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Topic: why does my love not want me? HELP!!!!
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lotuss
Knowflake Posts: 24
From: The Netherlands
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted April 15, 2004 10:58 AM
 
My 5th house is in pisces. I think my attraction with the Leo is to do with my venus in Aries. My ex was a Sagittarius- i the most fun with him up to now. I said to the Leo - you are not ready. The reason is ; i believe my ex-partner expected to re-incarnate with me. I had wondered who my child would be many years ago! I came to this realisation after he left. Back to the discussion with Aselzion- powers of attraction of the mind. The leo knows this and perhaps doesn't like the idea, and so is backing off- who knows if he'll think about it seriously and come back to me? This is a difficulty for me to keep it secret or not? I don't know if it going to be like this or not. But it certainly opens up a new understanding of young widowhood!! I personally can't wait to test it out and see. I just need my loving partner - huh? back to you
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purplezen
Knowflake Posts: 392
From: outer space
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted April 20, 2004 06:05 PM
Lotuss, you sound a lot like me. I am an earth sign, a virgo, who falls for fire signs. My first & best love was a saggy. My second relationship kind of sucked and was with another virgo. My most recent love was a leo. It was very intense, and ended badly (twice!)...he was afraid to commit. It seemed like we were always breaking up and then making up. We dont even talk anymore. Good luck with your leo, but if I were you, I would let him come to you. Leos like a challenge. IP: Logged |
lotuss
Knowflake Posts: 24
From: The Netherlands
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted April 20, 2004 06:22 PM
PurplezenThanks for your reply. I like what you've written. I get the impression that this leo is a little bit intimidated by me. I have had more life experiences and he is feeling sorry for himself. The situation now is that it's over. I let him know my feelings. I'll not tolerate him seeing other girls. Concentrate on me. He rejected me quite harshly and permanently with words like- 'never, ever. Don't believe in meant to be' etc' He even threatened with lawyer (  ))) He is so childish! I've said he can contact me in the future but i'll not be contacting him again. I felt stronger again. Though this man is still very much on my mind as my lover. I can't believe that a 'hot' experience like this was never consummated. I still want this experience! Maybe it's better to state 'an experience like this' uh! reply again to this Give me all the details about your leos. The types they were. Mine is a software developer subtly geeky loves mountaineering.
Lotuss
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purplezen
Knowflake Posts: 392
From: outer space
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted April 21, 2004 06:18 PM
It sounds like that leo had some pretty harsh words for you (I can relate!). The first time me and that leo broke up, he told me he never wanted to talk to me again, that I was too emotional, that we were both too young to be in a committed relationship (he wants sex, just not a girlfriend!) anyway...a few months later he was back in my life with an apology, and all went well for about 6 months, and then he started acting weird again and avoiding me, and I got another letter that basically said "go away and leave me alone. we are too young, blah blah blah." I was sad for a while, but I know I am better off with someone that doesnt play head games. I know it is hard for you, but I would loook for someobe else besides this leo man. Not because he is a leo, but because he sounds like a jerk. no offense, but that is my opinion. as to what type my leo ex was, he was attractive, friendly, incredibly lazy, selfish, immature. hope this helps  IP: Logged |
lotuss
Knowflake Posts: 24
From: The Netherlands
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted April 22, 2004 05:06 AM
If I'd not thought my prayer was answered i'd have coem tothis conclusion earlier. Anyway. I think he has too much emotional baggage to carry and if he can't pick one girl to help him with it he's in trouble. I had the chance to write a lot to him.
I've found out in a past life he was my slave and i bestowed favours on him. I wouldn't normally believe this,if i hadn't observed that he has treated his ex-wife that way too. And i had moments where he was attending to me in that kind of way. It put doubt in my head at the time. He worships girls. He won't relate to me with equality and respect. He is now out of my life and i am looking for a better 'karmic' relationship with the man who is consciously improving his destiny. Thanks purplezen for letting me know about the leos in your life. I'll let you know if i hear from tis man again. I sort of expect it won't be until i've had child/ren or something like that. He needs soem serious growing up to do. Perhaps a breakdown would help. He's too fragmented to know what he is doing. I want my safe warm and affectionate love ........ bye for now
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purplezen
Knowflake Posts: 392
From: outer space
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted April 22, 2004 09:34 PM
Hey Lotuss, I am glad you are moving on. You deserve to be treated better. You deserve someone who can totally devote himself to you, without having to date other girls on the side! Don't worry, all Leo's arent like that. My mom is a leo is she is quite committed to my dad (a libra) take care and keep in touch IP: Logged |
lotuss
Knowflake Posts: 24
From: The Netherlands
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted April 23, 2004 02:02 AM
Yeah PurplezenEveryday is beginning to feel different. I'm back in charge of me. God bless you
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