Posts: 121
From: quebec,canada
Registered: Dec 2002

posted January 22, 2003 10:23 PM         

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I'm a very 'expressive' person I've been told...if I don't like someone I send out waves without knowing and everyoone knows it even if I do my best to be normal and civil.An unfortunately the opposite is also true...so even my children are aware of my problem.My son finds it hilarious and dares me to avoid the problem when I could just be a man about it.He's nuts!My daughters ...well,one goes 'yurk! and the other one thinks I'm being unfaithful to her father.THey're 18,22 and 21 respectively.So....I think the guy has a clue.Long story short ....no more flirting ,innuendos or personal subjects are broached.Hate being mature!Really sucks.We rarely meet but when we do ..in the driveway,at the university or just when we're shoveling snow....and tihs is in winter...we can talk for an hour and a half...just talking and laughing.THis is if I can't avoid him!Hey if someone keeps putting a box of chocolates in myface I'm going to stop saying 'no thanks!' sometime!!

What was the point of this post??.....oh,yeah!

BISSIE if I could...I'd make him forget his name,his age,my age,my name and everything else within two miles or two weeks of our existence.
Unfortunately I have a funny feeling that I'm out of my league.I,ve always had the upper hand in the backtalk department? and he has effectively left me speechless so often that it's unbelievable.I never have nothing to say! Ever! It would not surprise me that I would be left speechlesss in other areas(Lordy !I hope so!!)Don't you think four years of this is enough??I swear someday I'll just reach out and touch soemeone!!!

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From: Oklahoma, USA
Registered: Jan 2003

posted January 22, 2003 10:43 PM         

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I think you NEED to.....go on, reach out...
~bktwist~

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From: quebec,canada
Registered: Dec 2002

posted January 22, 2003 10:57 PM         

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Everything is so...possible in theory!You know in fantasy you have nothing interrupting or guilt tripping you to death....oh and you're usually twenty pounds lighter,taller,blonder etc.etc.etc.
Fantasy world is very nice but .....touching would probably traumatize him and humiliate me.ALthough one New Years he crossed over to wish us a Happy New Years adn... I shook his hand.WHen he left...I went into the living room and banged my head on th wall till I could not see any more.I now profoundly regret not taking the opportunity taht was given me....my husband has been kissed and I mean over-the-arm-back-almost-touching-the-floor by many of my fifty year old friends and aunts...now I know why!Once a year you get to touch!!When I think of the look on his face...all I can think is stupid,stupid,stupid!
What has this to do with astrology?Maybe someone can tell me if I have an aspect that says likes to kick herself in the *** for no particular reason and avoid any semblance of happiness.

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From: Hotlanta
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posted January 23, 2003 03:25 AM         

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Brunn,
his Moon is 0 degree conjunction with your Sun. Usually in case like that, the Moon person feels subordinate and somewhat like in the shadow of the Sun person, ready to "serve" the needs of the Sun.... LOL
then your Pluto is at 0'03 degree conjunction to his Sun. oh ouch!! watch that one - fire 2 miles all around you,a very intense exchange of vibes...- no wonder you avoid touching him, it may burn your hand...and his....aaa connection so intense- not for the timid!!
his Saturn quares your Sun - he feels inferior to you and drawn to you but cover it well with an ice glaze.
Your Jupiter squares his Sun a 0 degree - you may want to spoil him rotten if he ever falls in your hands....
I do not want to mislead you but from what I see - you certainly draw his interest....and you know how to make him laugh
also his Venus is in your 8th house, while your Venus is in his 5th house....while you look at him and all you want is to drag him in your bed - he most likely perceive you in a more romantic light...

transiting Jupiter is trinning your natal Venus back and forth 3 times this year....love feelings are filling your soul from top to the bottom

your progressed Sun is now in your 5th house - you will have a very romantic disposition for a couple of years ahead . Also your progressed Sun is about to change the sign - from Aries to Taurus...expect huge change around you and concerning you this and next year

going to sleep now...
until later

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From: quebec,canada
Registered: Dec 2002

posted January 23, 2003 07:54 AM         

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I just woke up and usually my brain wakes up around 11....didn't even need a coffee....I'M wide awake now!!!!Thank you Bissie you and everyone else here is a sweetheart!
Don't worry if ever anything of significance wver happens I will let you guys know...doubtful but I would keep you postedLOL
Thanks again Bissie!

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From: auburn, maine, u.s.a.
Registered: Jan 2002

posted February 02, 2003 08:57 PM         

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i have been married since 12/2/89 to a man
6 years and 4 months younger than me.
my dob his
5/12/61 taurus11 9/1/67 virgo 7
asc: cancer capricorn
moon: aires 11 leo 7
merc: gemini 11/12virgo 7
venus:aires 10 venus virgo 7
mars: leo 2 scorpio 9/10
jupiter aquar. 8 leo 7
saturn cap. 7/8 aries 3
uranus leo 3 virgo 8
nept:scorpio 5 scorpio 9
pluto virgo 3 virgo 8
true no. virgo 3 aries 3
mid. pisces 10 scorpio 9
imum coeli virgo4 taurus 4
we have been very happy and seem to hold the
feeling of deep love more and more all the time. he still doesn't leave me alone, he adores me. he drives me crazy sometimes with his perfectionist ways thinking he is never wrong. he says he is still very attracted to me and im going to be 42 in may.
i keep my self trim and exercise. i never realized until lately that i am heading in my no. node virgo direction. when i learned about the no node and realized its just how i am turning out in my old age. i think we definitely were mean't to meet and be together. is there anything anyone can see that makes such a strong bond between us. there is no age difference that we feel, we feel we are the same. we have had problems with his binge drinking but nothing can ever tear us apart. Karma???
goldielox

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From: los angeles, ca. usa
Registered: Mar 2003

posted March 23, 2003 02:10 PM         

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hello. i am a newbie here, and currently enthralled with a gentleman 20 years my junior. it appears mutual, and is very exciting to both of us. feeling that divine machinations are in order here, because i wished for what i have right now. what i would like is to know how we impact each other astrologically. he is 12/7/82, i am 5/19/62. i don't yet know the time of his birth, but will come back with that information. i was born at 4:20pm, in the city of los angeles, as was he.

i thank in advance anyone who will help me with my quest for further knowledge.

namaste!

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From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000

posted March 23, 2003 02:22 PM         

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Welcome to the site!

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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark

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From: quebec,canada
Registered: Dec 2002

posted March 23, 2003 06:07 PM         

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Isn't spring wonderful?Just love all that energy!
Okay enough small talk....I'm by no means what you would consider an expert but it would seem that there are quite a few indications of 'attraction'. Your sun and Uranus are trine his Venus,Mercury'Neptune (stellium).Sun is opposite his Pluto,your Moon conjuct his Pluto.

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From: quebec,canada
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posted March 23, 2003 06:15 PM         

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WHoops! etc,etc. Saturn is opposite your sun and conjuct your Moon..don't know if that is good or bad.His Mars is square your sun and Mars.And your Venus is trine his Moon. Usually I'v read that the more contacts between the personal planets the better. CHiron is conjuct Venus....that I'm not sure of but if I remember it's karmic?

If I'm off here please someone help out.I wouldn't want to give wrong interpretations.

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From: Columbus, GA USA
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posted March 24, 2003 08:54 AM         

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Gotta Love Spring!

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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark

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From: los angeles, ca. usa
Registered: Mar 2003

posted April 05, 2003 11:22 PM         

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have been away for a few days, and thank you for the warm welcome, randall. because i am not well-versed in the inner workings of astrology, some of what you said is going over my head. this is what i know: when we first met, long before this, i thought he was a silly kid. then when i got to know him, i felt a kinship, then the force that drove me toward him, he says it was the same for him. this is so fantastic for both of us, but he seems afraid sometimes, because the gap is so large. i am taking things day by day, but my curiosity is giving me the blues, what is really going on here? appreciate what you've given me so far, and anything else you get, please let me know. my email is octaviasmama@yahoo.com, feel free, any and all of you who can help, to drop me a line there.

am reading gooberz now, and stole time away to come and see.

thank you, thank you, thank you!
Lola

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From: quebec,canada
Registered: Dec 2002

posted April 06, 2003 06:55 PM         

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Like the names...Lola and Octavia!<

Spring isn,t it a *****!!
Taking it slow seems to be a great idea....besides the trip is usually more fun than the destination...sometimes...
I'll try to check the transits and progressions when I can! Studying for an exam and just took a break.All I can say is enjoy while it lasts...both of you!

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posted April 07, 2003 12:50 AM         

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I think its difficult to be the older woman with this much age difference. Your knowledge and experience are going to be hard to hide. And, they are going to bump up against his manhood. He needs this manhood to feel like he is leading. He is always going to feel like he is following, unless you can do a very good job of being submissive.

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