as to how ourenergies might interplay and how I should be careful with those energies. I am trying to relax and go with the flow and trust that the Uni-Verse will bring what is best for me.

I'm so intrigued by how the planets affect us and synastry and past connections. I wish I understood it as well as some of the people here!

posted May 23, 2002 01:15 PM         

love and laughs,

aphrodite

posted May 29, 2002 07:01 PM         

I'm still on your list, right? I'm very curious about these past life connections - especially in light of Aphrodite's posts (very helpful ). I know I struggle with patience - acceptance - surrendering. I'm trying. Ra's been helpful too with my "Dream Recall" thread. I've been getting lots of "signs" recently from the Uni-Verse that I need to hang in there with the Sag. I'm still learning and evolving, but I feel much calmer about all of this than I would have a few months ago. This site is wonderful!!!

Hope your wrist is feeling better.

posted May 29, 2002 09:51 PM         

The only thing I'd add is that your last life together had quite a few challenging moments. It wasn't a romantic relationship, but probably one of teacher/student in some capacity--maybe coach/athlete or something along those lines.

Saturn is about to ease off your Chiron, but Pluto is still squaring it. Use that harsh energy to lOOk within and try and reMEMBER. It'll help you tremendously in understanding yourS-ELF and any relationship if you do.