posted March 04, 2004 02:56 AM         

seriously though, i agree with all the sensible people especially motherkonfessor - whether you (ineedlove) are 9 or 90, grow up! you know - i dont like telling people to grow up as i think we should all stay child-like, but this is bullsh*tting ridiculous. you seem to acknowledge that the whole situation is wrong, so why do you need 'advice' or confirmation? you also seem to get off by making him feel stupid. does he cater to your ego? damb!

posted March 04, 2004 11:02 AM         

You've been warned.

posted March 04, 2004 12:27 PM         

I and several others have said on many different threads that this guy is at the very least a total jerk undeserving of this young womans affection.

I'm now becoming extremely frustrated. Ineedlove you have repeatedly asked us for advice about this guy - and you are just ignoring it!!
If you dont want advice dont ask for it.

Or maybe I should learn not to GIVE advice. That Cancer Moon makes me want to be mother all the time.

posted March 04, 2004 02:00 PM         

Try not to feel that way. The Board was asked what we thought and we all gave our opinions/advice. Lessons are never lost sometimes they are just ignored. But someone else may see these posts and think...¡¦That is what is happening to me right now¡KI should do¡K¡¦

Don¡¦t regret giving a gift from your heart. You are blessed that you have that you have a gift to give...

posted March 04, 2004 02:08 PM         

This is the last time I'm asking. I can't help you or support you if I don't know where your coming from. thx

posted March 04, 2004 02:29 PM         

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whenever i remember he said that i dont like him....I wish a new man would come along for me. Does anyone know when my transit shows a new guy... my bday is may 8 1984 9:48am queens ny.... even if its years from now at least i could know there's hope

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posted March 04, 2004 04:49 PM         

So naive I'am.... that's why I came to u all 4 help. And I'm sorry Star lover I just thought it was ok to go since I brought my friend along. I'm so sorry

I appreciate all of your advice sooooo much .... it's beyond discription!

posted March 04, 2004 04:50 PM         

So naive I'am.... that's why I came to u all 4 help. And I'm sorry Starflower I just thought it was ok to go since I brought my friend along. I'm so sorry

I appreciate all of your advice sooooo much .... it's beyond discription!

posted March 04, 2004 06:05 PM         

If you have enough self-respect for yourself from within, you won't need to know every single thing about men to make good decisions about them.

What I mean is that even IF you are a little behind in terms of experience with guys, that shouldn't stop you from knowing when you're being mistreated by one of them.

Your own inner level of self-respect should set an alarm bell off within you that you need to move on from him JUST because you feel so insulted by his behavior.

I hope that you wake up soon and realize that this guy treated you like dirt and that you should feel a lot more insulted by him than you sound like you do right now.

I feel like maybe you don't have enough self-respect right now to really be able to feel strongly enough about how badly he treated you, and/or to feel strongly enough about how much better you deserve than him.

For me, there would be absolutely no question in my mind that this guy had treated me like crap, and that whatever it was "we had" before is OVER between us for good, but that's me.

Good Luck!!!

posted March 04, 2004 08:30 PM         

I am stunned. No wonder that the media likes to say "30 is the new 20" and that adolescence is being extended into late late 20s, according to current sociological thought........

posted March 04, 2004 10:22 PM         

you must be very scared and uncertain. i know i would be when i was 19. posting on the internet anonymously leads me to suspect you haven't told your mother or a trusted adult what happened. i also suspect there is a lot more you are not mentioning. may be out of fear and being embarrased.

i will probably sound like a controversial old lady saying this, but don't always listen and trust strangers --- especially on the internet. this website is no exception.

please call an organization that specializes in youth services. there are anonymous phone lines and kind, compassionate professionals that will give advice that suit your personal situation.

lots of light,