posted June 02, 2003 12:52 PM         

me: October 29, 1974
10:47 am
Opelousas, La. U.S.

posted June 04, 2003 10:04 AM         

thanks for contributing such valuable and wise posts. welcome to the website.

i would like to look at your charts this weekend and get back to you.

cheers,

posted June 04, 2003 12:58 PM         

Have patience, this too shell will pass. If you email me, I'll be happy to do a reaqding for you.

LLLOG@yahoo.com

posted June 09, 2003 02:51 PM         

you both are quite similar, as you both share capricorn ascendants and aries moons! how fantastic is that? you both will probably have similar ideas on many subjects, this is a good base to start from.

he is attracted to you. most of his personal planets are in your 1st house, with venus conjuncting the ascendant. there is probably lots of empathy and quiet understanding between the both of you.

for the possibilities of a relationship, the key notes i have already listed above. there will be a psychic understanding between you, and very profound and deep transformations should this become a solid relationship. a few things to be weary of are the impulsiveness of the aries moons. communications will not always be easy, there may be a undercurrent of uncertainty and eccentricity that may bother you both---as both scorpio and capricorn need reliability and stability.

the marked distance you notice is that your saturn in cancer in the 7th house of relationships makes an opposition aspect to his sun and jupiter in capricorn. this can make the relationship rather cool, with you being the more dominant of the two. he could feel smothered, restricted, and less apt to be fully self-expressed with this aspect in the synastry.

best wishes

posted June 10, 2003 01:32 AM         

IMHO it might be in your best interests to not date this wounded guy -- chances are, you would be his therapy for the ex, and it would be a transitional relationship due to that circumstance. I mention this because a Scorp buddy has been in that position once or twice, and she couldn't stand that she hung in there to help, and then the fellow didn't stay -- perhaps it's wrong to have such expectations, but often we do!

Or, on a similar note, based on the same reasoning, if you do date him, be sure that the relationship is one that you can truly live with, and that you are not considering taking him on as a guy "going through a phase" with some idea that one day he will snap out of it and devote himself totally to your needs. Compromising before the start by setting a self-sacrificing tone and making your own needs invisible is very hard to change later on. So maybe that "serious" relationship he's not ready for right now, is worth waiting for... with him, or someone else.

I think you might study both charts to determine the state of your respective Saturn Returns... looks like he just went through his, and you're so close in age that yours is probably happening too. Your 7th (Marriage) House (thanks Aphrodite!) would be involved, showing opportunties for relationships yet creating delays that require some kind of self-discipline. I haven't looked at your chart to know for sure, but this might mean that either you discipline yourself to wait for this guy to be really ready, or, you discipline yourself to face facts and get out there and date other people -- you might learn something new, have some fun, and will have wasted no time if the Cappy ever comes around. Ask yourself: which of those 2 behaviours have I used before, that didn't work -- then consider doing the opposite.

Check out: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/001171.html for more info about Saturn Returns.

posted June 10, 2003 08:42 AM         

I am a double Cap and would have said the exact same thing as Lanny. We do not take rejection well at all.

posted August 04, 2003 12:23 AM         

Caps are big on being private if you embarass him in anyway....
If you go after him, your work will always come second.