posted January 16, 2003 11:23 AM         

Ruby is a Tasmanian Devil!

okay, all done I love that coat in your pic too Ruby, it's neat

posted January 17, 2003 12:31 PM         

well isn't that...quaint

{{{pushes horns back in and rustles hair so no one notices}}}

posted February 07, 2003 06:06 AM           

This guy needs a favour and he needs you to do it for him. In the long run, he will thank you. He shouldnt have to suffer because of your fear of leaving him. Make sense?? That's my opinion anyways

posted February 21, 2003 11:13 PM         

love seems to be an illusion in this plane. you're in "love" one year, out the next. out with the old, in with the new. And so the cycle continues. who needs it when it most always ends in bitterness and heartbreak? better to go it alone than continue on with false promises to the next "don juan" entering your life, whomever that might be. i've been alone for quite sometime now and while it is not the most fun thing on earth, it sure as hell beats hurting and getting hurt -- the only certain result of any love affair. either that or death. whichever comes first. it's basically a lose-lose situation.

just some advice from a pisces who's been burned by a taurus and NEVER plans to repeat the experience with any sign under the sun.

posted May 16, 2003 12:54 PM         

he's really so well behaved- before i was constantly discontented, i would cry, not all the time, but regularly, as if on schedual, and i just found living with him insufferable... and now, we get along really well, we dont seem to be upsetting each other anymore

maybe an unsetting transit has passed along, because things are much better.

however, i still feel the need to be apart from him in the future, and i've come to two decisions:

one, i plan on going away to school without him. this may seem like a given to most, but we have always assumed he would come with me and have an apartment somewhere near the school.

two, i've more recently decided im going to tell the aquarian how i feel about him. i decided this because i've kept this whole aspect of myself so tightly under wraps that it's making me feel very negative. i told a friend from work about my whole situation, and tho i thought she would yell at me for not -DOING ANYTHING- about it, she was very understanding. it is hard being the relationship ideal "you guys are the perfect couple" for all our friends (it is almost as if we give them all hope of finding the perfect someone), as well as hiding my affection for the aqua. it felt amazing to hear myself SAY IT all aloud and i realized im ready to stop clutching this secret for fear of repercussions.

i dont know what i expect to happen, or what i hope will come of it, or what i'm trying to accomplish, but ive decided its a good idea- i told him that the next time i see him in person i need to talk to him about things, and hopefully this piqued his water-bearer curiousity and he'll make it difficult for me to back out.

posted May 16, 2003 05:12 PM         

I have had the same problem with a particular Gemini. It's hard to hurt someone especially if they haven't done anything "deserving" of the pain.

It just seems that sometimes two people grow apart and neither are to blame.

The best thing "I" can tell you to do is talk with him and tell him the way you're feeling. If you're like I am, I tend to have the habit of playing the situation down a bit... smoothing it over so that it ends up not appearing as bad to the person as it really is.

Or if that doesn't work and you really get fed up... just avoid him. Sorry, that's pretty mean I guess... but it has worked wonders for me in desperate situations.

posted May 21, 2003 04:30 PM         

My husband (Libra on the cusp of Scorpio, with Mercury in Scorpio) and I took a year off from each other and although it was hard to understand, our relationship was better than ever.

With a Scorpio, he will threaten to kill himself and all sorts of other things. Mine did this. He and I are the best of friends and care for each other deeply at this time. In no way is he bitter at all, and I have learned to let go. Taurus holds grudges and you are not sure if he is the One but you hold on anyway because you are forced to by your standards and values. Your values have nothing to do with this, Love and Respect have nothing to do with any threats like that. Crying is okay, he can cry alone though. You can tell him you are angry but be honest with yourself and move on. Don't be upset just move on.

He will find someone else, another girl who does not get so involved, who can see him objectively and who is not so compassionate.

What you feel is not passion, and not love. It's okay to feel respect and compassion for someone, it's not a weakness. At this time he needs something else.

I have been there and you cannot talk to him about every little thing you are thinking, start making your own decisions about small things.

You tell him about this board don't you? And he knows everything about you and what you feel, that's great. But there are other people to talk to who are more objective about your situation.

Tell him you need time to learn how to be objective about your feelings otherwise no one wins. Ask him if he trusts and respects you, and ask for time alone. Trust yourself too, you can control yourself around the Aquarian.

My birthday just passed and I spend several hours alone. Reading, Journaling, Enjoying old letters.

A famous Taurus wrote a Woman needs a Room of her Own. In other words you need to be alone to sort out your feelings in a big way. Your Scorpio trusts you deep down or he wouldn't have loved you. Trust yourself and be strong, you are making the right decisions for both of you, stick to them.

You need a self identity too.

Carl Jung
"There are two kinds of women in the world, those who find power in the world, and those who find power in a man's bed."

Take Care,
Natasha

posted June 05, 2003 10:29 PM         

the hardest thing is that he's so difficult to talk to... which i assume is equally my fault as it is his...