posted October 24, 2002 11:54 AM         

I am a Virgo male who has been really loving chatting with a Sagittarius female right here at this site. So you might review this thread, she comments on her experience with Virgo men, and I bet she will chat with you if she gets a chance...

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/000419.html

and welcome darling! I hope you have lotsa fun at this site

posted October 27, 2002 11:30 AM         

Thanks for the compliment (I am sooo blushing right now)!!!

Monisag,

It is a bit hard to tell how well you will get along. I would recommend that you look at your whole chart (you will need your birthtime and location), to see your aspects. I really love Linda Goodmans Relationship signs. It will go over the aspects. Remember one thing that is said here so often: Anyone can get along and make things work if you are willing.

Archer girls like us have to be a bit more sensitive when it comes to Virgo men. Our sharp comments can really wound them, not that they are babies, in fact, they analyze everything. So that flip comment can really antagonize them and may come out in an argument months later. So think before you speak when dealing with a Virgo (I know from experience).

Carlo has offered wise advice in the thread that he listed above. A Sag, even though we are outgoing, independent and fun loving, we are emotional creatures and we don't handle rejection well. We may smile and say it's okay, but inside we do hurt (Linda Goodman was so right about that). The Virgo male likes to take care and protect those he loves and admires. He will treat you like a princess, but he will also point out what little changes you can make. It's not that he is being mean, he just wants to help you be the best that you can be.

If you are an evolved Sag, I would recommend a Virgo male, especially if he has some fire and air in his chart or if you have a far amount of Earth in your chart.

A Virgo man will be your intellectual equal, if not Superior. He knows so much and loves to teach. I am surrounded by Virgo men. We do butt heads, but they are a good lot of people. A Sag woman can bring a love of life to a Virgo man that he has never experienced before. It isn't a perfect union, but it can really work. One thing though, your Virgo man may not want to be a world traveler or want to party on the weekends. Just like any relationship, make sure He is what you want and just be who you are!!!

posted November 04, 2002 11:32 PM         

have you gotten the answers you needed? sounds like carlos and pidaua were wonderful with you

posted November 05, 2002 12:47 PM         

yes Carlo and Pidua were wonderful they gave me alot of food for thought; and reading lovesigns also helped. I think Linda really liked sag/virgo relationships because of the way she wrote about them compared to other relationships or maybe I'm just biased hehe. If you could though could you take a look at our charts? I feel my relationship is changing and want to know if it's for the best. I would be ever so grateful.here is our info
me female
december 2 1979
9:55 am h
houston, texas

him
september 12 1978
around 6:00 am
lima, peru

posted November 11, 2002 02:13 AM         

i will get back to you tomorrow.

posted November 19, 2002 10:53 AM         

"I feel my relationship is changing and want to know if it's for the best."

when a relationship changes, it usually means the people are growing and changing too. what i can do is to look at several charts and see what is brewing. which translates to looking at yours, his, and the synastry. depending on how long your relationship has been going, i may also look at the composite.

it would be good if you would provide more details so i know what i am focusing on.

best.

posted November 20, 2002 10:58 AM         

in your natal chart, this sentence rang through my head:

"i'll tell you the world, but i won't tell you my heart."

don't know if that means anything. might be the algae i had for breakfast, hehe

actually, it has a basis. but i wanted to run that by you first.

as for the changes in you . . . you had just experienced the effects of the transiting saturn-pluto opposition. since it affected your 8th and 11th house, i suspect a lot of your mind sets went through a major re-vamp. i doubt you are the same person you knew 2 years ago. you had experienced saturn squaring your mars ego in the 8th, probably wasn't pretty to experience.

fluctuations of feelings and mental clarity will be a common occurance with you---although you keep this on the inside from people. you moon in the 4th house opposes uranus and mercury. despite the fluctuations, i can see that you are capable of giving deep love and affection.

best.

posted November 20, 2002 07:56 PM         

And here I was thinking that i was just going insane I have been going through some different mind sets lately maybe I have been a little moody too. hmm and no sentance can ring more true

"i'll tell you the world, but i won't tell you my heart."

I do have the awful habit of not always telling exactly what i feel maybe a fear of rejection I don't know. About my relationship with my virgo I don't know where exactly it's heading towards; but i do feel a very strong connection/bond with him even though we haven't been together for very long 5 months. ok well thanx so much for your imput I felt like I had an eternal case of pms hehe but I'm still nice