posted October 02, 2002 12:27 AM         

i'm glad that the uranus explanations helped you out. i'll take a look at your fiance's chart when i have some more time later this week. it really says a lot when someone like you is taking the time look deep within a relationship and find ways to make what already exists work, and develop plans for tangible possibilities.

best wishes.

posted October 07, 2002 11:00 PM         

i wanted to let you know that i haven't forgotten about your requests and will get back to you soon.

thank you for your magnificent patience

best,

posted October 09, 2002 12:02 PM         

As a fellow Leo woman (with a huge stellium in Virgo in my 3rd house - talk about looking for perfection lol) I have to say I decided to date all the signs and then I realized it didnt really matter. I had a sweet relationship with a Pisces myself, it so depends on all the other planets and aspects, and where we are at in our spiritual growth, not just the sun signs. And Pisces can be a wonderful match for a Leo! Astrology helps us to see the problems and understand the person and why our relationship is or isnt working, so I hope now with all these wonderful insights you have resolved a lot and see the true beauty of your Pisces man! I love LoveSigns tho even though it is just sunsign based Linda still captured the wonder and potential downfalls of all the possible sun sign relationships.

Anyhow I decided to meet people and not ask their sign until I decided how I felt. Hard for me because I love astrology but I was prejudging and wanted to know the person.

I met this wonderful guy, and finally asked, and he is a Sag, he could have been a Pisces, a Virgo or a Frog! I wouldnt have cared by then. Interestingly it was the last sign I hadnt dated (even tho I let go of that old plan) and we are incredibly compatible astrologically, Virgo moon Taurus Moon Cancer Venus Scorpio Venus and it is reflected in real life.

Anyhow look to yourselves and the charts and hope you find the love that is clearly there already I find the Men are from Mars women are from Venus books help me a LOT and its not even astrology! Good Luck!

posted October 11, 2002 12:19 AM         

Just wanted to chime in and say that I loved what you said here:

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Anyhow I decided to meet people and not ask their sign until I decided how I felt. Hard for me because I love astrology but I was prejudging and wanted to know the person.

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Really says alot because sometimes I get in the pattern of doing that. I try not to do it ... and it's hard!

posted October 12, 2002 04:34 PM         

is your fiance very introverted? i would imagine that for these past few years, he has really kept to himself. all these thoughts, emotions, feelings, etc. this is because he has several outer, karmic planets making squares and oppositions to his personal planets of self-expression. with his cancer moon in the first house, the reticence if even more evident.

transiting saturn is making a square to his fourth house pluto . . . so unconsciously, or subconsciously, he is probably thinking about a lot of things going on at home and perhaps feeling a little sorry, or guilty that things are not going so well. if he takes advantage of these introspections, he has the power to make positive changes . . . because it is when we clearly see and feel things that we are more able to pin point what exactly we can do. i think he sees what happening, but has decided to evade them than to face the issues. a very common piscean theme unfortunately.

another factor adding to the restriction of self-expression is transiting saturn making an opposition to his 6th house mars. his natal mars in saggitarius makes a square to his fourth house pluto, again a theme on the homefront. a common mars-pluto square energy is aggression kept under wraps, but clearly there when sparked. with saturn making a square to this natal aspect, the energy may be constrained, or he feels that he may be punished if he pushes this square's energy too far.

my feeling is that he clearly knows what is happening at home, how your heart is hurting, and defintely knows the effects of his own neglect on his family. but i just don't feel him wanting to expend the energy available to him from the universe right now to take a step forward. with transiting neptune conjunct his 8th house venus right now, he may even be living in an illusion in order to escape the realities within the intimate sphere.

nonetheless, transiting uranus is conjuncting this north node in the 8th house, so there may well be a drastic change that takes him by surprise in the intimate sphere. a sort of shock, and immense surprise. with this happening in the 8th house, it may happen within the two of you, his immediate family, or an eruption within himself that will force a change that he will not have control over because Uranus is the planet of the unexpected.

another sense i have about your fiance is that, he feels these needs for change. he *knows*, but he thinks he is not ready. i sense fear, which is odd when one knows what is happening. regardless, he knows something from the universe will make the change regardless if he willfully believes he is not ready.

posted October 12, 2002 04:50 PM         

in the synastry chart between you and your fiance, there are indications that there will be times of emotional alienation. this is shown by your saturn making an opposition to his pisces sun and mercury. he will probably feel more restricted in communication and self-expression, and possibly a sense of unspoken criticism from you. i suspect that for every careless and thoughtless action he commits, he senses your criticism, and you will probably make it known verbally with your leo stellium.

i think the most interesting thing about your charts together is that the mars square pluto aspect he has in his chart hits sensitive points in your chart. his pluto conjuncts your ascendant, and squares your IC, 4th house, and his mars conjuncts your 4th house. with both of your moons in cancers, and all these 4th and 8th house themes going on, there must really be something about family, nurturing and caring the two of you must learn about in this life when you are together.

your cancer moon trines his sun and mercury, so there is emotional understanding, but a problem with communication due to saturn described in the first paragraph.

your mercury trine his jupiter and neptune, so there is a sense of unspoken communication and fun you two can have.

your sun, venus, and jupiter trine his mars that sits in your IC in your fourth house, indicating that HOME issues are very active in your relationship.

his sun and mercury square your neptune, so be extremely careful with illusions and evasions when it comes to communicating with each other. it would be suggested to be clear with all things communicated.