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astro junkie
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posted June 10, 2004 01:45 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Neptune Lady -

After what you've been through, you've been truly blessed.

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pixelpixie
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posted June 10, 2004 09:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
Not too much related to this thread, but I wanted to say...
I just found out last night that my 'first' and the one I was in love with and connected to in childhood, and who was significant in my teen years, over and over again, with this incredible connection... he is a Pisces.
Makes total sense.
I didn't think I'd been with a Pisces, but I was reading through a very old journal, and there was his birthday. Now it is significant to me.....
We had a tumultuous few years together, and always went back.. always. Friends, but more. He was my first love. Even so far as when I was twenty........
So, now trhe astrologer in me understands..... Scorpio/Pisces. Now I know.

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Safat
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posted June 10, 2004 12:54 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Pisces man huh? No offence intended, but for me it was a bad idea

Everyone is different of course, but all I can say for myself is, never again. It is one thing to learn about the astro influences on us all. It is quite another to say "that's just how I am, I can't do anything about it". Personal responsibility is important in EVERY relationship. We all need to be "accepted" for who we are, however in my experience with Pisces, it is used as an excuse to have things their own way, not putting much effort into mastering those aspects of themselves that hurt those they love. Sorry all you Pisces, I realize there are lots of other factors in play, but I do believe that nobody of any sign has the right to emotionally torture their "loved one"

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neptune lady
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posted June 10, 2004 11:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Safat, I agree with you, but I am also wary against generalizing all Pisceans as two timers. Infidelity is not necessarily restricted to Pisceans. And no one who loves you will torture you by cheating on you. And if he is, then he ain't worth your time!

Thanks, astrojunkie, for your kind comments. I truly feel blessed

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Safat
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posted June 11, 2004 02:44 AM           Edit/Delete Message
You are correct Neptune, and I realize that how I wrote what I was trying to say didn't come out quite right, and could be seen as less-than-kind, and painting with a broad brush stroke. Of course they don't two-time any more or less than anyone else. I do also realize, and made mention of, that there are lots of other factors involved, and also, I was not thinking of two-timing, but of what I have read from the other posts to this thread about the natural secretive inclinations of Pisces, particularly how Astrid described in the first place what it's been like for her, which is what it was like for me, and the way Quiksilver explained it from the Pisces perspective, which was exactly how I felt and understood him while I was with my Pisces, even though it was difficult to get him to open up about what I knew and sensed. He called all of his *groupies* "little sisters", and I understood that he needed the emotional "boost" it gave him, and I tried to gently make him aware that his "friends" didn't necessarily feel "sisterly" towards him and that his overtures could be seen as encouraging them (which of course with some it did), but if I so much as left the house for an evening with the folks, he was online making new "sisters". I adored him, and felt adored by him, every minute we were together, but coming home after a few hours for a rare visit with family to a sink full of dishes when I had worked all day and he had played with his computer toys to find him chatting with a chickie-poo, well, sometimes I really did feel like hollering "grow up!" It's stretching the limits, in my view.

Nobody can feel too good about themselves if, no matter how how much 110% attention they pay their partner, it isn't enough. I've never met anyone needier than my Pisces in my life (and I'm half-way through it), again though, not saying all Pisces are needy! I loved him and gave him every ounce of attention he craved, even though it meant losing quite a bit of touch with friends and family, and not working as many hours as I could have to get beyond the paycheck-to-paycheck existence, and while we were together everyone, as well as myself, saw a devoted, loving, adoring man. But nobody can give someone attention 24/7, and I just think personal responsibility for self-awareness and the consideration of others' needs is critically important if a relationship is going to be a two-way street. We were married but needed to separate what was supposed to be temporarily for financial reasons (he had to get work, I couldn't, nor did I think it was healthy to, support the both of us) and inside two measly months one of his groupies got to him and I may as well never have existed, despite all his words about eternal love, and honor. I'm just getting over it now, and we've been split for nearly two and a half years. It can be very hard on the person who is trying so hard to stay close while letting go, day and night, and I really sympathized with Astrid. As you can imagine, it hit a nerve when I read her post, but I meant no disrespect in general, just wanted to add my two cents.

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astro junkie
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posted June 11, 2004 06:34 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Safat -

I too can sympathize with all this talk of male Pisces. Are there any in the room? Well, it doesn't matter because what I'm going to say is true to my experience, and as we all know, Pisces are the most mutable of all. They are incredibly resilient and completely nonjudgemental, most notably, when it comes to themselves.

I think Scorpio's and Pisces make a really good pair, though, and it just goes to show how much power is behind those poker faces.

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Safat
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posted June 11, 2004 10:40 AM           Edit/Delete Message
I agree Astro. One of the things that saddened me the most, and that was the hardest to get past, was exactly that "unjudgemental of themselves" aspect.

I think my Scorpio Asc and my Gemini moon enabled me to have the depth of understanding of his internal workings that I did while we were together. It was my Aries sun, after he had gone, that had such a hard time with comprehending, after I had been the one catering to his attention needs for several years while keeping the home ship afloat and glued together as well, how he could be so blind as to not see that he was not the only one who had been hurting from not being together, and felt like a wounded child from his bewildering and confusing remarks that somehow I was responsible for our having to be in different places, and his insinuations that I should have done even more than I had done to prevent a split from occuring, when ironically, all along, I would have worked an additional 20 hours a week had he not needed my attention so badly and constantly in the first place.

I also agree that if anyone can hold it together with a Pisces, it would be a Scorpio, and I sincerely hope it works out for them.

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neptune lady
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posted July 03, 2004 12:05 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Hugs to you Safat (( ))

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neptune lady
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posted July 03, 2004 12:05 PM           Edit/Delete Message
And Astrid

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chrissymgreen
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posted September 09, 2004 11:26 AM           Edit/Delete Message
pixelpixie: regarding your chart, one reason that you might feel an affinity for the pisces mindset is that you have two important aspects to neptune: neptune trine ascendant and venus conjunct neptune! at least, that's my thought...

-chrissy

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astro junkie
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posted September 09, 2004 01:27 PM           Edit/Delete Message
ChrissyM -

Where did you come from? Hee hee ...

You said you think those aspects with Pixie are strong, and was wondering what you thought of this. I'm a Libra, I have in my Natal :::

Neptune -
Conjunct Mercury
Sextile Venus
Conjunct Mars
Sexitile Pluto
and
Square MC

Thanks!

.gloria

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starscrowned
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posted January 11, 2010 07:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starscrowned     Edit/Delete Message
Hi everyone. This is my first time here and I need some serious help. I know very little about this kind of thing. I’m a Taurus female 5/17/84 who has been dating a Pisces male 2/28/78 for more than a year now, off and on.

When we first started dating he was very cuddly and kissy, and we had sex all the time, but I only saw him maybe twice a week and we fought a lot. he had his seperate life and I had mine. Then about 4 months in he started playing the typical pisces head-games and I didnt understand the pisces at all so i became incredibly insecure and jealous. I didn’t understand why he wouldnt add me to his facebook, why he still flirted with exes and kept errotic pics of ex gfs. I broke up with him 4 times now and in September asked him never to call me again because i was through.

In late October (after 3+ weeks) he practicaly begged me to come back…i was still in love with him so I did. Things have been very different. We practically live together, though we have seperate apartments and we do everything together. I understand him so much more so there is no more drama, but he wont kiss me at all!! We have sex MAYBE twice a month, and we only cuddle when he’s been drinking. I dont understand…he always initiates me coming over and our relationship seems fine, but I dont understand why we aren’t more physical? I’m afraid to say anything because i know he’ll either divert or lie to not hurt me, and I’m afraid to initiate sex at at all…does he not want me? is he only with me out of fear of being alone?
i never know what to believe sometimes. one day he’ll tell me he’s never liked anyone as much as he likes me (he even said "I love you" once) and asks me to move away with him, the next day he doesn’t want me to sleep over and seems distant. We don’t fight at all anymore but we dont do anything else either (hardly)… When I’m with him I never suspect cheating, although I have a strong feeling he was with someone else when I first met him and I’ve a gut feeling he was with someone else in october when we weren’t technically together. I suspect she was the reason for the fighting and breakup.

I am more than willing to work with him if I only knew what he wanted from me, you know? If he wants space bc he needs space, totally ok with that. But I just don’t get it sometimes. I am very giving and understanding, but I have needs too… Someone please please help.

I've asked several sites and no one can answer me. The Pisces men on this site seem amazingly insightful. I would SOOO apprecaite your help on this! I can't stop crying and its becoming overwhelming.

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GypseeWind
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posted January 13, 2010 11:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message
If anyone figures out a Pisces, please tell me too!!! I'm really interested in Astro Junkies statment about playing games.

I mean, are they playing games for the sake of playing, or is more like playing games for the sake of testing? In that way, I usually think of Scorpio men (*sigh* the scorpio men that I'VE known, no, not all of them) but they will push you away to see if you come back, now does Pisces do that, or are they even aware that they are doing this?

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starscrowned
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posted January 15, 2010 11:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for starscrowned     Edit/Delete Message
My Pisces does that but he also has a scorpio moon

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GypseeWind
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posted January 15, 2010 12:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message
lol, mine has Scorpio Asc.

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mysterythink
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posted January 15, 2010 11:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mysterythink     Edit/Delete Message
I'm a pisces with a sagitarius moon and a leo ascendent. So in other words... super emotionally sensitive, extremely proud, and known by my family and friends as the "sensitive, silent warrior".

I'm still trying to figure myself out! But it is true... Pisces are wishy-washy, and definitely moody. And we love people the way hippies do. Forgiving easily, and others either are confused by it, appreciate it, or take advantage of it. Pisceans need to be careful, though it is hard when your feelings for people are genuine.

Why on earth is it like this? I've always admired my Aries brother and Taurus sister. They seem to be able to butt heads with people, stand up for what is right, and laugh when someone hurls insults at them. Me? I just melt into a pool of tears, or become silent to the point of seeming arrogant.

I dated a Piscean man for 4 months, and let me tell you...what an experience! His rising is Aries, and his moon is Taurus. So in other words, steadfast, confrontational but super sensitive and oh my god... the MOOD SWINGS!

He drove me crazy. Still does. I've never felt such passion and idealized love for someone and at the same time such frustration. Such a good guy who will be a great father, very loving and stern at the same time.

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depth
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posted March 08, 2010 01:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for depth     Edit/Delete Message
my virgo guy has cancer moon & pisces asc(neptune conj uranus in 11th)...
em a sag with virgo moon & aqua asc(uran conj neptune in 12H).
we've been together for 7 months in a LDR & everytime we meet,everything seems fine.
i'm his 1st gf & he's my 1st serious relationship material. he has those puppy eyes dat drive me nuts but em yet to understand him. em sorta fine with him having "crushes" but him flirting around(which he fortunately doesn't) is so not cool. after reading this thread,i think i need to be a bit more careful....

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