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scorpbaby
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Posts: 70
From: Ny, USA
Registered: Jun 2004

posted August 23, 2004 10:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scorpbaby     Edit/Delete Message
I'm confused right now. There's this guy who I had a brief 1 month flirtation with before summer vacation. He's an Aqaurius, he's very nice but there wasn't any chemistry btw us but I still went along w/ it! It was shallow of me to pretend.
Now I'm back at school and he called me to hang out, I don't know what to do. It's hard for me to say no bc I feel bad. I'm pretty sure all he's after is a fling and I'm looking for something more. And he doesn't give me those feeling, ya know the butterflies. Those are important right?
I've never had a boyfriend before but I know in my soul what true love is like. And I know sometimes just by eye contact when a guy is someone I could connect with. I just never pursue.
I'm craving something I've never had, is that even possible? Like craving a hershey's bar when you've never had chocolate.
I just keep waiting, and waiting. I don't know where "he" is.

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sthenri
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Posts: 2004
From: Montreal, Canada
Registered: May 2003

posted August 24, 2004 07:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
True attraction is true attraction, how you express it doesn't change your motivation. When you get a boyfriend, you will just express what you felt when you met him, only at a deeper level.

The reasons we express ourselves are not complicated, to share and receive love. When we start expressing feelings, things get complicated. Tell him you want to share your life with someone, but you are not ready right now to have a boyfriend. You welcome his friendship.

If you say I do not feel love for you, his ego will be wounded, but if you say you are were not looking for a boyfriend when you met him and didn't mean to act otherwise, he will forgive.

Take Care,
Natasha

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scorpbaby
Knowflake

Posts: 70
From: Ny, USA
Registered: Jun 2004

posted August 24, 2004 11:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for scorpbaby     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Natasha~
I think all he wants is a fling anyway. I'll try to not respond so much to his advances and maybe he'll get the hint.

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