posted May 26, 2004 07:26 PM         

"OK Sally, I'm off to Jills's for dinner. She's a great cook. Really enjoyed our discussion, you're so intellectual---did I every tell you that? I wouldn't say it if it wasn't the absolute truth. Bye now, see you tomorrow. I'd really like your thoughts on Cicero."

"Great dinner Jill. You know I brag on your cooking to everyone. Fantastic, did anyone ever tell you you should be running your own restaurant? Have to run now. Promised Mary I'd jog on the beach with her before sunset. She's in great shape you know. Bye now."

"Don't know how you do it Mary. We've run at least 5 mile in the sand and you don't have a hair out of place. You really energize me, everyone says you should have your own health spa. Oh, I'd love to go over to your place for a drink but I'm off to see Alice. We really enjoy cuddling up together on the sofa and watching football. See you tomorrow."

"What a game Alice. I thought you were going to reach into the TV and slap the crap out of the ref for blowing that call. Did I ever tell you how much I enjoy the time we spend together? Just take my word for it sweetie! Have to jet now. Promised Carol I'd spend the night with her. She's soooo sexy, my God I just get lost in those big eyes of hers. I'll meet you tomorrow evening for the Jets game, bye now."

"Have to tell you Carol, I just love your tousled look when you wake up in the morning and that little smile on your face while you're sleeping, dynamite dear, grrrrrrrrrr. Did I ever tell you you're the sexiest woman alive, believe it! Have to zip on out, I'm famished and Jill promised to make waffles for breakfast. Great cook you know. See you tonight sweetie, let's try something different, what say? Bye!

Perhaps I need to rethink my outdated notions about one woman filling all those slots in my life. Thanks for giving me the right perspective on things.

posted May 26, 2004 09:34 PM         

It's true sometimes we all look for one person to our everything.

But again everyone is good at something and their life revolves around that.

Remember that my 7th house is ruled by Gemini. So I get talkative, changeable lovers, who always want something different.
Difficult for my old fashioned Taurus sun but I can't be too demanding or poof they're gone.

So, yes I think men especially are a little demanding of women, since some cook, some do not, some work out, some do not, see what I mean? Some men like to party, some stay home and watch TV, I can't have two men, so all I can do is accept what a man has to offer.

Waffles sound good though, it's a real blessing when he/she can do breakfast and really like doing it. The goal is to find a lover who loves doing those things, not just for a little while.
Our fixed suns make us want to wait a while before changing our minds...and fixed sun signs are not so good at being assertive and vocal about little things they like.

I don't think it's right to be miserable just for the sake of being in love, but it's a fine line, I know before your lover gets insecure.

I am dealing with that in the Gemini now, sometimes I can get flippant and he gets insecure. He thinks I am acting tough, and he gets very worried when I do that. I forget I have to focus on the small things, and show more vulnerability because I think as a woman, I am already naturally vulnerable.

Of course that's just a mental block, it's not true, men are just as vulnerable.

posted May 27, 2004 12:15 AM         

I have Taurus in the 7th but I don't attract Taurus, not in the least. Usually it's Leo, Aquarius or Aries, sometimes Libra.

Actually, I don't have any trouble making up my mind. Nor any problem asking for what I want. Some are confused as to what they really want and some are less than forthright about asking.

posted May 27, 2004 08:25 AM         

The first boyfriend who made me happy was a Leo and he didn't waffle either, two weeks after we met he showed me his mother's wedding dress. That's why so many of my oldest friends have Leo moon, sun or mercury. But I am not the most constant person in romance it's true, I have been told. I don't like to take time away from my family and friends.