posted May 11, 2004 01:57 PM         

1. It is important that a man helps you around the house and has a job.

2. It is important that a man makes you laugh.

3. It is important to find a man you can count on and doesn't lie to you.

4. It is important that a man loves you and spoils you.

posted May 25, 2004 10:50 AM         

It's important that a man respects you,

it's important that a man has stamina,

sex is a given:>

posted May 25, 2004 10:56 AM         

It's important that a man respects you,

it's important that a man has stamina,

sex is a given:>

posted May 25, 2004 11:30 AM         

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sex is a given:>

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Not when the "headache" defense is deployed

posted May 25, 2004 11:59 AM         

I've had that headache ploy thrown my way,
and the TV schedule!

posted May 25, 2004 07:08 PM         

Never heard of a man using the "not tonight, I've got a headache" excuse.

posted May 25, 2004 10:18 PM         

The Taurus has to do the serving of those snacks so that cuts down the time available, for romance:> Movie theaters are more fun.

The best romance is out of the house, or even outdoors, too many distractions at home.

The only time I have a headache is when I've been yelling, or angry. My best partners could out do me in the passion department and loved to fight, but then after the romance, I stayed mad.

For that reason I tend to have more sex when I have a headache.

Forget it, let's go back to the several men theory again, a little goes a long way too, who needs to buy the cow to get a little milk?

Give me five men with a little kiss from each one:>

Natasha

posted May 26, 2004 12:44 AM         

And here you girls are talking about having a different man for each of the qualities you want Now if a man said something like that, you'd call him a MCP.

posted May 26, 2004 11:00 AM         

It's true that men are afraid of women sometimes, but men and women are equally afraid of rejection sexually. Usually when men and women fight about sex it's about something else, usually money or relatives.

Fear of talking about what you want to talk about and beating around the bush can make a woman really hostile and have a headache.
Then the insults fly...
A MCP to one person is a straight shooter to another, a flirt is a waste of time to another..

Everyone has different styles of loving, the challenge is accepting that.

In my opinion, if two people have different styles of loving it's too hard to make it work, sexual and financial differences are hard to accept.

I can make it work, with anyone who has a different style of loving because i have practiced so much acceptance in that department, but sometimes it's nice to be pushy too.

Yes pixie, a little tongue;>
that's all I need....
I would be faithful.. I would keep the same 5:>

Natasha

posted May 26, 2004 11:51 AM         

If a woman or man asks for too much or too little to make you prove your love, then find another lover. I don't know what you call that? But when a person does that to me, wears me out wanting me to prove my love, I find it self centered. I have tried to change my own ideas that way, so respect and full appreciation are part of the package
Makes sense?

BTW on an unrelated note, the Gemini recently sprained his tongue kissing me and I felt so bad. Especially since he blamed fme or days. He needs to stop trying to prove himself, even if it's silly because otherwise he will get resentful, so it's up to me to slow him down. Anything a person can use imagination wise to slow things down is okay in my books..

posted May 26, 2004 02:26 PM         

(everything is about sex except sex)

.gloria

posted May 26, 2004 04:32 PM         

We were kissing, like I just said, he is a very energetic mercury driven kisser so I guess he was doing tongue acrobatics. He sprained the muscle on the bottom, and was pretty irritated about it. We pretty much do a lot of kissing, which I am sure frustrates him but waiting is good. People ought to do more kissing, especially in public. There are kiss-a-thons in Paris, I tell him.

He's kind of vanilla...after all he IS an air sign..I thought he would be a good kisser and he is. I like it when I'm right...sometimes people have one special skill..heee heeee

I know you will have a response to that, Vanilla!