posted June 19, 2003 12:55 PM         

Can you believe I was going to write Geminis off?! I knew something wasn't quite right. I kept fighting it for all this time ... then Bam! It happened... I was still trying to fight it. Then it just sat in all at once.

posted June 19, 2003 02:42 PM         

If you have no planets in any given house, you still have a sign ruling it.
Leo, if you have Taurus rising, you're 8th house could very well be ruled by Sagittarius, or even possibly, Capricorn. What's on the cusp of your eight house? What planet rules that sign? Where is that planet in your chart? That planet still talks to that house, just from a remote location. It's like you're studying the subjects of that house by correspondence. You have to fend for yourself, but you can contact a teacher if you need to. They just wont' be in the same room as you. The teacher you contact for that subject (house) is determined by who the room moniter is ( house sign), and which teacher they're accountable to (ruling planet)
Something like that. So, if you have Sag on the cusp of your 8th house, and Jupiter is in Virgo, over in your 5th house or so, you may experience 8th house stuff mixed in with 5th house stuff, and you'll approach these things with Sag/Virgo type attitude. (Conflicting styles in this example.)

Then again, I may just be blowing smoke up your wazzoo.

posted June 19, 2003 08:46 PM         

Just a few things that say we have been well selected for each other

and

There's an attraction at first sight..

posted June 22, 2003 12:54 PM         

If you don't want to put the dob's & times on here, I could give you my email address.

(but I won't post it until you're online at the same time, then I'll take it out as soon as you say "got it!")

Let me know if this sounds like a plan. ok? ok.

posted June 23, 2003 02:30 AM         

Randall, my longest relationship (5 years), and the most enduring, was with a capricorn. I try not to regret many things, but splitting with him was definitely a mistake. Guess life would have been too easy! He never had to flirt because he had me at first glance, but was he charming!

I'm still waiting for my scorpio to show up, so I can finally feel like someone understands me.

My two best girlfriends are scorpio and capricorn. How surprising, i'm scorp sun w/ cappie rising! The cappie's husband is an aries and he gives the most wonderful advice and treats her like a princess. I'm the only one of her friends (my moon is in aries) that he gets along with. He even calls me to chat and for me to give him advice when they're experiencing difficulties.

Geminis are interesting, especially if you need someone to make you laugh. Sexually, you can't ask for better! That goes for leo, too. No complaints there!

Yours truly,
Moon

posted June 23, 2003 08:59 AM         

I'm sloooow, what can I say!

Moon: You know about them gems I've never really known any capricorns... talked to one once. He was charming. That was years ago.

Lion: give me ya e-mail!

Oops... didn't mean to do you last.. forgive me.

posted June 23, 2003 08:52 PM         

My sister-in-law is also a cancer and she is just evil! She's got 2 kids. I can't say anything else about her other than she doesn't deserve my time that I would spend writing about her.

Another cancer that I work with has a mother he adores and had a great childhood. He is the biggest backstabber! I made the mistake of sharing something personal with him and he threw it in my face in front of everyone. I find the cancers to be somewhat self-centered, at least the ones I know.

I'm a pretty laid back person who's very easy to get along with, and you would think it wouldn't be that difficult with fellow water signs. Go figure?!

posted June 23, 2003 09:07 PM         

Yup, you may have nailed there, sister.

Why on earth did you marry/have a kid(s) with this man if he's such an as$?

posted June 24, 2003 04:21 AM         

I've studied astrology since I was a teenager and always read that cancer was compatible with scorpio. Have you ever read the section on cancer/scorp in "Love Signs?" It's really beautiful, I was fooled with the illusion that I met my soul mate, by both the books and him. He didn't become a jerk until after we were married. He's probably the one person in my life that I couldn't see through. I can usually spot an AS$ from a good distance. What can I say? Life throws you for a loop every now and then because we have karmic debts to pay and very important life lessons to learn. I had to learn the meaning of pain and forgiveness.

Yes, I have forgiven him because now i'm a totally different person. I am now content with myself and being alone. I will never take love for granted and I value the meaning of life with so much intensity, because once you've been to the lowest, darkest part of existence, the sky is beautiful. The moon, stars, sun and the light of each day is a wonderful thing to live for now.

If it weren't for him I wouldn't know myself like I do now. I wouldn't know what it's like to feel the pain of betrayal. Once you know, you will never inflict it on another.
Ironically enough, I think I've overcome one of scorpio's challenges: jealousy. It's a waste of precious energy. A person is going to do whatever they're destined to do regardless of how jealous you are, so don't bother! Nothing is guaranteed, you can only take the risk and hope for the best. Trust yourself and you will trust others.

I wouldn't know how strong and self sufficient a woman can be. I didn't think twice about leaving him, even though I had an 8 week old baby and a 2 1/2 year old. Now I know, thanks to fate, and the blindness of love.

posted June 24, 2003 09:23 AM         

It's like they don't even exist. They know when they're messing over someone just the same as a scorpio does.

One thing that I can honestly say that I've had a problem with the virgos is talking behind my back

posted June 24, 2003 12:45 PM         

As for Cancer Moons... well, I tried patching things up with my Lioness after she contacted me and I just can't handle it!

She's a beautiful person but these moods, combined w/ an overbearing false pride, ruin her wonderful character...
She plays all these little emotional/mental games... it seems less-than sophisticated, and juvenile.
And the Leo braggart in this woman was so In-Your-Face and overbearing, it made her disgusting... she still has lessons to learn I think

Sometimes I think Leo women are worse braggerts and have WAY more false pride (insecurity) than the Leo men...

I tried to be considerate, understand her character, and work with her... but I can't handle games forever... I mean this is the beginning, sh*t's not supposed to be so difficult already!

posted June 24, 2003 01:26 PM         

She sounds like a less developed Leo character.

Cancer moon can exaggerate insecurities too, and we all know what insecurities can do to human behavior, don't we.

And Moondust, I applaud you! Look at you taking that grain of sand that was irritating your soft tissue, and turning it into your own pearl! The Scorpionic transformation in it's highest form. It's a beautiful thing, aint it?

posted June 24, 2003 02:06 PM         

I actually pondered it for quite awhile before acting on my thoughts... but it was for the better... she needs to grow up emotionally & mentally... I just feel bad for her, she's surrounded herself in life with weak, immature, screw-up type people that are all dependent on her... I guess those are her "kids" to nurture and protect.