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Topic: Is it better to be married or single?
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lioneye68
Knowflake Posts: 3443
From: Canada
Registered: Apr 2003
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posted July 03, 2004 10:59 PM
 
Marry carefully. That's all I have to say. Be Saturnian about marriage, and you'll have better odds of success. Avoid doing it before you turn 28 to 30-ish. Honestly. But go ahead and have a baby sooner, if that comes your way.  *I* certainly wouldn't judge you. IP: Logged |
Yang
Knowflake Posts: 228
From: Somewhere over the Clouds
Registered: May 2004
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posted July 04, 2004 05:50 AM
I just can't see myself waking up next to the girl I have married, for the rest of my life,whether she is my soul mate or not.Itis scary in a way.
Any way ,I am only 20 and shouldn't be thinking about marriage as I have my whole life in front of me.IP: Logged |
sthenri
Moderator Posts: 1665
From: Montreal, Canada
Registered: May 2003
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posted July 04, 2004 04:59 PM
Whether you think about marriage or not, other people will be thinking about marriage and you, it's part of human nature. Marriage is a philosophy, a sacrament, a piece of paper, it's many different things. It's a value, or property depending on your culture. Everyone wants to experience marriage, at least once.
I can't say the North Node is linked to marriage but it is linked to your path, if it's in Pisces, you may find it hard to commit to one path. Or at least you question the nature of things. Once someone depends on your emotionally, you will have to talk about marriage at some point anyway, and no one is totally self sufficient. This is a harder question for those who already have family responsibilities or heavy work issues. Marriage to some is simply a bond that reinforces yoru partner's belief that you will not leave. Absolutely, you get what you give, so if you are not interested in commitment, then no one is goign to commit to you either. To commit is to focus on, or spend energy on. I think the answer to this question, is what do you like to spend your time doing? Single related activities or married type activities? To find out , talk to married people and single people you know and view their lifestyle. I like married people's lifestyle, but that will never be mine, because I am not a great cook/housekeeper. There are people who are not single or married, they are in the process. Natasha
Taurus
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astro junkie
Knowflake Posts: 2881
From: orlando, fl
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted July 04, 2004 09:15 PM
"...Whether you think about marriage or not, other people will be thinking about marriage and you..."I had a synchronistic moment when I read that, Natasha. It was exactly what I was trying to say to her, but couldn't figure out a unique way of saying it. That is to say, love will find a way. .gloria ------------------
it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness... IP: Logged | |
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